My ex wife is black.My two girls are mixed raced.They have been brought up in a multi cultural society with parents who have simply taught them to take each individual on there own merits. They have also been brought up to have a little understanding but with contempt for those who do not view fellow humans in that way.
Even if those displaying there bigotted opinions are supposed mature adults.
I have used the IM in here maybe twice only.But I have just noticed that some people have tried to IM me without me being notified? Is it a pop up issue or setting issue?
Make a comment about what is said in his profile or if he is a forum poster then make reference to his posts. And do not give out a line that indicates you want to move on to instant messaging in your first message. If I think there spammers im as rude and as crude as I can be to them.Or I just ignore and block them.
Is this really the level of incompetance in adult relationsgips that we should expect from a dating site? Days of mindlessness from the op and her partner a la Springer show but without the whole croud hissing and booing in unison. It just drags out!!
In all honesty the main regrets ive had is not taking the chances that ive had due to my own feelings of right and wrong as well as my fears of setting myself up for a fall or knock back even when it appeared i was being given the green light by women when I was younger. I just wish I had been more confident and less self protecting and considerate of others. But the stupid thing is that I know that I would continue to be the same. Unless someone comes into my life like my ex wife and gives me no reason to think that way.
It is hardly possitive to entertain negative thoughts about your past once the issues are delt with and are history. Of course many of us have very real issues that still remain with our ex's now but surely time allows us to get a perspective of most of those issues? I will always adore my ex wife because we were together over 15 years and to feel negative towards ger is to feel negative about those 15 years. We lasted that long for bloody good reasons.
I have to be blunt here op. The trouble that you have is that you are only in your early 20's. Guys around your age have the option of time to settle down with someone that will not have kids already. It is a reality of having children so young and not lasting with the childs father. I am so sorry for saying that.
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RE: The real age of the poster above you....
Good god.What bestbefore what other parts of the uk are an hour ahead of where I live?Your about 40 bbf?