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but it came up in our discussion/questioning over the weekend,
how would you feel towards you grandchild if the babies life lost you your daughters?
Honest replies only... if any
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but it came up in our discussion/questioning over the weekend,
how would you feel towards you grandchild if the babies life lost you your daughters?
Honest replies only... if any
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Yes that's what I mean.
I know yonks ago when it was common for some women to die in childbirth...
some husbands/fathers could not bond with the child afterwards, sad but true, but if that's how they felt.
you can't force what's not there.
You never hear of it anymore but I'm sure it still exists ....
if and when it does, how does one deal with such bonding difficulties.
Yes that's what I mean.
I know yonks ago when it was common for some women to die in childbirth...
some husbands/fathers could not bond with the child afterwards, sad but true, but if that's how they felt.
you can't force what's not there.
You never hear of it anymore but I'm sure it still exists ....
if and when it does, how does one deal with such bonding difficulties.
which can only be a good thing, if it no longer exists.
I'm not a pro on such condition but isn't that all about hormones whereas what I'm referring to is more about heartbreak and loss... one is all in the head, the other.. the heart.
I'm taking it you would have little compassion for the person?
that's not me saying, just asking is all
I'm sure you're a wonderful gran as you are a mam...
my sympathies to your loved ones lol.
You're talking about last as in only connection ....
but what I'm referring to what if the child was the reason you are disconnected from yours truly.
Sometimes I think it only takes experiences to know better than the imagination...
which is another good thing also
Have I got that wrong?
Likewise
Have I got that wrong?
yet you replied as if you had, so I reread your comment ...
found your answer within its lines.
whatever one's religion, we believers... believe in God and all he has blessed us with.
just wondering out loud here...
Realistically, but aren't vegetarians & vegans slapping the face of the holy one
Assuming father is a run away character, It will become a greater challenge, yet i am sure my partner/wife/lover will help me out.
Itchy, it's a very odd situation to be in as a grand parent.
Assuming father is a run away character, It will become a greater challenge, yet i am sure my partner/wife/lover will help me out.
Itchy, it's a very odd situation to be in as a grand parent.
but is it the truth is quiet a different matter entirely?
If it is then why when complications happen during labour and if only one life can be saved, the father/partner is asked, should it be the mother or the child... more so than often, it's the mothers.
Odd situation but at least you seem to apricate the difficulties without knowing.
whatever one's religion, we believers... believe in God and all he has blessed us with.
just wondering out loud here...
Realistically, but aren't vegetarians & vegans slapping the face of the holy one
God blessed us did he not with animals to eat ...
todays latest trend is to go with plant based food
I think people today are forgetting Gods good intentions for us as if they know better.
Save the mother how would she feel later
Save the baby and no matter how good a grandma auntie etc when child got older would this knowledge for her disturb her mentally, she is only here because her mum was let go.
Child growing up without her true mum is very hard so i am so glad i am not in that position to make choice.
which can only be a good thing, if it no longer exists.
I'm not a pro on such condition but isn't that all about hormones whereas what I'm referring to is more about heartbreak and loss... one is all in the head, the other.. the heart.
I'm taking it you would have little compassion for the person?
that's not me saying, just asking is all
What I couldn't understand is walking away from the baby and that's the end of it. I do suspect that if you did that you would have been a deadbeat dad under the best circumstances. It's a myth that the serial killer goes home and plays happy families, they're normally awful to their families they just don't murder them. They're just slightly less bad around their own family in the best circumstances.
I think mother is important.
She may give birth to another child
Stay Safe CW.
I hope never to answer your question from experience but I assume I'd deeply mourn my daughter and interfere a little more in my grandchild's life than if she had survived. My son-in-law would be a devoted father, and has a closeknit loving family with other young children, and I live in another country. My involvement was always going to be limited to holidays and massive spoiling in a shameless attempt to be favourite granny.
Otherwise find a nursing woman and hire her to be the next brood mare, at least until the kid is old enough to feed itself. What's the problem?
Otherwise find a nursing woman and hire her to be the next brood mare, at least until the kid is old enough to feed itself. What's the problem?
Have I said anything to upset or annoy you Ken?