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What would it take for you to fall in love again?
Can you fall in love again
Would you want to fall in love again?
Does love only have to benefit you?
Is love a game to you?
Is love a means to an end for you?
Do you think love is real?
What?....Love?....what the hell is that?
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But seriously do you think you can love again?
I think I can....but...I do know love can make one weaker...as well as make one stronger....depending on your "better half."
Would you want to fall in love again?
Does love only have to benefit you?
Is love a game to you?
Is love a means to an end for you?
Do you think love is real?
What?....Love?....what the hell is that?
lol
But seriously do you think you can love again?
I think I can....but...I do know love can make one weaker...as well as make one stronger....depending on your "better half."
Forever Lovers
A place to meet someone special And make lovely time for one and other 
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They say there is 3 sides to a story...!
They say there is 3 sides to a story...!
Your side...My side..........and the truth.............!
Did you know that...?
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Your side...My side..........and the truth.............!
Did you know that...?
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what makes feelings/moods...?
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Sulking Lovers
Sulking is a nurtured anger combined with a refusal to discuss the cause of that anger. When we sulk we need our partners to understand and to refrain from doing anything to get us out of it. 
(We're not talking about chronic sulkers today and I'm concentrating on sulks where the anger was not caused by the partner but by an external source, maybe work-related, and as such not aimed at the partner. Although the sulker needs time to work out the anger alone, he/she may not need or want to be alone.)
Do you get uptight or worried when your partner goes into a sulk? Don't. You should feel honored when at the receiving end of a sulk. It means that your partner trusts you enough to believe that you understand his or her unspoken hurt without having to explain it. That is one of the gifts of love.
Sulking can be traced back to our earliest childhoods; the silent understanding. In the womb, we never had to explain. Our every need was catered for and this continued well into our first few carefree years. We didn’t have to ask; caring and loving grown-ups guessed what we needed. They found the reasons for our discomforts while we were unable to put it to words.
That is probably why even the most eloquent among us may prefer not to spell things out when our partners fail to understand us properly. Only when we don’t have to explain do we feel certain that we are properly understood and only then do we believe that our partners fully understand us.
We may be adults living in an adult world but deep inside we remain infants; needing our partners to be our parents. We need them to correctly guess what is troubling us, as our parents did when we were babies; the time when our concepts of love were first formed.
We do our sulking lovers the greatest possible favor when we are able to handle their tantrums as we would handle those of an infant.
Now don't sulk; here is a banana for you.
(We're not talking about chronic sulkers today and I'm concentrating on sulks where the anger was not caused by the partner but by an external source, maybe work-related, and as such not aimed at the partner. Although the sulker needs time to work out the anger alone, he/she may not need or want to be alone.)
Do you get uptight or worried when your partner goes into a sulk? Don't. You should feel honored when at the receiving end of a sulk. It means that your partner trusts you enough to believe that you understand his or her unspoken hurt without having to explain it. That is one of the gifts of love.
Sulking can be traced back to our earliest childhoods; the silent understanding. In the womb, we never had to explain. Our every need was catered for and this continued well into our first few carefree years. We didn’t have to ask; caring and loving grown-ups guessed what we needed. They found the reasons for our discomforts while we were unable to put it to words.
That is probably why even the most eloquent among us may prefer not to spell things out when our partners fail to understand us properly. Only when we don’t have to explain do we feel certain that we are properly understood and only then do we believe that our partners fully understand us.
We may be adults living in an adult world but deep inside we remain infants; needing our partners to be our parents. We need them to correctly guess what is troubling us, as our parents did when we were babies; the time when our concepts of love were first formed.
We do our sulking lovers the greatest possible favor when we are able to handle their tantrums as we would handle those of an infant.
Now don't sulk; here is a banana for you.
What is love?
I had been married for 22 years till death do us apart and now he is in heaven joining with my father and grandparents! Do I love him? Of course I do that is why I married him the first place! Now he is gone, I am searching for LOVE again! What is love? It should be nature without any force and unconditional that making your heart beat! Love in the first sight that did play the big part of two souls. What is love? Love will always be inconvenience into life no matter how busy life made you when you really in love nothing matter not distance not space not even just screen the other side! What is love? Love is something two people willing to do anything for each other! Love into marriage would be beautiful thing! But it is not all marriage is about love! Marriage is about package that person bring you in life! It is easy to say you love someone but when marriage brought into each other life that have to keep love alive!
I can't say I love someone till that person is REAL to me! I don't understand why people can say LOVE so easier that is not LOVE! No matter how people wrote or share the stories those are just illusion created in receivers' mind! When someone looks at my photo then they started creating illusion of me in front of them, that is never real and that is just in their head! Whatever people share there and I will only listen and still need time to prove if they are real or not!
I have already said Love is nature thing and love is unconditional till then a person understand fully then he will be the person really know what love is!
When someone we love died, our heart will be hurt. When the next one coming along, we will know and hopefully feel love again!
Don’t tell me you love me till you really meant it!
I can't say I love someone till that person is REAL to me! I don't understand why people can say LOVE so easier that is not LOVE! No matter how people wrote or share the stories those are just illusion created in receivers' mind! When someone looks at my photo then they started creating illusion of me in front of them, that is never real and that is just in their head! Whatever people share there and I will only listen and still need time to prove if they are real or not!
I have already said Love is nature thing and love is unconditional till then a person understand fully then he will be the person really know what love is!
When someone we love died, our heart will be hurt. When the next one coming along, we will know and hopefully feel love again!
Don’t tell me you love me till you really meant it!
were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?
Listening to many TedX seminars on YouTube, I am starting to hear a common theme going on with women and their lack of o*gasm during sex. All of these seminars I listened to so far were given by women with a professional background in sex therapy. One of them make a claim that 90% of men achieved o*gasm during sex where women were less than half of that.
Another female sex professional claims that a small percentage of women achieve o*gasm with penal penetration. When she told one of her patients that, the patient was shocked....saying something like "oh, so there is nothing wrong with me."
Another female professional talks about how society has stereotyped sex and it is solely to do with penetration....for countless time. Today, things are changing when it comes to women's sexuality and there is a lot yet that has yet to be understood about it. But, sex done correctly with a woman, she can o*gasm as frequently as a man. It is said that she is primarily stimulated by the cl*t.
In addition, women lose their feeling of being h*rny when in a long term relationship. They claim that is completely normal. One professional compared it to going to the gym. Most people don't have this innate desire to go to the gym, but once they are there and doing their workout, their body feels great and the workout is very rewarding. She says, the same can be said with a woman's sex drive in a long term relationship. A long term relationship, she says, is about 6 months to a year....or longer.
With all that being said....these women claim that many women have come to them for their professional help with sex. Many women did not even know their own bodies and how it operated.
Now, to my question about....were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?
Did/do women hold men responsible...or....do women loath men when they can clearly see he achieved o*gasm and she did not. Perhaps...loathing to the point of feeling she is being mistreated? Perhaps loathing to the point to seeking an extra marital partner or a divorce?
The grass is only greener until the woman starts getting bored and discovered that new guy is not doing it for me either....what up with that? she might think??
Perhaps...that is why women like men who have a lot of experience with many women. Perhaps these men know about the significance of the cl*t...and how to stimulate it correctly? Or....that is why women like other women?
Again, I am just a dumb a** here.....I don't know anything. That is why I am asking.
Another female sex professional claims that a small percentage of women achieve o*gasm with penal penetration. When she told one of her patients that, the patient was shocked....saying something like "oh, so there is nothing wrong with me."
Another female professional talks about how society has stereotyped sex and it is solely to do with penetration....for countless time. Today, things are changing when it comes to women's sexuality and there is a lot yet that has yet to be understood about it. But, sex done correctly with a woman, she can o*gasm as frequently as a man. It is said that she is primarily stimulated by the cl*t.
In addition, women lose their feeling of being h*rny when in a long term relationship. They claim that is completely normal. One professional compared it to going to the gym. Most people don't have this innate desire to go to the gym, but once they are there and doing their workout, their body feels great and the workout is very rewarding. She says, the same can be said with a woman's sex drive in a long term relationship. A long term relationship, she says, is about 6 months to a year....or longer.
With all that being said....these women claim that many women have come to them for their professional help with sex. Many women did not even know their own bodies and how it operated.
Now, to my question about....were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?
Did/do women hold men responsible...or....do women loath men when they can clearly see he achieved o*gasm and she did not. Perhaps...loathing to the point of feeling she is being mistreated? Perhaps loathing to the point to seeking an extra marital partner or a divorce?
The grass is only greener until the woman starts getting bored and discovered that new guy is not doing it for me either....what up with that? she might think??
Perhaps...that is why women like men who have a lot of experience with many women. Perhaps these men know about the significance of the cl*t...and how to stimulate it correctly? Or....that is why women like other women?
Again, I am just a dumb a** here.....I don't know anything. That is why I am asking.
Relationship Killers
Some problems in relationships can be tackled as a couple but some problems are a lot harder to solve. In fact, some of the relationship problems listed here just can’t be fixed. Look for the symptoms early in a relationship. The longer you wait to fix or terminate, the harder it becomes.
No Respect For Each Other
This is probably the number one reason for failed relationships. It manifests itself by contempt, finger-pointing, sarcasm and so forth. If both partners are unwilling to compromise, things will get worse until there is no coming back.
Needless Arguments
There will be times when you disagree on an issue. Agree to disagree. No one wins when one of you always has to be right.
Chronic Infidelity
Nothing can be more exhausting in a relationship than a serial cheater. Such a relationship can be repaired but only if the unfaithful partner is prepared to leave the affair behind.
Secrecy
We all need time apart but what we do in our free time shouldn’t be some great mystery. There’s a difference between privacy and secrecy. Too much secrecy leaves you feeling emotionally abandoned. A relationship needs sharing and openness.
Incompatible Sex Drives
A mutually fulfilling sex life is incredibly important in a long-term relationship. You should establish your sexuaI compatibility early on; it cannot be fixed later.
Not Able To Open Up To Each Other
If one of you prefers to keep your emotions bottled up, you will end up distancing yourself from your partner, giving up prematurely.
An Avoidant Partner
If your partner is avoiding and dismissive it’s going to be difficult. It can turn a calm and self-assured person into a bundle of neediness.
Narcissism
Maintaining a relationship with a narcissistic partner is an uphill battle. It is not uncommon for the narcissistic partner to sometimes throw a bone here and there, giving the other partner hope but most of the time they will criticize you for making their life miserable.
If you detect any of these in yourself, start working on it... if you treasure your relationship.
Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. Make it memorable.
No Respect For Each Other
This is probably the number one reason for failed relationships. It manifests itself by contempt, finger-pointing, sarcasm and so forth. If both partners are unwilling to compromise, things will get worse until there is no coming back.
Needless Arguments
There will be times when you disagree on an issue. Agree to disagree. No one wins when one of you always has to be right.
Chronic Infidelity
Nothing can be more exhausting in a relationship than a serial cheater. Such a relationship can be repaired but only if the unfaithful partner is prepared to leave the affair behind.
Secrecy
We all need time apart but what we do in our free time shouldn’t be some great mystery. There’s a difference between privacy and secrecy. Too much secrecy leaves you feeling emotionally abandoned. A relationship needs sharing and openness.
Incompatible Sex Drives
A mutually fulfilling sex life is incredibly important in a long-term relationship. You should establish your sexuaI compatibility early on; it cannot be fixed later.
Not Able To Open Up To Each Other
If one of you prefers to keep your emotions bottled up, you will end up distancing yourself from your partner, giving up prematurely.
An Avoidant Partner
If your partner is avoiding and dismissive it’s going to be difficult. It can turn a calm and self-assured person into a bundle of neediness.
Narcissism
Maintaining a relationship with a narcissistic partner is an uphill battle. It is not uncommon for the narcissistic partner to sometimes throw a bone here and there, giving the other partner hope but most of the time they will criticize you for making their life miserable.
If you detect any of these in yourself, start working on it... if you treasure your relationship.
Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. Make it memorable.
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