Of course woman should....

Go out alone wine
Another friday night, alone at home ? Not something I think I can face tonight... sigh
The problem is finding a reliable friend to go out with on a regular basis. All my friends are busy, live far away, are married, have kids or busy with their significant others doh but that shouldn't mean that single woman should be forced to a life of solitude doh sitting at home infront of the tv or on the computer...
We could go to the mall and shop for shoes, just browse around in a book store or even watch a movie alone...
How about a few hours in a favourite restaurant, take a book or magazine with you...
Confidence when going out alone is key ! It is hard to walk through the door alone at first, but you eventually get used to it thumbs up
If a single woman can do almost anything else alone, why shouldn't she go out and have fun alone ?
Obviously we would be careful and take precautions for our safety...
But is a single woman going out on her own even unusual anymore ?


T wine
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A good friend of mine is in a similar situation to your self Tangerino with friends being busy, travelling, married etc and she has started going out by herself. She says she is never alone for long and generally has a great time meeting many more people than she would have other wise.

Put on the lippy and that new black number and go get em I say.
Dear Tange, Well all else fails you can always come here and interact with your C's family . We would never turn you away or not be here for you ( well most of us anyway ) . Nice to know we are always here ( even the scorpio ones ) . . . . hug
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Hammock, I intend to do just that flirty hey, how did you know I had plans to wear my black dress ? shock laugh
Franky, this is true... and I know my CS friends are here for me kiss especially the Scorpio one's
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But we only fail if we stop trying I think... so I will date myself tonight and hopefully meet some nice people too wine

The last thing I need now is to suffer some sort of depression due to loneliness, so I'll take action cool
10k, Mmmmm ? now why would I do that ? laugh
Mysst, I believe that some woman would do just that...safety in numbers and all that...
When I go out alone it is not with the intention to pick up men... but believe me I need to have my wits about me to keep away the undesirables and psychos that think a woman alone is out alone because she wants to get laid doh
Well Tange, your only kidding yourself rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing comfort
Mysst, maybe you are right... I'll pick one up then and bring him home devil grin
See, you're not as naive as you were letting on wink handshake
Mysst, only a little naive... but not cold blooded laugh
Anyway, I'm not so sure I will find anyone to take home at the book store confused
One thing I know for certain is to avoid the religious section grin Maybe with a Karma Sutra book in hand I might stand a better chance of finding a suitable man to "pick up" grin

Now, shopping for shoes on the other hand, ummmm ? I can't seem to imagine how that could work dunno
Try the vegetable section at the super market wink
This is funny because I am reading this in a cafe eating breakfast alone and I didn't give it a second thought.

I just walked in, found an empty table, sat down and whipped out my laptop.

It is so easy. No one cares. Really! Go for it!

Once I went to a restaurant and it was jam packed. I looked around and saw an empty chair at a 2 person table and asked if I could have a seat. The guy was really nice and we had a good conversation and then I never saw him again. Awesome! You should try that.
Hey Tange, how've you been?
Anyway, wear that black dress of yours and go out...
Spoil yourself to a night out and
party hard and you are going to meet and make
new friends....So go for it my friend...hug banana cheering applause cheers
DW, good for you... let this be encouragement to other woman out there to do this without feeling silly thumbs up
I also think that it is not unusual anymore...
Well, good for you DW and enjoy your breakfast
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I would rather go out alone instead of with a buddy. The person your with will somehow not enjoy where you went, how long you stay or a bunch of complaints I don't want to hear.

My favorite thing for a night out is dancing to a Rock band or Salsa group!
Thanks for your comment Ed, I too agree that going out alone can be enjoyable... also that dancing is fun dancing

Well, gonna hit the road now...
see ya all later wave
Tange,
relaxing evening to you, hope all fine with you bouquet

Tange,
being single for woman expects her to accept herself, and being the best friend with herself. Woman does not need anybody to make her feel happy- she is able to do that herself.
Yes, I go out for shopping alone, yes, after shopping I feel tired and hungry so I have dinner and coffee - alone.
But I do not go out alone in the evening to bars ... I visit alone theatre or concert - when no of my friends or sister is free to go with me.

I am sure, sooner or later you will find friends of similar to go out and spend time on Friday evenings teddybear

All the best to you!
have to admit, i never found it easy to socialize on my own, just love the comfort of having someone with me, im on a different level then, and have a ball with them.reunion
Ive always found Ive had the best adventures when Ive gone out alone. wine
We do expect a blow by blow description of the evenings events as well thanks, Tang.writing
good for you Tangerino.... I too get fed up when there's no-one to go out with... although i have no problem getting dinner or breakfast out alone I find evenings out alone are a no go-- don't think I would enjoy it very much
Hi Tang I've been going to the pub on my own for a while now. I got a few disapproving looks from some senior citizens at first but when they got used to seeing me in there on a regular basis they were fine. I even talk to them from time to time. Even the bar staff know what I like, hot chocolate with cream, I'll even chat to the bar staff as well. So there's nothing wrong with a woman going out on her own at all.hug
I do a lot of things by myself. My dog, Misse used to come along too but she is too old now!sigh You have to be a strong single woman. But wear your good perfume and put on a brave face! You can do it!!!hug
wasn't that bad actually...
met with a friend at a local restaurant and pub but when he left, went to another restaurant by myself.
Walked in alone and the place was full of people, asked at a table if the table next to them was occupied (since there were still drinks on the table)
But they insisted that I should join them grin
I had a lovely evening... I was pleasantly surprised to have seen my cousin there and one of the men that joined the table was a primary school friend that I haven't seen in years... we had fun catching up thumbs up saw many other people that I know that were there, including one of my favourite Chinese restaurant's owner (Mike), he was there with a friend, I danced the night away, mingled and spoke to alot of people... there was live entertainment, the people I sat with kept the drinks coming all night...and they took turns dragging me onto the dance floor.
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I had a great time, then went home again... back to my loneliness roll eyes

Going out can be fun wine
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