Elegsabiff

Elegsabiff

Nov 2015

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Huh.

I think I might be offended. Got the following text from a friend I have dated in the past.

I have a date!

With a woman!

A real woman!

Who doesn't seem completely bonkers!

Well, of course I congratulated him but - um? I did text back that I was struggling to find a compliment for myself in there. He changed the subject.

I'm not sure staying friends is ALWAYS a good idea.

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Nov 24, 2015●800 Comments

Well....he is honest.....

.....

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

And yes every man who reads this will think why the hell should there be a compliment?

Maybe the women will understand. Maybe not.

It's all about me.

But I wonder if I will get to meet her. A real woman? Who doesn't seem completely bonkers? Do they EXIST?

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Cal, I think tactless would be a better word, no? Huh.

Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Nov 24, 2015●800 Comments

Most of us are completely bonkers....men have made us that way......

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Nov 24, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

He was living in the moment and wanted to share his happiness and he has a short memory.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

He has replied telling me I am a friend, not a woman.

Open mouth. Change feet.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Cal, I am very nearly completely and utterly sane and will chop into little pieces anyone who disagrees

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Lucy, or he's an eejit. Actually he is.

Solamente●Adeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain

Nov 24, 2015●87 Blogs●1,201 Comments

51

"Most of us are completely bonkers....men have made us that way"

Errrrrrrr excuse me... DONT THINK SO! (Shouting)

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Aw Sol that's a LOVELY interpretation. Not dumped, precisely, but I did say it would never get beyond friends

Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Nov 24, 2015●800 Comments

I agree with you totally, Biff.....

Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Nov 24, 2015●800 Comments

Are you the exception to the rule Sol.....i doubt it.....

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Thanks Cal

Solamente●Adeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain

Nov 24, 2015●87 Blogs●1,201 Comments

Lets just be friends (he says in a little girls voice).... Yup! you dumped him!

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Oh come on Sol you've surely driven a few women over the brink in your time?

Solamente●Adeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain

Nov 24, 2015●87 Blogs●1,201 Comments

51...

The only women I have made bonkers are......

The women that I have made bonkers about ME!

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Crazy, soooooo not crushed by the texts, Lucy is right, he was sharing the moment and I am pleased for him. He just needs to brush up on his wording.

How about - 'I've met someone, she could be nearly as great as you AND she's interested?'

That would work ...

Solamente●Adeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain

Nov 24, 2015●87 Blogs●1,201 Comments

Moi? (finger on lip with thoughtful expression)

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Nov 24, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

All he had to do was add something like "if she's half the woman you are, I'll 'wet' myself."

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Lucy, EXACTLY. In fact learning a little charm could smooth the path of this romance

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

He's backpedalling like crazy now, says he meant compared to the usual women met on websites, not me, I am real and sane.

I KNEW I was.

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Nov 24, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

And what is it we say about charmers?

Crazyheart38●Amman, Jordan

Nov 24, 2015●191 Blogs●5,807 Comments

Legs,

do you like this guy? sounds like you still have feelings or longings for his company ? Say it isn't so...

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Well, there's charm, and there's tactless. Somewhere in between?

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Nov 24, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

I think we all feel a little twinge of jealousy when we learn that we're easily replaced.

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Nov 24, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

or replaceable.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Crazy, nooooooooooooooooo I have a lovely friend at the moment

and this guy was only ever really truly genuinely a friend, we dated a bit when we were both abruptly single. Nothing more. Apart from anything else he is years younger than me. There was NEVER going to be anything

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Lucy, hell yes. I am astonished anyone I ever dated didn't just give up and turn his face to the wall when it was over.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

(Well, they do, of course. When the shaking stops, though, they timidly venture out into the light and run like hell)

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●1,796 Comments

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Ooh Min new pic? NICE

Chromedome56●London and Edinburgh., Lothian, Scotland UK

Nov 24, 2015●17 Blogs●328 Comments

I'm with solamente on this. Sound to me like 'look what you missed' text.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

And both of you are being very nice. But honestly, there is no bruised ego.

Am I going to regret posting this blog

Chromedome56●London and Edinburgh., Lothian, Scotland UK

Nov 24, 2015●17 Blogs●328 Comments

Haha young men know nowt. Stick to charming old buffers

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Deal

Now to meet some charming old buffers

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●1,796 Comments

Thanks for the compliment about the pic.
I took it today as someone wanted a recent one and a bit closer.
Now he wants to come even closer and meet me personally to see if I'm real.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Oooooooooooooooooh

Skype first. Make sure he is!

Calleis●Vienna, Austria

Nov 24, 2015●4 Blogs●1,289 Comments

Elegsa, maybe he can't handle demanding girls, so calls them all to be bonkers. Who knows which one he has chosen now..

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zmountainman●Motril, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●107 Blogs●7,852 Comments

I'm thinking he may be a closet CS blog reader, and has seen the picture of you in "that hat"

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Nov 24, 2015●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

hahaha Calleis I'm sure she's lovely

but genuinely wish him best luck and if it does work out for them I'm sure to meet her sooner or later and will report back

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