Girls please play it safe
I am here to reminds all the ladies here to always play it safe. Some times you will never know who you could run in to.Rules at this sight are made for the safety of its members.
Do not give personal info that would be a start
Second,do meet your date in a public place until you are sure who he is and make sure that you are fully aware of his gesture and body language. For example like in my expirience he had a very drastic change of mood from yelling at the door man and in seconds he is mr.nice guy again. Pay attention to how he behave and most of all do he just talk about him self and that he is a very noble guy in his story and mostly . . . wheter if he is to good to be true then get ready to accept that he is too good to be true. Watch really carefull and if you do not trust him, please do not hesitate to call it a night and offer him to pay for your share.
But if the feeling is right for you to continue to next level then please do notify your closet friend where you will be heading. By following this rule the most awfull thing you could possibly get is a heart break if things goes wrong.
Third, if you guys have gone out quit a while make sure he respects you,and that you know his back ground, his friends, his job, his family and even his past. Please, exept all the info you get with out ruin your relationship or get emotional.
And the last thing ladies,please learn to say NO . In every kind of situation that does not suit you. If he hits you then it means he do not love you.
If he cheated on you it means that he do not love you.
If he used you for financial reason it means that he do not love you.
If he is an junky than it means its time to say good bye. If he is doing shaddy business than it means you would not be safe beside him although he has a lot of money.
But if it is just a white lie than please forgive him and start over.
Please do not be affraid that if you let him go, there might not be another one for you. Please do not be affraid to be lonely.
Ladies, we all have the right to be happy!
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for example:
They might tell you everything that you want to hear so that you are more comfortable to give them what ever they want for a period of time , until they dont need your money and everything else they can take as well..Cause that might be the whole point, Simply take what ever they can!...As much as possible, EVERYTHING!....Even Yor Cat!...lol
It can happen too me!
It can happen to you!!
Jack
jack
are yes, watch and listen always. After all they say love is blind. . .
thanks and yes i do learn it the hard way.....
you are absolutely right...
thank you i really hope the ladies here could find this useful
thank you and i am glad you enjoy it in your own way...
oh trust me i know there are many evil hearted women out there aswell.... hmmmmm just thinking can some one invented a magic formula to brought the good ones , men and women closer together... so there would no more be tears and heartache...
well who knows.. one day..
You are a very smart woman. Thank you for this post. Woman get lax sometimes and think they will always be ok.
Also important to realise there are dangerous woman out there too.
Unfortunetly, there is really no way of knowing on this site other then what is posted on the profiles!
You made very good points.