Body Type: Slim/Slender...

The profile reads she's looking for an honest man, no lies. Her photo shows a woman medium height and a guesstimated weight of 145 to 150 pounds. Slim/Slender is her body type selection.
The thought through my head is she's lying or her perception is skewed.



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A friend once told me he met a girl who was a "10" I was afraid to ask on which scale he graded her!

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I don’t look at profiles..but, I am willing to bet that men lie about their body type too...
Maybe your perception is skewed that you think it's appropriate to body shame, or laugh at women for their body type, Chat dunno
And p*nis size.
And financially stable does not mean in debt with loans or credit cards.

teddybear
So you are stating that men are not allowed to draw their own conclusions that don't agree with yours??wow
My thoughts are my own. I don't go around messaging women if I think they don't represent what body type they say they are. To see an obese woman who thinks she's skinny is her business.

Although the blog is tagged comedy, I know some women will take offense to the subject matter.

Actually... that's nothing.
I did a blog about menopause that started a fire of personal insults.
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Offhand have you seen the Karen Carpenter slim that modern women consider slim?
teddybear
Anorexic runway models?
No thanks...
I didn’t know there was a category on profiles for that...

I guess I should start looking at profiles...laugh
Nope, you got a sample image for us perhaps?laugh
Karen Carpenter died at the age of 32 due to heart failure caused by chronic anorexia.

Different reports to her weight, but I think less than 90 pounds (41kg)


Here's one story of many.

Heck no, thats a little too 'slender' for my taste.
When I was younger I too was quite slender and was teased that if I found a skinny partner it would duplicate the sound of 2 skeletons making love on a tin roof. Since those days I've always preferred my lady friends with a small bit of something that is more than necessary. Own personal choice, not that I always succeeded in getting wat I want though.laugh
1% body fat or less in unsustainable. Any long term illness is meant to burn fat first. At such low levels muscle is burnt off.
Basically killing you.
Women this is what you looked like before Gay men started designing your clothing.
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Now for p[p*nis size
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Well, your thoughts were your own until you blurted them out in public. laugh

If it's a woman's business how she thinks of her body, then why make a public statement that this woman was wrong in her perception of herself?

Why laugh at women's bodies if you know that some women will find that offensive?

Why do you think that women being devalued on the basis of thier body type will have comedic value for us?
Let's not get carried away...

I described a situation where I saw a profile with a photo of a woman who was not slim, but she made the selection that she was. In the profile she stated she was looking for an honest man who doesn't lie. I found a contradiction in that she lied about her body type... or she had a different perception of herself that didn't match her photo.

This happens often where women think they are skinny and their not.
Like it or not, a high percent of profiles are that way.

I didn't post her photo it was only a statement. I wasn't laughing at women's bodies and yes, some women will be offended at the mere talk about their bodies.

So, let's hold it there so I don't have to feel the scorn of someone reading my blog and going into 'venom mode'


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What culture/nation was she?
Each culture/nation has different body types.
In her culture she may be slim.
Gay white men kind of set the standard for slim boyish women.
Then White dominated Feminism tend to ignore women of Color.
Go by a**.
Asians have the flattest asses, white women next, Hispanics then Blacks.
Now poor US white folk but did you se the latest Bridgette Fonda pic?
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actually strictly speaking the reason artists' models back in the day looked a bit pot-bellied and saggy wasn't so much that there were no slim women but that no decent woman would pose nude so the artists had to pay prostitutes to pose. And with no birth control back then, the average cheaper prostitute prepared to do so had a couple of little bastards to support ... professor

The fashions of the past has always been on the slimmer side of voluptuous. For at least 100 years before those gay designers, men have wanted to see wasp waists and at least a hint of decollotage. Fashionable women damped their long skirts to cling to their shapely legs. A trim waist was so admired that a million whales died for the fashion industry to make corsets, and the fat Prince Regent in Regency days creaked noticeably, his corsets were under such pressure. rolling on the floor laughing

I'm sorry. I can't help myself. frustrated It's the being a teacher, forgive me handshake
@ DL

My post was in a joking manner...

Me thinks you have p*nis on the brain too much...grin
"I was only joking" is never an ideal defence scold I did think most married men knew that. But fair enough, me joking too.

Nothing wrong per se with the blog topic. Since you obviously have a contractual quota of blogs to do every day, they can't all please everybody.

However, almost anything you say about single women will put up hackles and begs the 'why are you looking anyway' retort - if only here to blog, why be looking at profiles of non-bloggers? confused unless that's part of your contractual responsibilities.

You proved very recently you do know it is a singles website, so you are in the position of a guest and why as a guest be lashing out at singles? She may have erred on body type but from what you've said she put up honest pics. That's between her and the hopefully single men she wants to meet.To be sneered at by someone's husband - ouch. Seriously?

As for lecturing re menopause, well - why? If I did a blog announcing myself an expert on penile dysfunction, I think the fairly general male reaction would rightly be "who the hell appointed YOU an expert?". And I'm not even married, I'm free to do my own research! rolling on the floor laughing

I am of course only joking, since this is a comedic blog this is a jolly funny response in kind grin
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Very well put....bouquet
Chat why you wake up in the morning and chose violence?

There could have been peace.laugh
She had a photo of herself where you could see her body so how was she lying to you about her body that you could see for yourself?

I find that certain profiles have mismatched photos and descriptions and it has bugger all to do with body dysmorphia. Try inhaling through your nose a bit harder. hmmm


Apart from the joke about your friend's '10' and the pic of women's body types and it being posted under the category of humour, right? *taps foot*

So you know you're posting something potentially 'offensive'.

I'm not sure I'd use the word 'offended' and I don't think you really understand why some women might find your comments piss annoying, hurtful, a put-down, or whatever.

So it's okay for a woman to feel your scorn, but not okay for you to feel a woman's scorn?

Mmm hmm...you wrote this knowing it would likely hit a nerve but not giving a damn, so suck up the backash, princess. You haven't earned any special sensitivity points you can wave around on this blog. laugh
When someone, man or woman, mentions or discusses another woman's (over)weight, I'm reminded of a response a friend once felt compelled to make: "I may be overweight, but you're ugly, and I can always lose weight."
I was going to do a political blog, but people complain about those !!

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I thought so because so many nobles had their portraits done.
Even faces were round
Where does she fit?
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Beautiful Girls
1996
( A very YOUNG Natalie Portman Marty)

Rosie O'Donnell
Gina Barrisano

Gina: I'm finished speaking to both of you okay? You're both f*cking insane. You want to know what your problem is? MTV, Playboy, and Madison f*cking Avenue. Yes. Let me explain something to you, ok? Girls with big tits have big asses. Girls with little tits have little asses. That's the way it goes. God doesn't f*ck around; he's a fair guy. He gave the fatties big, beautiful tits and the skinnies little tiny niddlers. It's not my rule. If you don't like it, call him. Hey Mitch. Thank you.
[Looking at a porn magazine]
Gina: Oh, guys, look what we have here. Look at this, your favorite. Oh, you like that?
Tommy: I could go along with that.
Gina: Yeah, that's nice right? Well, it doesn't exist ok. Look at the hair. The hair is long, it's flowing, it's like a river. Well, it's a f*cking weave ok? And the tits, please! I could hang my overcoat on them. Tits by design were invented to be suckled by babies. Yes, they're purely functional. These are silicon city. And look, my favorite, the shaved pubis. Pubic hair being too unruly and all. Very key. This is a mockery, this is a sham, this is bullshit. Implants, collagen, plastic, capped teeth, the fat sucked out, the hair extended, the nose fixed, the bush shaved... These are not real women, all right? They're beauty freaks. And they make all us normal women with our wrinkles, our puckered boobs -- Hi Bob -- and our cellulite feel somehow inadequate. Well I don't buy it, all right? But you f*cking mooks, if you think that if there's a chance in hell that you'll end up with one of these women, you don't give us real women anything approaching a commitment. It's pathetic. I don't know what you think you're going to do. You're going to end up eighty-years old, drooling in some nursing home, then you're going to decide, it's time to settle down, get married, have kids? What, are you going to find a cheerleader? Charge it Mitch.
Tommy: I think you're over simplifying.
Gina: Oh eat me. Look at Paul. With his models on the wall, his dog named Elle McPherson. He's insane. He's obsessed. You're all obsessed. If you had an ounce of self-esteem, of self-worth, of self-confidence, you would realize that as trite as it may sound, beauty is truly skin-deep. And you know what, if you ever did hook one of those girls, I guarantee you'd be sick of her.
Tommy: Yeah, I suppose I'd get sick of her after about, what, twenty or thirty years?
Gina: Get over yourself. Thank you Mitch. Say hello to Gertrude.
Tommy: What?
Gina: No mater how perfect the nipple, how supple the thigh, unless there is some other shit going on in the relationship, besides the physical, it's going to get old, ok? And you guys, as a gender, have got to get a grip. Otherwise, the future of the human race is in jeopardy.
Willie Conway: What was that?
Tommy: I don't know, but a great a**.
Willie Conway: Nice tits. Come on let's go.
Watch the movie.

My all time favorite line and PROVEN TRUE.

Marty: I might just grow to be five-ten. I'll be hot.
( Young Natalie Portman)
Hmm, good move.

You wouldn't want to cause any politcal offense on a dating website.

Far better to piss off the women, eh? laugh

Next time someone has a dig at you for being married and on a dating site, I think you might have a splendid fidelity defense for that now. giggle
Basically who cares about what an electronic ghost posts?
I don't.
None of you can insult me because I have no clue if you are "real" people, bored people, scammers, or nut cases.
I have been on sites where people share stories simply to generate grief.
Some are very lonely and have no support network.
One of the very first people I chatted with was this guy. It started well.
THEN he told me he was a construction worker and a load of pallets dropped on him and paralyzed him.
Was that real? Did he make it up?
I have no way to tell.
We should all defend ourselves but it isn't like a punch in the face.
Half the time I have no clue who I'm writing too. I delete all my inbox/outbox/likes immediately.
Ever try rep[lying to someone and have no idea what you said before?
Of course any drunk has.
f*ck it just don't be a hypocrite.
This isn't real and someday everyone will have either moved on or the site disappears.
Basically we are all dead at some future point and just killing time until we get there.
Now you can all b*tch at and about me.


teddybear
And you all act like old people.
Even the scammers.
As if this site is some Black Mirror episode and sucks thew youth from you.
Grow young!
teddybear
At this point I’ve accepted the harsh truth that men are visual and will always look at my weight so I’m trying to lose it. And yes I know I’m not trying hard enough. Like I said before, I like to eat! Lol. It’s hard to put on a dating site that you’re overweight but I finally came to terms with it. All I can do is keep trying.

I used to get more dates naturally when I was slimmer. I don’t blame men. It’s a fact that I’ve accepted now. I know the women here will be like nooo! Don’t listen to them! Why not? I want to meet someone and a lot of men aren’t attracted to fat women. We have to face reality at some point.
MMH, don't be so hard on yourself.
You're an attractive woman, educated, have a great personality. I believe you have allowed the weight issue to bring you down. COVID changed the dating scene and we all got older in the process.
I can exercise and binge diet and drop 10 pounds in less than a week. I can also eat 2 pizzas and gain it back in 3 days.
A friend of mine is a diabetic... the one where he needs insulin injections daily. How does he get through life? Portion control.
Diet is the same way. Eat the right foods and in the right proportion.
You already know this.

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Hi Chatillion wave

I showed that chart to my Giant and asked him which one Kal's body type is close to.
He said it's...

And I always thought that mine is no 3. roll eyes
You have to do it for yourself..not for a man or someone else...

I gained weight when my husband died...Brought on by heavy drinking and eating for comfort...
One day I looked in the mirror and did not like what I saw...

I stopped drinking all alcohol, and gave up sodas...I also began walking...it really is good exercise and it helps boost your mood...

The other things I gave up... Cracker Barrel Sharp Cheddar Cheese..(I could not eat a few pieces, the whole block would be gone), Peter Pan Honey Roasted Creamy Peanut Butter...(the whole jar would be gone, before I knew it.)...and coffee ice cream..(same thing, the whole half-gallon would be poof)...

I also started working out with weights...it helps boost the metabolism...

You are very attractive and you have a great personality....You just need to do it for yourself...

Baby steps...and when you see the results...it is worth it.
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