Women like to 'poach' attached men

so its official..



In a phenomenon known as 'mate poaching' – but soon to be dubbed the 'Angelina Jolie effect' – women expressed a clear preference for those who were unavailable.

Researchers Dr Melissa Burkley and Jessica Parker found that 90 per cent of women questioned were interested in a man when told he was in a relationship, compared to 59 per cent when told the same man was single.

"This finding indicates that single women are considerably more interested in pursuing a man who is less available to them."

They postulated: "This may be because a man who is attached has already shown his ability to commit and, in a sense, has been pre-screened by another woman."


ok i am married. and have kids. anyone now! doh
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they probably see it as a challenge.
I can't hardly believe this is right here in black and white! Thanks for validating what I have thought to be true for decades. A long time ago, I had never felt a "part" of the dating crowd, just kind of a tolerated pet of some kind or another. Then I met a girl I fell in love with, a real doll, and we set up housekeeping and went out to the local bars and taverns. All of a sudden, I am THE cutest, THE most handsome boy in town--the fave of all the gorgeous girls. (Caused some friction with my lovie...) Now, where were all these ladies when I was single? I was around all the time. Hmmmmm........nothing more desirable than a man who is attached to somebody else. Why is this?confused
i am married with kids. still no chics for me doh
I don't want to venture out on a limb with an unknown strength, but in your country women (as I understand it) are not liberal--seems very traditional, etc... so it would be unlikely that a woman would pursue a man in India, at least not like they do here, and doubly so not an already married man. So,,I am a bit confused about you saying you are married, but still no chics. Well of course not. Culturally, that sort of thing doesn't go on, because if it did, and don't take this the wrong way, but you would be a good catch, I think. It's not the same. and if you are happily married, why would it matter? confused
mr. pitts so the truth comes out....so really that is your daughters pink bike! cool
Mr. Pitts likes to yank people's chains. He's not married. grin The pink bike is his.

Rohaan I love your comments!

I think that men who are in relationship (and maybe women too) seem more desirable because they give off a different vibe. There is maybe more confidence there because they are not "looking for anything". Or maybe because the man has been with a woman for awhile, they emit a softer energy? I don't know...dunno
haha Miss Venus...I know youve been hiding out..... but I havent been living under a rock! I know the deal! laugh

Mr. Pitts likes to think hes a joker, but really the pink bike is just him getting in touch with his feminine side! cool laugh
I know, Miss Drea, don't you just love that about him?heart wings laugh
oh dear god! m turning into a woman uh oh
Aint it grand, Mr. Pitts? rolling on the floor laughing Actually you are much to virile and masculine to ever become a woman, and you have not passed the initiation into womanhood. You must watch one dozen romantic comedies or movies that feature strong, independent women (take notes). You must have a good cry ( essential to the cleansing process and preparation for next step of initiation) . You must prove to be an accomplished multi tasker, you must be able to listen to endless whining from emotional friends, you must be able to bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan.....there's more...but I don't think you are ready for it yet. (tongue firmly planted in cheek...giggle )
Jesus Christ! Venus i do all those things roll eyes
1- I have watched what women want
2- I am a good cook. (nd this does not mean boiling water!)
3- Multitasking - m a master of it
4- I can actually spend hrs in the mall with a woman chose her hand bag!!

ok. m a gone case . doh
Welcome to Womanhood....bouquet
Hi Miss Drea! Mr. Pitts seems like he could definitely help you cook....grin he can show you his best recipes. giggle

Maybe he will even give you a ride on the pink bicycle to go shopping!laugh

(just take a picture for me, will you?)laugh
rolling on the floor laughing

Aww I missed you so much Miss Venus! You are like the other half of my brain.....always filling when I am drawing blanks grin

Glad you are back in action cheers
lol Venus. i actually did that with someone. the bicycle ride thing doh
laugh laugh Yes, being a woman is not for the faint of heart! flirty shimmy
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