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After 22 years of marriage and 4 children, George and Kellyanne Conway have decided to call it quits. Both republicans, have different political views. He talks straight and she's in an alternate universe.
Many are surprised it's lasted this long...
I'm sure we'll still see them in the news, just not together.

I really don't know if opposites attract or not. I've had both types as far as being totally different than each other, to like most of the same stuff, and either way, it didn't pan out.

I've had relationships that didn't work out because I had felt smothered, and felt like I needed my own space. I've pretty much have always been a loner, and I'm even more used to being this way because I'm not around someone lot. People have suggested that I have another place in the house to get my space, and I thought, why should I do that when I have the whole house to myself. I know, it doesn't work that way if you're in a relationship, except maybe both of you had your own place. But that would only work for some time.

I know I have felt this way since I was 17. This goes all the way back to my ex. She wanted to be with me every minute of the day. I know I should feel blessed by that, but that got old very fast.

Then over the years I had met other women who liked their space as well, and that was great, except for a couple of things, we had different beliefs as far as Religion and politics go. This never worked out either.

I haven't given up in finding the right one, but as I gotten, I have become more stubborn and set in my ways. Right now I don't have a problem being alone, but I don't know if I'll feel the same way five-ten years down the road. I probably will feel different about being alone in a few years.

Am I hard to please? Unfortunately, I think I am.

Anyone else feel like I do in some of the ways I mentioned?

This is one of the things I like in a woman. Her wanting to bite me, and leave teeth marks on me. Her way of marking me for her own.

Her clamping down on me, depending where I want her to bite me at, a little hard a deep, and not letting go for about at least 3 minutes.

Pretty hot!

If you feel the same way with a partner, feel free to share it, whether it be you doing the biting, or you wanting to be bit.

If you found a suitcase left behind on a train and took it home and after you opened it you discovered that it was full of sex toys and brand new lingerie sealed in individual bags.

What would you do with it ?

How long will I love you?
As long as stars are above you
And longer if I can
How long will I need you?
As long as the seasons need to
Follow their plan
How long will I be with you?
As long as the sea is bound to
Wash upon the sand
How long will I want you?
As long as you want me to
And longer by far
How long will I hold you?
As long as your father told you
As long as you can
How long will I give to you?
As long as I live through you
However long you say
How long will I love you?
As long as stars are above you
And longer if I may
How long will I love you?
As long as stars are above you

My dear ladies,
I like to warn all my American ladies to beware of the disgusting International scammers who prey on our feelings and intentions to have loving relationships.
I am new to this dating site and was shocked by these men's immoral behavior.
I have been targeted by a group of scammers whose tactics are the following:

1. they post their new profiles in desirable light: Ph.D., Masters's Degree, MD, Surgeon, financially secure, looking for a serious relationship, marriage. The profile photos are always handsome caucasian men and tailored to yours to make you respond.
2. they always widowers with the tragic stories of the deaths of their wives and children or never married
3. as they made a contact, they delete their profiles and insist that you delete yours too because they are serious about you and like to get to know you better ASAP
3. as I request that the connection must be by phone calls or Skype sessions, they always have problems with the phone or internet connections and therefore cannot show their faces and insist on communicating only by text or email
4. they all have weird Afro accents ( meaning not American, most likely from African countries) if you are lucky to hear their voices and stories about how they were born in the US but grew up in different countries. Like one claimed to grow up in England but had a tick Afro accent. I am good at detecting accents as I have one, even can tell the native language of the person.
5. from the get-go they declare that they are serious and assure you that you are in a serious relationship with them, 5 minutes before weeding, almost a family,
pretend to live in the US but have vage or no answers about where they shop, what are their preferred restaurants and so forth. For example, they lose their phones ( almost all bring that excuse) and need an indefinite time to get a new phone or service. Yes, maybe in Nigeria but not in the US. We get our new phone and service in less than an hour which they do not know.
6. then the family tragedy happens: or IRS blocked their multi-million bank account or their only child in an accident, or they lose their valet, get Covid or "the sky is falling"...
7. then they ask you to help them with funds as it is an emergency, wire them a cashier's check or use Crypto transfers as "you are almost a family, they have an everlasting love for you and it is natural for you to help in such situations".
8. I blocked them one after another and in a few days another one appearing
9. I became a detective so to speak, and please pay attention that surgeon does not know anything about medicine, the international crude oil dealer has no idea about the petroleum market, and the engineer cannot clarify simple questions about his operations.
10. please be careful, do not believe them, and blocked them immediately.
Do not open your valets to these scammers.
11. They prey on us as we, Americans, are generous, honest, and kind, always helping when someone is in trouble. We are easy prey...

I hope this was helpful to you and be careful. I greatly appreciate it if you contact me if you had such experiences.
Take care and be safe.

Sincerely,
Majan9

There was a cat with fancy taste, Who only mingled with rich feline race, Purring with joy in their luxurious space, And snubbing the others with haughty grace.

But one day, this cat met a stray, With not a penny, nor a whisker to pay, Yet so kind and friendly, in every way, That the rich cat's heart began to sway.

Soon, the rich cat learned a lesson new, That true friends come in every hue, And it's not the wealth, but the heart that's true, That makes for a loyal and loving crew.

Roses red and violets blue,
Today my heart beats just for you.
A day of love, a day of grace,
A time to cherish your sweet embrace.

A day of romance, a day of joy,
A day that nothing can destroy.
A day to hold you oh so near,
A day to wipe away every tear.

My Valentine, my heart and soul,
Together we can make each day whole.
For you are the love that makes me complete,
And without you, my heart would never beat.

Life is generally about relationships and how we navigate in and around them. There’s no avoiding everyday social interactions, so it’s really nice when they’re pleasant, loving, memorable, or positive in any other way. And, it’s natural to want to be a part of a relationship that could fulfil your needs in an holistic manner. That is, one that’s a blessing to you emotionally, mentally, physically/sexually and also spiritually.

Even the world’s wealthiest or most successful beings yearn for such a relationship, and they too know that money could only buy them so much (the illusion of happiness doesn’t last very long, nor does very much to mask the truth). Hence the frequent search for a friend, lover, companion, etc. is a universal one.

There’s a local Trini saying that “every bread has it’s cheese”, with some variants to that adding “stale" after ‘bread’ and even “rotten” after ‘cheese’(). Bread and cheese go together to make a pretty decent sandwich (especially when you add mayo, a slice of tomato, and some cayenne pepper to spice things up). The saying’s rough translation is that there’s someone for everyone. The problem with that, if it’s true, seems to be 1. How do I find my ‘cheese’ and, 2. Where is he located? But, that’s only if the saying is true.

What if we’ve met before and dismissed each other, does that mean that we’ll spend the rest of our life searching in vain? What if we live on opposite ends of the earth and never leave our respective end, how would we ever fulfil our destiny? Is that why some of us continually get married (then divorced), until we could find our designated ‘cheese’? Well, whether you’re the ‘bread’ or the ‘cheese’, the search in on-going.

Many of the CS population came here with the intention of doing just that. Some have succeeded, some are still on the hunt, and others may have moved on to other pursuits. This month marks the end of a year of searching for my ‘cheese’ on here, with no success. I’ve chatted with a few, was propositioned by at least 5, but haven’t said ‘yes’ to any. But then, none of them seemed to be my ‘cheese’. To be true, a few were just too cheesy!

Anyhoo, as I contemplate my future in this regard, I wonder if my very own chunk of cheese is still out there somewhere….

I have seen this in real life. In addition, I have seen this online countless times, and I have heard stories from my friends.

Women will come with the insult to a man, oh...your d*ck is small.

I had been talking with lesbians when a fancy sports car drove by, their first response was...oh, he is just trying to compensate...and one of them holds their pinky out. I have heard a friend of mine tell me once, that his ex-gf posted on FB about him having a small p*nis. I have heard women in a bar atmosphere call men on several occasions, small d*ck...this and that. Needless to say, there is just countless insults of this similar nature on the internet. I have even seen a guy, when I was living in the city attending a bar, he was wearing a shirt that said his p*nis was 4".

Now men.

Is this just an insult that women use? You know, just to try to belittle you and perhaps an attempt to rob you of your manhood. Or, is there something really to it? As time goes on, it is starting to begin to show that it really is not an insult that women use to try and hurt men, but in fact, it is a legitimate complaint that women have of men...they have a small p*nis.

It is a common statement that most women use when they are either angry at a man or a relationship with that man has just dissolved. Meaning there might be something actually to that statement. However, in my opinion, this proves there actually is something to that statement, that women actually do mean it when they say, a man has a small p*nis. In a recent interview, Jordan Peterson comes out and says that women are buying d*ldos. He says, not just any one either...he says they are buying huge ones. Thus, proving that the statement they are using towards men have meaning.

So lets say men, a woman is cheating on you or leaves you...and she says to you that you have a small p*nis. At that point, all you can say is thank you...here I thought I did something wrong. If that is the only thing she can come up with is, you have a small p*nis...genuinely men, thank her.

Life itself is a miracle. It is such a miracle that we attribute it to our Creator. Our Creator made us in such perfection that we are able to live and reproduce on this planet. It is such a beautiful gift to humankind. Really, take a step back from all your emotional thoughts and look at the root of our existence. It truly is a gift...a thing of beauty.

Our Creator gave men certain body parts and gave women certain body parts so we can be fruitful and multiply.

So when a woman uses that statement, oh you have a small p*nis. Men, it is nothing you have done to them. It is our Creator that has endowed us with our gift to humankind, and women are not even grateful with that. It is not an insult to you men.....it is an insult to our Creator...their Creator.

Happy Saturday all.