As far as physical traits, I like a woman to have a little meat to her bones, without be entirely too big. Things such as breast size, butt size, hair color, eye color, etc, in my opinion are trivial because they aren't in my opinion, what is important.
I like a woman to be somewhat intelligent, without the know it all mentality. I like for them to be able to enjoy the simple things in life, but not mind to be spoiled at times. Affectionate is a must because I am that was as well.
So much I could list, but this is a brief. That beign said, nothing is ever written in stone because once we shut out possibilities, we shut out that one potential person that could have made us happy for the rest of our lives.
I disagree alot with saying that we are all damaged good , even slightly. While some of us may have issues in life, so do those outside of dating sites. I'm sorry you project yourself as damaged goods Larry, but please, don't include me in your chaos.
In a sense, I hope she does run...That will cause enough infighting in the Republican Party to garantee that Obama gets another 4 years....and then because of that reelection of Obama, we get another 4 years of threads about him here on CS.
Sorry for being a late poster here, but this is the first time I've seen this topic...
Now, to the point....I think this is the biggest problem with sites such as these. We congregate here and make friends, which isn't bad in & of itself, however, we find ourselves to be afraid to make that leap of faith into a meaningful relationshi with someone. I've seen it a million times in the few years I've been here and still do today. We go on how we are lonely , sad, etc, but yet we don't make that extra effort to find someone. We find ourselves making excuses such as, I'm here for forums, or I'm here for friends, etc, but we never address the problem that brought us here in the first place.
I understand some that do come here, have found relationships and are here for the forums , etc...However for the most part, when people say that is why, it's just an excuse to cover for the fact they are still single. (Sorry if I bursts any bubbles or anyone took that personally, it wasn't meant to be)
Am I single? Yep...Do I come here because I'm single? YES & no...My initial reason coming back was because I wanted to catch up on some old friends..However, in the time I've been back, I've left a relationship and feel as though I am ready for another. Should one come along, I'll snag it up, but until then I'll be here, there everywhere.
The things that can be changed, I think it's up to us to grab ourselves by the proverbial belt buckle and pull up...Because noone else is going to do it for us and we need to take the initiative for the things that we can in life to change ourselves for the positive. Sometimes it may come at the cost of great adversity, but in the end, we find ourselves better people because of it.
Sometimes things in life are beyond our control to fix or not to fix, while other times, there are things in life that will be with us no matter what we change.
Vicodin....Had a tooth abcess and the swelling was almost over my eye....God bless Vicodin & penecillin (yeah i know i spelled it wrong, im too lazy to spell check it)...
well, not that it was bad, but it was done to be humorous, and that it was...Hard to really describe to be honest w/out someone taking offense and reporting it to mods.
I agree & disagree in a sense. I think we all want compliments to be told to us, some are better at doing so than others. Thus they naturally will attract more.
That being said, I don't think women are stupid because in the end, they have heard it all and I think they can realize for the most part, when they hear BS and when they hear sincerity.
I always read their profile, regardless if it is someone I am interested in or not. Just nice to learn about the different personalities that are present in the forums. It's also easy to spot the BS artists as well by reading their profiles.
JSuburbia Forum Posts (2,518)
but...um....Morgan...can ya make an exception?
RE: I just want to say......
Not sure what it is about pain killers or sleeping pills, but I've always been very resistant to them and they hardly ever work effectively for me