It's just another way for those accusing you of having the attitude problem, to control you because they have lost all sense of the facts at hand...You see it alot in the forums here when someone feels as though they have a superior position on a topic and then they are presented with facts that refute their position or belief.
I don't think you should give up at all....From the sounds of things, you are both well on the way of building a strong base together. If anything what you are going through now, could be beneficial. If you can both survive this together, that says alot about the true strength of the relationship that you may have together should you decide to actually get into one.
I personally say give it a go with one another, yes , it will be tough to see one another on a consistant basis...But if you really both want to be with one another, it will happen.
Alot of times, he could take leave and not even have to pay to come back to the states to be honest. He can take what are called "hops". Basically means he gets on a plane the military was sending stateside anyways, and he just "hops" on. I honestly do not remember the exact procedure of getting these flights, but his command should definitely help him out.
I do say, if you do get into this with him, make sure he has plenty of leave accured before he schedules a hop flight, they tend to be unreliable for the whole flight...meaning, he could be asked to depart the aircraft at any of the destinations that the plane heads to as well...however from Germany, he could easilly get flights to Dover, Delaware. and then pay for a flight from there, to wisconsin.
I guess what I'm getting at is, if you both truely want it to work together, it will, it's not all that difficult. he could even fly you out there to be honest at discounted military rates (if he pays for the ticket).
I wish you both luck, and I hope you continue this relationship because as i said, it sounds as if there is a solid base to work something out on.
Always remember this one thing however, you need to do what is good for you in the end, not him.
99% of the time...I am like that as well...however...there is that 1% that really pisses me off enough where I tend to lose myself in the moment (good example was yesterday morning & this morning )
But in the example i gave above, that's exactly what I did, I just walked away from it with no regrets.
Kid, you & I agree at times & disagree at times...but I have to say , what English said is so true...I recently went through something similar on here recently and said screw it for just that reason. They however, seem to like to get a dig every now & then but it's best to just let it go because as English very well put...Do you really want someone in your life that ditches on the first bump? Imagine if you really needed them and they did that.
Hope all is well Kid...Even if we don't always agree, definitely think highly of ya at times.
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