There are tons of single people on this earth. Some highly desirable, some not so much. My dad always said every pot has it lid.
Yet, I see on dating sites, people desperately seek a connection with anyone and everyone. People lay out profiles. Yet it doesn't matter because the desperate contact them anyway. It is like refusing to bury your dead pet, hoping it will spring back to life. Then those people get bent because the object of their desire doesnt respond.
The extremes go to stalkers and murderers or kidnappers. Or groupies who follow stars and personages across the country. If they JUST see me, I will be swept away in their limo.
Nature puts the drive into creatures to chase the best chance for viable offspring. Animals fight for the female, females cajole and practice subterfuge to get the males.
Humans have brains tho to realize realities. The health nut is NOT ever going to want to marry the obese couch potato. The intellect will not settle to spend life with someone who thinks reading is a joke. The rich marry rich, the lawyer marries the lawyer.
So to those frustrated people on dating sites, read profiles. Acknowledge conflicts. And save yourself grief pining for what will never be. Wishing wont make it so.
As the saying goes, water seeks its own level. Be realistic in your quests. Love is the goal, not perfection.
For the fee of a comment to do so, if you request so, I will match you with someone on CS, who I feel is most appropriate for you. This could open up a new possibility for you.
(Dislaimer - that does not mean the person you are matched with will agree with that match, or even that you will, but you'll never know if you don't try.)
online now!
If blood will flow when flesh and steel are one
Drying in the colour of the evening sun
Tomorrow's rain will wash the stains away
But something in our minds will always stay
Perhaps this final act was meant
To clinch a lifetime's argument
That nothing comes from violence and nothing ever could
For all those born beneath an angry star
Lest we forget how fragile we are
On and on the rain will fall
Like tears from a star like tears from a star
On and on the rain will say
How fragile we are how fragile we are
On and on the rain will fall
Like tears from a star like tears from a star
On and on the rain will say
How fragile we are how fragile we are
How fragile we are how fragile we are.
What is the purpose of awareness? What is the purpose of awareness? What is the purpose of awareness? All discussion within this collective awareness cannot reach a convergence. Here is the answer: improvement in an evolution_like path. That's all! Well said, but not much followt. Wish to have a partner with this sort of persuit.
Just yesterday, my friend told me that I have been saying I will stop looking, and stop going out on dates but still do as I please. In my defense: it is human to find happiness when you're lonely. Honestly though, i know she's right. Just like all the motivational and self help books and videos on you tube, I should just stop and focus on myself. But aside from my love life, I am doing good. So, isn't it just right that I focus on something that's missing? But it seems to me that the more I chase after it, the more it slips away. So I guess the videos and the books were right. To just, "let it go." And start leaving things to chances and destiny?
Does destiny still work?
online today!
In the past, I have written a blog or even possibly blogs about love and what is it. As I am listening to past radio episodes, a prominent Father says that love is something that can run out of a person. He essentially, from my understanding says, that once you love one person, you run out of love after that and it is difficult to give out love again....if not impossible.
In the past, I believe that many, including myself with the original post and comments and remarks maybe touched on love and its characteristics....but maybe not love itself.
This Father describes as a sort of energy....a real thing. He also refers to God as love.
Well...
we have a lot of unrest today
along with a lot of divorce.
Just some speculation.
Hello batgirl(you know who you are it’s just that the site doesn’t wish us to reference people...oh wait...that was MD...anyway...),
What I said to you in the past on here was not necessary. This site is minuscule compared to my long running friendship with Batman in real life. I’m sorry for my outburst and I hope you’ll forgive me. I’m not the jealous type. It’ll never happen again.
Batman took me on as his companion long ago and I need to realize that. I’m not going anywhere.
Signing off...