That's the one thing I like about cold weather, you can always put more on to get warm. In heat like that, you can only take so much off to get cool and it still be legal to walk around in public.
Well Lonely, I think in a sense, everyone has been in that situation regardless of the distance that may seperate them from their signifigant other. From my perspective, it could be something as simple as he may be feeling unsure with the relationship and possibly confused as to where it is going and whether it can sustain itself.
However, if those are the cases, then he needs to open up a line of communication and express the things that may be going on inside of him emotionally. If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't worry too much, but I also wouldn't take it lightly either (which it seems you are not). If I was you, I could continue to keep those avenues of communication open with one another as long as you can possibly can handle it emotionally yourself, because in the end, you have to do what is best for you. If I was you, I would give him some space, but also try and find that fine line of also trying to contact him. I know it can be an emotional roller coaster in a situation as this, but in the end, that's all you can do is, try.
I guess there really is no real advice here except to try and find that fine line of giving him some space & also showing him you care. Wish you the very best because it really seems like you care about him very much, and if that is the case, then he is a fool to act like this.
Welcome to the group, meds are dispensed hourly...Feel free to jump in the mix and be who you are. Don't let anyone talk down to you or feel as though your opinion doesn't matter, because it does. Instead like I said, grab a handful of meds and go crazy with the rest of us...
Fair warning, if you continue on, there is no going back, you will be one of us...muahahhaha
But seriously, welcome to the group (yes I was lazy and I copied & pasted...lol)
Welcome to the group, meds are dispensed hourly...Feel free to jump in the mix and be who you are. Don't let anyone talk down to you or feel as though your opinion doesn't matter, because it does. Instead like I said, grab a handful of meds and go crazy with the rest of us...
Fair warning, if you continue on, there is no going back, you will be one of us...muahahhaha
Like the one above poster, I came back hoping to reconnect with some friends I used to have, they for the most part are no longer here, however there are some that I really did miss that are still here.
That being said, I am looking foward to the challenge of making some new friends because in the end, it never hurts to have too many.
Welcome to the group, meds are handed out hourly...Feel free to speak your mind in the forums and don't let people either talk down to you or scare ya away. Just be yourself and you should do fine...Once again, welcome :)
Always ask questions....Communication is the key to anything. Whether it be a relationship, figuring out a new job or anything really that you aren't sure of.
I personally don't believe we are in a depression to be honest. Being on the lower rung of the economic ladder, I am still able to afford the different luxeries in life while keeping food in my mouth. Things may get tight from time - time, but I am able to make ends meet. It may take a minor juggling act at times, but again, I get by just fine day - day.
Personally I think the war in Iraq was basically a way for us to apply pressure on Iran. Had the war in Iraq gone as planned, we would have had a secure and effective route into Iran. Things just did not go as planned. Bush would have been hailed a hero had Iraq been toppled in the 2 months that was proposed by the military. In the years leading up to before 9/11, it was a popular idea that we should go back into Iraq, to "finish" the job. Again , things did not go as planned.
Iran would have had no choice but to go to the diplomacy route(concerning their nuclear program) had we successfully controlled Iraq. We would have been able to attack from the north & from the south and eastern flanks, had Iraq fallen quietly. ImaNutJob would have had no choice but to either face a severe military attack, or drop the nuclear program...But alas, things did not go according to plan.
This is where I think Bush is responsible for the operations in Iraq. He did not have a plan B. Everyone knows, especially in military leadership, that you always need a plan B , because when you don't have a plan B, plan A always fails. Noone knew what to do once the insurgency was in its infancy except to declare victory and hope it went away. Again, things did not go according to plan.
Do I approve of the war in Iraq & Afghanistan? Yep, I do. I'd rather fight the terrorists over there in the desert instead of on the streets of America like countries like Israel are forced to do at times. Do I think it's worth american boys to die for? Yep, I sure do. As someone that was in the military, every soldier knows that when they sign that dotted line, they are potentially going to die for their country. War sucks and the brutality of it is horrible & horrendous, but sometimes a dead soldier is worth it instead of 100 dead civilians at home. It sounds cold & callous, but in the end, every soldier knows that he may have to potentially give his life in defense of his country. We have yet to suffer a successful terror attack since 9/11 and I'd like to think that alot of that has to do with the fact that our men & women in uniform are keeping the barbarians at the gate.
^ this is actual news...thankyou tom...Although I know you come from a republican point of view, at least you share actual news instead of propaganda skewed to look as a fact.
To comment on your post however, I agree with this strongly because we are in America, and American law should be what people are judged on, not any religeous law or laws used in another country
Not to mention I guess I hope maybe one time I will pop into one of these, and someone actually is saying something new...Instead it's the same Democratic & Republican drones spewing the same message of propaganda about their party...Doesn't noone use any credible sources either. 99% of the time it's from some leftwing or rightwing oriented site, that is obviously biased towards a certain point of view. I think I've seen maybe 3-5 people that are actually independant thinkers post in these threads in the 3 or 4 years that I've been on this site.
ok, what you don't seem to grasp is, the front page is plastered with these threads , kinda hard NOT to see them. and it's the same 4 or 5 people in each thread, spouting the same things, sighting the same sources in each of them.
However, like I just said in a different thread (if you could get out of the brain dead political ones you probably would have seen it). It's been the same threads for about 2 years now...
1. Political threads 2. Say anything threads 3. Same not funny photo threads 4. Word association threads 5. what are listening to threads 6. the ever so popular (although they seem to pop up less) how big do you women like your guy to be or how big are your breasts threads (these I actually find worse than the political threads, but they are less infrequent thankfully)
Like you, I've seen the good, the bad & the ugly. I've seen hate and I've seen love. I've seen the formation of marriages and the destruction of friendships. Back when I used to come on, I made alot of great friendships that to this day mean something to me. I may not talk to certain people anymore, but they truly had a big enough impact, that I miss them today.
That being said, in my short time back, I have met some very nice people. I wouldn't say they are long time friends because I've only known them for a short time. I will however go out of my way to read their posts, comment to their threads and to even say hello if I see them on.
I think one nice thing about making friendships over the internet is, you really don't have to worry as much about judgement from people. They either like you or they don't. The ones that you come to like are people you tend to keep in contact with as much as you can and those that you don't, you just drop by the wayside. There are a few that post in the forums since my return to CS that I've really taken a shine too and definitely look forward to building friendships with.
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