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Wild fires are the norm in SoCal this time of year, but this one threatened the Getty Center. Most wouldn't give a shit but the Getty Center is a 1.3 $billion museum that houses priceless works of art and is FREE to the public!

I've been nervously watching the news since the fire was getting close...

I know I mentioned this before, but it's so important to relationships, had to repeat it. Had a writers' meeting this week, my first ever. From the gitgo, the only woman present began controlling things. The men, also never having been to such groups, and believing that she had, acquiesced. But after all had read from a favorite author, also on her demand, she said---"Ah, all older white male authors". I let this pass as well, but began thinking later, that another such group might be better for me. This one sort of focussed on poetry, not my major interest, as anyone can see by reading mine. But in chatting with other male pals, all thought her remark was ageist, racist and sexist, very much so. The Left whips these terms around willy nilly, along with a favorite, "Speaking truth to power". Sure, she was insecure, being together with such absolutely brilliant males. Fear brings on defensive controlling styles, often. But we see so much of this, especially in Left leaning women, that it's time to start calling it out. But perhaps not in front of others, as the Left likes to do. Of course racism exists. On all sides. Probably hard wired into the behavioral genome from when rapid recognition of "the other" was adaptive for survival, and for passing on genes. But constant, defensive, self virtue broadcasting of such terms might not be working against the human curse. And how about all us controlling men, in relationships with the ladies? Whence all THAT?

I try to start it from time to time, by picking on one or two CS talented, intelligent, funny and ravishing beauties. Even try the counterpositive approach, insulting some creatively as I go. Alas, while most respond in droves, privately, per CS mail, their blog/forum flirting behaviors are rare, and often cryptic. Now, I love innuendo as much as the next swinging dinglebob, but c'mon girls, let loose a bit.

the perennial lounge lizzard... Let's face it, inspite of the occasional silly denial, usually, oddly, from the ladies, most of us really are looking for companionship. Everything from a hot one night's stand, to genuine enduring committed love. Witness the phenomenal growth of online dating sources, of which our dear CS is top drawer, for those in the know. But not so long ago, we all had to depend upon alternatives, from some reasonable enough, to others more dubious in nature. The super market, organized activity groups, cruising strategically in a fancy car-boat-airplane, threads, dances, music venues, match maker services, pastors/rabbis, even aunt Mildred's neurotic single friends...quite a wide range. But how about that bar scene, and it's culture? In an earnest search for committed love, how nifty. Often toxically smoke filled, and loud talk-music, all acting synergistically to dampen any chance of meaningful chatting. Add demon alcohol, neurologically deadening hearing, and impairing judgment,---and there, voila, what could possibly ever go wrong? I've often thought, being vertically severely challenged, that I was at a distinct competetive disadvantage in such places. But perhaps it was a blessing in disguise when I stopped going, years, decades, ago. But as with every meeting venue, the bars apparently do work for some, depending on their goals, and on lots of luck. Interestingly, while one might expect great cultural differences in how bars function and are set up in different parts of the world, in my travels, the similarities here are striking. Human behavior, we are more alike than different, no?

When I set up my profile on Cs I clearly stated I would not give out my email or phone number the reason being because in the past I have had my account hacked on two different selling sites for my quilts I make and twice on FB, all of which caused me great mental/emotional and financial stress, so after all that and a clear and concise explanation, I still get asked for my email especially and my phone number.To a hacker an email account is dessert, there is so much information to be gotten from it and used in a optional dangerous and harmful way, if you have never had this happen to you, your lucky. Believe it or not your cell phone is even worse, the only way around it with a cell phone is to purchase a "burn phone" , it gives little or no information. I work for a Federal Law firm and this is what the investigators told me. I will not give out my personal info. When people keep asking for this info, the red flags go up and I just block them because I am very tired of being disrespected.

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do you think is acceptable to sleep with someone on a first date

What do you think?

Would you respect a woman who has a boyfriend....even if he is away in another city and she is inviting you back to her house to help her "clean" her house?

She was a great woman...short...and cute...with a great personality...who wanted to provide me with a nipple to drink from.

But, she had a boyfriend.

Do you respect she has a boyfriend and tell her to go home by herself?

For you women, do you respect he has a girlfriend and tell him to go home by himself?

even though....

she/he makes your juices flow?

... "how long have you been on this site?" I don't get it, although I have my thoughts. Just why start with this? What does it show about the person, if anything? Aren't there more pressing things to ask about? I have begun to avoid such chats.

Who would have thunk it? In spite of the great help by CS in my search to satisfy my penchant for foreign women, one pops up right cheer in this little oceanside Maine town. She'd definitely do, at least on first asessments, even if a bit young for these old bones. That is, sadly, until I met her totally hot mid 60's YO Mom. Motives, and moral dilemmas. Yikes.