I think that women are much more inventive in weadling out information from a man than men are. They very clevery construct a conversation in a relaxed manor that allows men to give out so much more info than they intend too! That is because we men generally do not analize the same things in the same way as women do. So be bloody carefull the next time a women asks you a few "simple streight forward" questions. And look behind you too!!!
My age is what I say it is and my pics are as ive dated them.I see little gain in being deceptive if you are genuine about simply being honest. However I met someone a few years ago who I found very attractive and she had stated she was 38 when she was really 34! This,she explained,was because she liked being complimented on how good she looked for her age!! I still can not work out the benifit in her logic?
What style of music opitomised Elvis? Was it his rock and roll,gospel or ballads for you? And which track is your favourite? One of my favourites is "In the getto".
Thank you for your clear and very imformative post Merriweather. This policy seems to be a short sighted policy based on popularity and the short term benifit of your countries government with little or no thought to the long term needs of either single mothers,there offspring or the country? Or is that to harsh a statement?
I am in the uk.Could you please expand on this quote so as we who are not Canadian will understand the implications and incentives a little clearer please? This quote gives me the impression that the Canadian Government are actively encouraging single people to have children regardless of there circumstances as it believes it is of a longterm benifit to the country?
I am not putting the responsibility of contraception on women alone at all but any responsible women would ENSURE there safe from conception as it is there bodies and they should not just trust a man to take responsibility. I honestly do think that some women simply use motherhood as a gateway to what they hope is a long term relationship,a council house or simply to have a little bundle of joy that loves them unconditionally without considering the downside of there actions.
But is that not where some women's attitude is wrong? They pop out children regardless of if they are financially or emotionally capable of providing for them.
Should women not wait until they feel as if there in a loving relationship where child provision is a shared responsibility without draining the states resources?
Your in box must be bulging because i sent you a polite message re one of your posts about 8 weeks ago when i first joined and you only responded a few days ago with the heading " sorry i was slow to.."
Us men are much more hard wired and able to simply move on without any damage from relationships. This is the case with chat friendships too if they falter. Do you think what ive said is a fair point?
Hello morgan I think that what does not help regarding young people in our country is the fact that we have a very accute housing shortage and house prices are too high for most young people. Many feel that the only way to gain freedom and independance is by becoming pregnant and obtain a council house.
Lovely post and I tip my hat to you. My question is more about those who have CHOSEN to have a child/children without having any stability to provide for it.
No it is not.It all stems from the same thing. Women becoming pregnant either for there own need to have a baby at any cost or to trap a man into loyalty without any consideration to its possible future,or there own future.
Should women have children if they can not support them properly? Do all children not deserve to be brought into this world in a safe,secure and healthy environment with two supporting parents? And is it right for single women who do not work to allow themself to become pregnant?
The least controlling of people can come across to begine with as controlling if they like you a lot but are insecure about what they mean to you. At the beginning what anyone who is feeling hopefull or serious about someone wants is reassurance that they will not be made a fool of. In some instances these insecurities can translate to being controll issues when they are really not. But it is very wise to keep your radar primed to detect any serious controll issues. Life can be so confusing and frustrating sometimes!!
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Elvis's Anniversery-which song/s opitomised him?
Thank you for that link Cameraman.In tribute to the anniversery of his death It would be great to see a few more links to his best work.