Leaving Home

Last night just before I went to bed my son told me that if he has a job and can afford to he will be leaving home next year. The feeling of empty nest hit me. But by the time I settled down I had thought it over and realised that yes my son will be able to make it on his own. He's a sensible young man, he can cook, do his own laundry and is sensible with money. He's obviously put a lot of thought into it and is planning this move with care, thinking about the reality of rent etc. He's my youngest and this was bound to happen sooner or later. At least he gave me warning and time to get used to the idea. There comes a point in life when we have to let our children go and step out into the big wide world. Let them grow through their own experience but always hold the door open so that they know we are there when they need us. I'm mighty proud of my son and I love him lots.teddybear bouquet heart wings
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That's lovely to read Sweet, as there is nothing quite like having your own place.. banana But knowing you are there when and if needed, is just as important!! yay hug cool
Thanks for the comment mrLonely. Yes it is tough knowing that my son will be leaving home with me being a single parent but I won't do what my late mother did to me and try to prevent it. He obviously feels ready for this and he's old enough to make his own decisions. I haven't lost him by letting him do this I'm telling him that I have confidence in his judgement. Yes I will always have you hug
I'm not sure how old your son is, but I moved out at 17.
There comes a time when independence is crucial. peace
You did well in raising him to have the confidence to be able to do so. thumbs up
@ Jim my son turned 17 last month. My daughter moved to London at 16 and despite living in hostels for 2 years loved it up there and made so many friends who I met at her wedding in 2010. She'll be 26 this month and is now living in Dublin. I know he will do well on his own apart from needing money off me at the moment he looks after himself. We do get on well living together and I do understand his need to be independent. I have never lived on my own so when he does eventually leave home it will be a first for me as well. As a friend on another site said we have our children on loan to raise them and give them the tools to survive in this world. It's the sign that a parent has done a good job when the child has the confidence to spread their wings.
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