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I have discussed...this subject before...but it was a while ago

As some women have stated...it's not the 1950s anymore...women have their own income and property...so why do so many women...still want the man to pay for the meal

a novel idea...would be a woman offering to foot the whole bill for the meal..like so many men have done...throughout history..never complaining...just opening their wallets up...paying the bill and leaving a tip too

What i did with my exe...she paid and the nxt time i paid...fair is fair

Feel free to share your views...on this most interesting of subjects...that effects so many of us

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so it's said and chemistry is important when you meet.

But exactly what qualities are you looking for in your search for the one?

Hi all, have any of you met a real honest person on a dating site and hook up for the forever long haul, I have met mostly scammers and maybe I’m scaring the honest ones away.
I have been alone since 2014 and I sometimes think I might be alone right into the next life, maybe my soulmate is already there waiting with open arms but I do not want to wait that long, I’m getting tired of making my own coffee every morning.
Be safe

In the 1960's Herman's Hermits did a song about marrying the widow next door who had been married to 7 Henry's before him making him Henry the eighth.
The song is a humorous flip to Henry VIII, King of England who had six marriages.

I've done blogs before about young widows on CS who are setting their selections to men 99 years of age. There are several thoughts about this. One is: They made a profit on the first one and finding another older guy has a higher percentage chance to meet a wealthy guy who won't be around too long!

Hmmm...

Racial bias is a form of implicit bias, which refer to the attitudes or stereotypes that affect an individual's understanding, actions, and decisions in an unconscious manner.(Google)
(Racial) Color-blindness is the racial ideology that posits the best way to end discrimination is by treating individuals as equally as possible, without regard to race, culture, or ethnicity (Williams, 2011).

Not so long ago, I took a CS quiz entitled “Does colour matter when dating?”, the response to which I was given as ‘living in a dream’ (or something to that effect). I re-took the quiz a few minutes ago, and was given “Being on medication” as the response. Eh? What? Really?

OK, so the person obviously wasn’t skilled or ‘scientifically-able’ when this was prepared, but still…why so racially insensitive?

The definition for racial bias suggests that the behaviour is “unconscious”, with which I disagree, and whilst I’m un-sure that there’s a 100% efficacy to racial colour-blindness, I do know that it must be a ‘conscious’ effort as we navigate through this world of diversity (which we are ALL a part of).

So….does colour matter when dating? Yes… And No;-)

Whilst I appreciate, enjoy, and often participate in, most of what this CS site offers, I’ve just recently realized that I haven’t been focussing on/getting involved in any ‘dating’. After all, this is a dating site, and most of us on here are ‘looking’ to date,… right?

How did I get so distracted? Or did I? Perhaps it’s a case of not finding the right candidate. Perhaps it’s a case of not being able to ‘meet’ those that seem ‘dateable’. Perhaps it’s a case of not having an ‘enticing’ profile…Wait a minute! That may be it. Perhaps my preference to ‘talk/email/pen pal’ is a distraction (lol!).

But really, though, maybe I’ve allowed myself to become distracted due to what I perceive as “slim pickings”, and would much rather focus on the forums, blogs, polls, etc for interesting conversation from/amongst the collective.

And, perhaps, I need to find another dating site with less distractions (no, I’m not leaving CS yet) so as to get back to the business of Dating. That’s it! Problem solved….I think?

Every time I come on here, it seems like I'm always faced with "likes" from women. It's 771 and counting....I'm a bit tired of this feature on here, because nothing really ever comes of it. I personally think a lot of the women on here try to receive "likes" back as if this was some sort of popularity contest like in junior high or something.

I'm sure some of you have the same problem as well....

Never gave up on your dreams When you stop dreaming You stop to live and you will never found your soulmate

age is just a number right? not everybody agree.
everyone deserve to be happy and love. and age have nothing to do with that.
my father was in love with my mother and he was an fat old man around 46 at the
time and my mom just turned 21. she could've ore than be his daughter if you see what i mean and about a year after she got pregnant with me. moral of the story don't let age as a number stop you from being happy. some young people have their heads on their body and know what they want. some are really genuine and mature so go ahead if you see someone you like just say hi forget about the age group it doesn't matter you'll thank me later.

he was once in love with a girl a very beautiful girl that he thought was his soulmate.... spending every time and everything that he owed and have on her, just to make sure that she was always happy and never in need of anything.... never knowing that one day that love that he thought was real and bound to last will shuttered and crumble to the ground. he takes her out for dinner and was planning on proposing to her that night not knowing she has her own plans.as soon as the waiter brought the desert, handing her the glass of wine and the chocolate cake with the ring inside of it, her favorite cake, taking her second bite into the cake and noticing the proposal ring and pretending not to see it, placing back the rest of the cake into the plate, he notice her face expression. this is the day, this is the day that she wanted to break up with him . out of all of the days this is the day she choose, to crush a his heart, his soul. looking straight in his eyes with no remorse and saying those words that no one ever wanted to hear that it is over and we should start seeing different people. wasting eight years of your life with someone who was just keeping you around until they thought that they have found mr/mrs right is more than heartbreaking and no words can explain or describe it.
he was frozen, couldn't breath, couldn't speak, couldn't move. it was like he was in an different dimension and seeing his whole life flashing before his eyes at the same time. he didn't even notice that she wasn't even there. after reality hits him he grab his jacket leaving his great grand mother ring behind. a good thing a friend of his worked there and notice what have just happened. going back to his place and realize what have just taken place and quickly rushing back to the restaurant. his friend was on break and decided to take the rest of the evening so that he could cheer his friend up. to the strip club his friend said. they both went to the club that they uses to go over the weekends after school. their was this special stripper they both like, she is more like a therapy or counselor. after leaving the club they went to the bar nearer to their house where the bartender is more like a cousin. drinking and spilling out his broken hearted. running into his ex who have just dumped him for her cousin's cousin, talking about no hard feelings....three months later he dumped her for a prettier sister. now he his fine he is doing much better he have met this beautiful girl she is very intelligent, hard working and own her own business. he is glad that his friend brought him to the strip club and then to the bar for a second drink next to their yard or else he wouldn't meet this girl and the funny thing is he didn't found her she found him. after couple drinks and running into his ex. she just flew right in and stopped him from making a fool out of himself kissing him and taking the beer bottle from his hands before he slap the hell out of his ex new boyfriend. she is now sorry and wish that she could turn back the hands of time but its too later for that. they both ran into each other and talk things through and she saw that he was engage, he could see it in her eyes that she felt sorry but he can help her now he still loves her but can forget what have happened and now he happier than he could ever be. sometimes you should think about your next move before moving. think about other people feelings and do things a little differently. and he forgave her.