My Brother is in Hospital

after a big heart attack , its been a week now , and he's still got a breathing tube in him and the doc say's he has a lung infection and in a few days they will remove the tube and let nature take its course .....I can see him now trying to get a ciggarete and a bottle of wiskey ....he smokes 3 packs a day and drinks a bottle of wiskey every night , and with the eldest sister and brother and youngest son to have all died from the same thing ..wouldn't it open your eyes and make you live a more healthy life style ,like me , I dont drink or smoke wave
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hi virgo wave
sorry to hear about your brother, cant be very nice on you either worrying bout him but hopefully when they do remove the tube he'll recover well even if he does continu to keep damaging himself with his habits... not sure if its about opening ones eyes perhaps some rather be blind then see what they'd rather not.. all that aside, best of wishes to you and yours teddybear
Sorry to hear about this V.
It's a shame that people do this to themselves.
I'm glad you don't.
I wish others would wise up.
But, in the end it's their choice.
Hang in there. I know this isn't easy.
VIRGOSINGLE .. i feel for u .....
maybe your not close but the patches thought shows you carehole
I'm the sencitive one , and they tried to beat that out of me when we were kids , but when we got older a I'm nearly a foot taller and 50 kilos heaverer the fighting stopped because they went crying to mumy and I got sent to work with my father at 11 years old on his fishing boat wave
i was a year older then you when i got my 1st job, a kitchen maid you might say, i worked for priests in a boys college, done a bit of fishing too, for lobsters and boy did i hate it sad
thats what we did , crayfishing wave
seems we have fishing and boxing in commom, i done afew rounds of them too, because of my brothers boxing dont fish now and iv hung up the boxing gloves too, i sit in my rocking chair darning socks so now life is boring dunno hope you still have excitment in yours wave
Virgo...You've done your best for him by the sound of it..You cant help someone who wont help themselves..dunno cheers
I hear all that you are saying - I too lost a brother to Leukemia but as you know each person has to live their life as they wish. My brother was totally wild and I do believe when he died there weren't too many things he thought "darn why didn't I do that". Each to their own I say. Good for you to not be drawn into that self destructive lifestyle.
Sorry to hear about your brother Virgo. Keeping healthy now is the best asset we could ever have - thumbs up for you as a non smoker...
I am sorry to hear how rough your life has been and for your brother. There are many people here who can relate to your struggles and your feelings. I think something in us dies when we have a family that may not be close or is unsupportive.

But good on you for still caring and making the right choices in your life! "People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within." (Elisabeth Kubler-Ross)

May your light always shine from within and complete you. Praying for you and your brother! happy place
I'm sorry, Virgo. I hope he will get better soon. I'm glad you choose the healthy life style and I will support you {smile}

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Summer
I will let you all know how it all works out ,ok wave wave wave
wave Virgo, how are you?...hope well!!

I'm real sorry to hear about your brother being in hospital, will say a pray for him, and your family to get through this!...it's really sad to hear that about his lifestyle, but I'm glad that you take care of yourself, so keep doing that, okay!!! teddybearteddybearkisskisshughughug
bro hope things turn out ok
Sorry about your broyher Virgo.
Will keep you all in prayer.


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its ok , I'm not doing anything different , other than letting you know more about who we are , and what happens in our lives and those around us wave hug kiss
Sorry to hear about your brother Virgo. As Parti says you can't help someone who won't help themselves. hug
blues I wish for no more sickness and pain blues
yes hes only 2 years older , our father died 3 years ago , and now theres me , and one older brother , in hospital and sister ,our mother and all the kids that my sister has had and my 2 ...and my brothers young wife and son

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Mr V. sorry to hear it, this is really sad news for us We all are with you to sharing your trouble and we have to get lesson from it also.
god bless,lost youngest brother aug.24,2001,he would have been 50 sept.26th.these 2 months are depressing for me/godspeed he might stop cigs,etc.
Virgo I hope he get better soon!wave
Sorry to hear about your brother Virgowave sad flower
Sadly for the individual it all just boils down to choicescool
Try and love him without judgement, it is hard to be perfectpurple heart
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