First of all I wish you both well whoever the man is. Secondly I have no wish to hear from any third parties who he is or anything else that is personal to you. That goes for any other couples business too. Online relationships via dating sites will forever be fruaght with possible interfearance due to the dating sites very nature. The road leading to a relationship developing will inevitably be travelled with many other people involved along the way. Be they other chat friends,possible other interested people from both sides and most probably "mistakes made" that take some explaining. We are all adults but we should be allowed forgiveness if people feel agrieved because one person or another has flirted with them leading up to there union. But for me one thing that I will always be wary about is openly conducting a relationship in the forums. It only invites attention. Cheers you two.
I agree bent wangled. Communication is a solid foundation in which all good relationships are built on. There little point in being a great communicator in everything else if you run away or shout down any problems that need talked through.
Of course I do not feel good when someone I quite like hates me,but to be honest if I have invested little or no energy in them then I do not give a monkeys chuff what they think. It is there problem because hating someone involves them spending way too much of there time and energy than is healthy for them. So they can crack on!
I often forget to take a razor with me which forces me to use there used razor or ladyshave. This I do for good reason.If I get a rash afterwards it tells me pretty quickly that I may have an intollerance to her so I never go back again. Simples!!
Oh the southern English wench has stuck her eligant ore in! Hello Bint wangled. Sounds a little bit like me,well ballanced,I have a chip on both shoulders!
Lovely post and very eliquently put druidess. But do you not think that the more we get to know each other then the more we get stuck in our ways...thus cancelling out any benifits our wisdom has brought us?
So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself. But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
The biggest thing that I find on line is people who just come to conclusions about me based on my posting style and simply expect me to be that way only in personal conversations with them. Everyone has many sides to there personality and expecting a person to only be one dimentional simply to suit there expectations of you is selfish and shows immaturity.
I pop in from time to time because the forums are a curiosity for me,and no I generally do not take it too seriously.To take it too seriously involves too much hopes riding on online relationships as apposed to real life. But if it happens it happens.
Gilly once said to me that she could only offer me a 68 tonight so would it be ok if she owes me one? I told her she was being rediculous because that page of my carma sutra was missing and no way could i remember what position 68 was!!!
I had a 10 month relationship with a formite from the other dating site forum that i was in.We were very well known as was our relationship. For the first 2 months we had no bitterness or nastyness whatsoever while having seperate profiles.Same for the next few months when we had a joint profile before we left the site. My point is how come this site seems different from what ive read today? Is it due to the way people flaunt there relationship in the forum? We were known as a couple very quickly due to us hosting events for the site.But we very rarely made reference to each other in threads. Maybe it is not the fact that high profile posters are in a relationship but more to do with how they conducted themselves?
I can state quite catagorically that neither my picture or my age has changed one iota from the time I last posted on this thread! Only my spelling has got worse.
Look.There is absolutely no hidden issues here for me. What we both posted is there for anyone reading to digest if they wished too. Unlike what you made clear earlier,we differ because im happy to believe that the reader will be able to make a reasoned opinion on my posts merits and shortcomings. As for what you have written in your later post? I will treat it with the contempt it deserves.
Again I think your spot on too. saseez The childrens age and there dependancy SHOULD a key issue here and SHOULD rightly be the basis of each individuals decisions. Not selfish minded thought proccesses.
How condescendingly patronising can anyone get? You are suggesting that anyone who is not in a long term relationship is incapable of "peeling back the layers" and seeing what those in a relationship can. To suggest that everyone of us not in a relationship have no moral judgement is an insult to everyone who dissarees with you. Now who has not "peeled back the layers and examined" here?
Because they have invested there lifetime in you just as you should have invested your life in them.Not just the next partner who may or may not cut it with you long term!
As for your cryptic second paragragh? They were ment to have meaning otherwise I would not have typed them so that was a pretty pointless statement.
As it was in direct responce to me then it should be irrifutable,as was your jumping around the office clapping at his reply. I am far from sensitive to what is said toward me online,however im not quite as green as im cabbage looking! But no worries.
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and seeing what those in a relationship can.
RE: CS Couple Announcement
First of all I wish you both well whoever the man is.Secondly I have no wish to hear from any third parties who he is or anything else that is personal to you.
That goes for any other couples business too.
Online relationships via dating sites will forever be fruaght with possible interfearance due to the dating sites very nature.
The road leading to a relationship developing will inevitably be travelled with many other people involved along the way.
Be they other chat friends,possible other interested people from both sides and most probably "mistakes made" that take some explaining.
We are all adults but we should be allowed forgiveness if people feel agrieved because one person or another has flirted with them leading up to there union.
But for me one thing that I will always be wary about is openly conducting a relationship in the forums.
It only invites attention.
Cheers you two.