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i think it is funny to ask so many times what the filipino guys don't have, and what the western guys have! As you thought I am a Phillipina.
My ex is a british, and we have a daughter together who is a british passport holder.
We splited. I have apartment in emirates with my own work!
I am much richer than my british EX with my own work! He knows that! As I had been only focus on work,cos he didn't want to work as hard. So I had to work hard for the future of my daughter and my family.
I have done pretty well.
YOu have a very narrow mind. Nowadays, some chinese are indeed rich! Open your eyes please, there are poor chinese,but there are quite a lot of chinese with their possessions over 1 million usd. The number of this kind of middle class is ranking right after USA, and Germany.
Thank you Ian for telling me the guys in Emirates have too much temptations!
It is very wise to think before hand.
By all means write a blog..but avoid the, what I find shallow remarks regarding money..We all work to live..some harder than others..some work harder for martial things..others work to live to leave enough time for their family..its a balance..If you and your partner work so hard that you don't see each other..whats the point.
I don't regret I have been working hard these years instead of following my ex to do hunting!
I have to think for the future of my daughter.
And I am not like that! I want to be responsible for my daughter!
I learn swimming nowadays, and I do jogging. I also dance. I still like reading. Cos finance and history, philosophy can enrich my knowledge.
i have already told you, I bought apartment in emirates, I have very secured finance.
I don't need anyone to support my life. I am only looking for a partner.
I talked about the story, cos now I have worked to the stage myself: that I can afford the life with the yields of my work for all these years.
This is also the reason why instead of looking for a guy when I split with my ex, I worked hard myself. I think you yourself is the best and most reliable people you can turn for. And work from my own hand just bears fruit!
And Arab husbands also don't like their wives to work after marriage. She still tried to work in the bank position.Then she resigned.
I mean, I talk about feelings between a husband and wife, living together 20 years, with a son, is it necessary to push the wife to a slum life?
I do feel after being isolated from the society so many years, it must be very difficult for her in such a age.
And I have no place to cry! I am the supporter and backbone for the family, so that I have to be strong.
I have to think and fight like a mum and dad! Prepare for everything my families need.
So that I know how difficult the life will be for the Phillipina!
To enjoy yourself alone, comparing with to enjoy yourself with others, which is more enjoyable? The answer:To enjoy yourself alone is not as enjoyable as to enjoy yourself with others
an example of the long link ...
now when you drag it over if you want people to see it ..
[ youtube ] in front of it ,....and [ / youtube ]
after it ...and please do a preview to see if the video works
You make this thread another taste!
Your song. Nice voice, she has.
moneywoman...I can't see why either Phillipina can be regarded as a money woman. I mean the guy married her,they loved each other. And young man and young woman love each other it is natural, if she was not a phillipina,instead a regular middle class young woman, the desert can also take place. I mean broken marriage can happen to anyone, no need put a sticker to a woman. So a woman happenly got mairried with a rich guy, is a money lover, so a woman married a poor guy, is a poverty lover?
I think if you can only think of things like this, you need really find out the logic in your way of thinking
Then our daughter now will suffer from a poor life. But the result can be also that we broke up, I can be a single mother with a daughter who suffer from poverty.
So I chose to work hard for my families. Because I love my daughter, my families, I can work for them for all these years without hesitance. It is purely from good sense of responsibility.There is nothing to be ashamed of working hard to support a better life to the families. Not everyone can do it!
Sometimes, you just live a life and you parted with your partner in the long way of life. Marriage need manage, it is not that simple.
Also Asian culture is more family oriented, and we do support our other family members. I love my families!
I have been always busy working until recent. Love is a thing people should wait for the chance.
I write this thread cos I was a bit in a low spirit.
A guy told me: his friend can sell the grandma for 1 Euro.That is how merciless some people can be.
Some people just choose to work hard to have a secured finance, so that they don't need turn for help to others,which there might not be anyone to help. People are different, some people naturally have higher sense of being responsible for their personal finance, and some even include their family members. I always think it is better than a person with a messy finance,and cry everywhere for help.
It's very sad to see how someone could sell their grandmother for 1 Euro. I don't think anyone has the rights to sell people.
But I do understand where you are coming from peonyjenny. Good luck.
It looks like your doing the right thing. And it also looks like you will succeed.
Good for you!
I just try to build up a safe life, to a lot of people, this is the first and basic step.
I am sorry, if I had not thought carefully about what is rich and what is not.
I feel so funny that I would write this much about this thread,even I stayed up for it.