He chose that girl

So... I just talked to my ex whom I've been very close friends with now. We did some catching up and he told me that he took off his dating app profile and deleted the app completely. Because finally he has decided to give his relationship with his girlfriend of 8 years, his first girlfriend a last try.

I am happy for the girl and for him, but Im a little bit jealous that after all that he's been through, and everyone he's found, he went back and chose that girl.

Maybe because that girl waited and hoped and been patient with him all this time. For whatever reason he has, I have wished to have one day someone choose me too. That someone no matter how difficult Ive been choose me over anyone.

What a heavy feeling for a wonderful Sunday!

Blessed Sunday everyone! angel
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Aw hun, I’d chose you are too far away and I love like this guy teddybear angel
Ugh..look like a grizzly bear I mean... frustrated
Soon I’ll look like big foot... a short one,
Thank you Jegas. hug teddybear
One day you'll meet someone who you will both choose each other. Don't hang around waiting to be chosen it wont happen. get out and about join some clubs, meeting other people and then you just might choose someone yourself hug
@EXRED wave

I'm holding on to hope, but ai know I have to get out of this place first. Nothing will happen with my social life other than rot if I stay here.

Thank you for your kind thoughts EXRED.. teddybear
So will you be going to contact your first ex and check if he is still open for some repeating?
Woman Happy To Be Alone Attracts Unwanted Sympathy? DEAR ABBY comfort
@Len05

No. I am the kind of person who is open to friendship after i broke up with my exes. Just because I broke up with them, doesn't mean id pretend that i don't know them anymore. Id care about them cause they were a part of my life some time.

I don't like holding grudges. Some people might think that's stupid, but i dont care if they think that of me. I'm kind and caring and that doesn't have to change just because i opted to stop being romantically involved with a person.
@Lojac

Hello, i am not looking for sympathy. I wrote my blog to express myself at the moment. It helps me release. Thank you.
Hello @WhatYouHad

Thanks for your input. I appreciate it and will actually apply it. I dont tell my prospects of course that i keep friendly relationship with my ex. Although this ex is different. We dated very shortly, we were fond of each other but decided that we are not actually compatible. The difference between us is too large that a romantic relationship is impossible. We were not inlove. We parted with respect and a promise to keep our friendship while we can. And we agreed that we would distance from each other once we found our own partners. As for now, (that is before he goes back to his homeland, and meet in my own, or somewhere else) we will continue to be each others true friend as we need us to be that way in this land.

angel
Correction:

(that is before he goes back to his homeland, and me in my own, or somewhere else)
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