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I think it is time for men to get to the modern level of thinking when it comes to the modern woman. There are plenty of videos online that help us men get educated. Do you remember those days when women were such a mystery to men? Well, today...the mystery is starting to be exposed. That was the beautiful thing for us men with feminism. Feminism encouraged women to be who they wanted to be...instead of suppressing it and confusing us men. Also, feminism is beautiful for women too...now they can be who they want to be. However, us men need to understand what that means for the "modern" man.

Some of the common things I see many...and I mean many...women want in a man.

1. over 6 foot in height
2. physically good looking
3. making over 6 figures for income
4. having a big p*nis
5. having confidence
6. having a nice car & home
7. willing to give the woman whatever she wants
8. having muscles

Statistically, there is data that says that women only go after the top 20% of men...meaning the remaining 80% of men, women have limited to no interest in. That is the truth for modern men. In that list provided, do you know how many men qualify with having all those traits? Let's start out with the 6 foot and taller range...only 15% of men are that tall. Now add those other things that many women want, and you can start to figure out what percent of men exist that women desire.

Years ago, I mentioned something about how feminism would cause a war between the genders. Really, there was no other way for how it to end up. Men were not going to just sit back and get sh*t on. Now after years of collecting information and getting the bigger picture of just how they are being mistreated, they have now entered the "battlefield."

It is a sad thing really. Truly sad. You know why? Because in the end, nobody will win...and it will create a division among us. Just as how many other things in the world are trying to divide us.

so, should the woman automatically move to the man's place of residence once a relationship is established? old fashioned or male chauvinist is alive? I will comment after work. hi Ozzie...

What I mean by wanting, you know she wants to leave the current relationship she is in. She has a child with the guy, they are not married, and you know she is not happy in it...however...she is still in it. Would you be the guy who takes her out of that relationship?

I had met this one woman back in 2009. We talked for hours over the phone . I think the longest time we spent on the phone was 17.5 hours. My previous record with another woman was 12 hours, she was from Sacramento, California.

Anyway, The one I met in 2009 was from Surrey in British Columbia, Canada. She was originally from Oklahoma City, but had gone there to meet someone she met online. She liked the place so much that she stayed.

I went to visit her in the first week of August in 2010. The weather was great. She got into the habit of going commando while sleeping. She wanted me to go commando and I had never done that before. I really didn't want to, but she kept bugging me to. I really felt uncomfortable sleeping nude. Just something I wasn't used to. But I reluctantly shed my clothes while she was in bed with me. I pulled them off was I was still under the sheets.

Anyway, I ended up sleeping commando with her the entire week before heading back home on the plane. I have never done that again with any other women I have been with. One or two have, but I just kept my shorts and t-stirt while sleeping with them during the night. Just more comfortable that way. Besides, what if there was a fire?

I came back to CS, because I enjoy reading the blogs, but not being a member, I couldn't post any comments or create any blogs.
Since coming back, I've exchanged mail with some men who wrote in their profiles that they're "looking for a serious relationship", yet when they ask if I would make love or have sx with them, if and when we meet, and I reply "no" all mail contact ends. Does having a "serious relationship" these days mean that I have to have sx with a man within minutes/hours after meeting him in person? I always thought getting to know a person and finding out if there's any chemistry before taking it to the next level is how to start a serious relationship (although I've heard that some serious relationships start with sx at the first meeting). I'm not old fashioned but know from experience that some relationships that start with sx, end up being just that.....sxual attraction and nothing more.

Would you block someone you met on a dating site for wearing a bathrobe for a video chat?
I exchanged contact details with someone on here and we arrange to do a video chat last night.
I called her and after only a couple of minutes of chatting, she asked me to change my clothes. I don't see what was wrong with me wearing a bathrobe for a video chat. I always have a shower in the early evening after work and was just wearing what I normally would be wearing at the time we started chatting.

She asked me to change my clothes so I did then called her back but she didn't want to answer. I said I had changed my clothes but she said she didn't want to chat with me.

I don't know why she felt so uncomfortable about what I was wearing.
I don't know if she thought I was going to expose myself on our video chat or what or whether maybe her upbringing meant that is was highly inappropriate for someone to do a video chat with her and to always dress appropriately for the occasion.

I tried to explain but she was having none of it and just blocked me from messaging apps and on this dating site.

I just find the whole situation and her ridiculous and crazy.
Why couldn't she have just asked me to change my clothes and then call her back as if nothing had happened?
Or why couldn't she have just ignored what I was wearing?

It says she lives in London but I could tell from her accent, she was possibly Russian, Ukrainian, Moldovan or some other Eastern European country originally.

If anyone has their thoughts on this, I look forward to hearing from you.
Thanks.

The Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie story is far from being over. According to ABC News, parents of Gabby Petito have filed a $50 million wrongful death suit against Utah police.

'The suit alleges that if the Moab police had followed a Utah law on domestic violence, "Gabby would still be alive today," James McConkie, one of the attorneys representing the family, said during the briefing.'


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Again, I find reader comments very interesting.

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,—I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!—and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death....




And when love speaks, the voice of all the gods makes heaven drowsy with the harmony.”
Love’s Labour’s Lost.

Doubt thou the stars are fire;
Doubt that the sun doth move;
Doubt truth to be a liar;
But never doubt I love.”
Hamlet.

Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.

The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.?

We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.


The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.

gone nuts... yes
gone bonkers ... yez
gone berserk... yes
gone bananas... yes

freaked out....


I am so very lucky to have, in the beginning, crossed paths with you. It took us to this lovely stage in our lives. A point where I feel that with you I can’t wait to create, evolve with you, and face the future with you. In a boy friend..... you are everything I ever will desire. I’m never going to like anything or anyone else. I can guarantee that.



Words may not articulate how much I love you, but my acts will never fail to reflect my love for you. Yesterday, I loved you, love you today, and I will love you until tomorrow is gone!

you

lit a fire inside me. With each passing day, it is a passion that grows. Just when I think that I’m getting used to my love for you, you’re going to do something small and wonderful. Maybe you’re going to make me laugh, or say something so clever it’s going to make me see the world in a different light, and instantly there it’s again, the surge of feeling, of passion, it’s like a wildfire in my soul that comes over me
so easily..

What is Love? Love is a set of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs with strong feelings of affection. So, for example, a person might say he or she loves his or her dog, loves freedom, or loves God. The concept of love may become an unimaginable thing and also it may happen to each person in a particular way..

in a simple word...
it is..... just.. Mesmerising


i dont mind be born again
and again... just for this
feelings.


You are my heart, my life, my entire existence.

Must being in love always mean being in pain?

what a pleasureable pain
it is...

Two of my friends....there is one man and one woman....who are both single and enjoy their singlehood and sleep around with many different people. They both share the same meme..."don't cheat."

Both of these two have been with over 30 different partners....and the woman I have heard her say that s*x is just a physical act....and the man has told me he has been already with 3 different women in one night.

...and they are advising people not to cheat by sharing that meme.

...and they say women are complicated!

On one hand male friends complain that some women are just to vague about how they feel and what they want....think they're playing hard to get, no? Or just being evasive......

But then on the other hand, men get mad or flake out when a woman is blatantly honest about what she wants and how she feels....

Well damn....

So which is it?

Is it just me or do men just not see what is right in front of them, regardless of circumstance.

I'd hardly believe it would be a language barrier....or is it