For The Guys ;)


Now .. The Love of Your Life .. heart wings
is About to Walk Away from you !!
After 3 years relation .. she wants to settle down and marry you !! and you seam to not agree !dunno

Would you let go of her ?
or would you change your mind and get marry to her!! and why ??

Comon Guys !! let me hear from you
teddybear

Take Care All

Swan
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you just have to come to an agreement with her that one day you will marry her your just not ready yetthumbs up
Swan,

It's a tradition boy asks the girl to marry her when he feels she is the one and at the same time he feels he has got what it takes to bring the relationship to a happy couple and maybe family afterwards.In your story is the other way around,what would i do with you ?
How the hell could i let you down,or God forbid go

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I think if it was the way around and the is askin me to marry him while i think it's not the time .. but in the same time i love him !!
then i'll go for it ..even if there is a part of me saying : no wait !!
I'll go for it for him and for me .. heart wings heart wings

Swan
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My dear Swan,

there's always a third choice on this planet even if it s not the most populal...

If one wants to settle down and you dont , you are right and he 's wrong .period.

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more seriously ,the question is

do you wanna enter a marriage being blackmailed ?

I would not think of it as an happy start ....can you ?
well .. I think if I wouldn't wanna get married then there must be a reason for it.


Bet, my best bet would be to talk that out as open and honestly as possible with her and see what she thinks bout it.... that will most probably make her turn her back on me ...

but u know, I prefer playin poke with all me cards exposed which is why I always lose. The again, betta being a loser than a disappointment...

Donno ..
then i would have to rethink the love of my life thing after 3 years and i am still unsure not a good sighn for a happy ending .
too fast is always no good and no good can come of it...

i hope u are not making the same mistakes i did!!
take care swanhug
I play the man now, to answer this question.
Yes, I love her very much..and she knows that, but if I didn't say it after three years...I will never say it.
I give her The freedom, to do what she wants, because I love her so much, and Freedom is the highest prouve of my love to her...hug kiss
at the end of the day if the love of your life walks out on u then u have 2 choices... fight for his affection and hope he finds your fight atractive lol, or 2 let him go... if he coms back then he was always yours... if he doesnt !!! he never was
In my own point of view, marriage is not the only consideration that would create a bonding between two individuals who love each other,commitment in a relationship and the assurance of each feelings towards each other is what matters most.

There are lots of divorces, break ups,and annulments around the world coz they lose the spark that they were seeking in their relationship,so i think marriage is not the exact options for couples especially one is not ready yet to take a higher commitment status to his/her partner.
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