Frustrated

You get knocked down, but you get up again!
No need to dwell in the past. You will probably find somebody better, it is just a matter of time.

Be grateful it was only a month and you didn't waste more time! The next time don't believe that everything that flies in the air is food (Bulgarian saying)

@amrora8625: Learn from this experience and don't feel sad about it .. If I were you, I wouldn't wait too long for the first meeting, next time don't waste so much time talking on the phone and exchanging emails and texts, meet the guy so you would know if the chemistry was there ..

@amrora I know it hurts and its disappointing, but get out there and don't go into hiding, put it down to experience and find that one person who will be there for you.

Dear Amrora, You may not feel like it now but this guy actually did you a favor in the long run . If he's getting back with his wife, then he was not shure what he wanted to do . It would only be a matter of time before he did this and the sooner he did, the sooner you can forget him . Move on and learn from the expeience . It it the best thing we can do . . . .. . . . . . . . . .

cheer up!he doesnt deserve you and dont worry you can find a better man who will love you as you

People should not get too emotionally attached to
anyone they have not only met in person first,
but spent a good amount of time getting to know in
real life. Unfortunately, you got to learn this
from personal experience, rather than from elsehow/elsewhere.
As has been said, be thankful you didn't lose more time, $$, or anything more precious.

Been there too! Like everyone else said thank God you found out sooner than later his true personality. Wasn't worthy of you. You deserve the best!

Well, better that it happened BEFORE....!! Not after you started a real relationship. So....I think you can find better, try to relax....;-) You deserve someone that WANTS really YOU....!

Best luck to you...;-)
M.

amrora,

It seems to me that as soon as a lot of men know that we really are into them they seem to back off. It's happened to me many times even AFTER I get into a relationship. Once he knows he has me heart and soul I am not a "challenge " anymore therefor hes gone.

I don't get it either. In my last relationship, the guy I was with seemed to notice other women a lot and now that I am single again I realize that I am getting noticed by the guys who are attached.

This man did a mistake by telling you promises, which he couldnt make, BUT at least he is honest with you and came clean with you before you 've got much involved with him. If he is a very bad guy , he could have continue his relationship with you and spend good time, while he is back to his wife.

Plus, Just put yourself in his wife's place, dont you appreciate what he did by going back to his family and children? . I think you shouldnt date a married person UNTILL he get an official divorce.... what do u think?. And he also he shouldnt have thought about dating untill he finalise his issues with his wife.

This dude is testing the level of ya emotions and involvement be stronge and believe ya deserve wat ya want,don listen to all this bunch of losers on here his gonna get back at ya just watch it happening asap..