Disappointment

A friend asked "What disappointment teaches you?"

My answer was "That my happiness is my own, can not expect anyone to make me happy, do not let anyone preventing me to be happy, it's my life, my choice, my responsibility. Should I cross anyone in my journey, be it a friend, lover, as long as they are walking in the same path toward the same destination let us walk together and share the joy. Should we separate our way at some point, let it be, as life has its own timing. We might meet again one day, or might not, but what matter is that we do something good and create a good memories when we were together."

So what's your experience teaches you? Please share, and may all of you have a good day.
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Very nice words saras nice way of tought head banger
si Eneng... kemane aje? dulu mau ketemuan bareng Nur tapi kmu ga datang... ayo di re-schdl?
HI Nighthy, thank you. Please share your opinion and experiences.

Smartass, kan aku waktu itu ngajar atau deadline ya? Hayuk atuh kalo mau ketemuan, tapi kan si eneng satunya lagi melanglang buana tuh.
ya kita bedua aje... minggu depan deh... sabtu kerja ga ?
Akika mah tiap hari libur hehehe hayuk tapi siangan, ambil raport dulu soalnya :D
di Plaza Semanggi ya, kaya kemarin ma si eneng cilik... gw hapal jalan kesana doang grin jam nya tar kita ngobrol... eh minggu depan tgl 21th June ya. bukan 14th June.
Sara, thank you... you put words to what I think to myself, and this is how I see my life too. This is also what my experiences has teach me, I am so there with you. What happens, happens for a reason and it can be hard, but I will survive... again.
Enjoy what is left of your Monday and have a great week to come.
yay teddybear hug
Smarta and sara thank you for saying that I am si cute, Saras your blog make sens and I like the way you think. what my experiences teach me "people are crossing our path not for nothing"thumbs up heart wings
Hi Welela, so glad you're with me. There was a time I felt I was left behind and I felt sad, It took me sometimes to realise that at some point if we're not going to the same direction anymore then it's time to go separate ways. There's a meeting, and there's a good bye, like morning and night, life goes on no matter what. Have a good day, my friend hug
Hi cutie zeurich :) yes, the bad one gives us lesson, the good one gives us good memories, no one is for nothing :)
Well, what my experience has taught me is that life looks rosier when you have a bottle of red wine to make you company... wine
I agree with Dedo, cheers wine ( love the red wine)
Hi dedo and lilly, I'm light, so rose will do hahaha wine
Hi Sara!

@sharing Experience, one of the latest of the lot is I called someone and we had so much unforgettable between us and she sounded such a stranger that i was lost!

What it taught, maybe she was with someone at that time more imp!

Peace
HI back, like I said "Should we separate our way at some point, let it be, as life has its own timing." Best thing we can do is moving on, because life goes on, no matter what.
@ sara

At one time one step can be taken until and unless we are up in the air.

As you have already written : "as long as they are walking in the same path toward the same destination let us walk together and share the joy".

too much complication, there is a saying in my language which means "she kept hidden in a beautiful closet, neither she show herself neither she goes hidden"

;)
disappoint is a gift, a stepping stone to learn from, as angry, jealously etc......we learn from them all, its just taking the time and being okay with the tools/lessions meant to be learnt from these emotions cheers overall they are blessings in disguise teddybear
Hi butterflies, that's a new point of view of how to look at disappointment. Thank you for sharing with us hug
U look better with hair on top....thumbs up

But never let her go....thumbs down
Hi guadal, thank you, I'll take that as a compliment.
Life provides you with many many opportunities to walk together....but surprisingly all opportunities are constrained...always we expect more....one who is hyper sensitive suffers more than suffering, bound to be left in the way unceremoniously...
What the experience teaches......don't expect...don't resist...
Hi sara, wave there is a saying that "Every person is the artisan of their own fortune."

It's nice to meet someone nice but I do have my doubts about the "forever" part at this stage. I also know that I never want to be financially dependent on someone.
This saying is Blödsinn (rubbish). When u cross the street and a car or truck hits u, that's it without any martial arts of urself.

peace
Experience has taught me to be blunt, speak my mind and to myself be true.
just to say Hi ...missed your blog alot
Cantik sekali PP nya ....have a nice day ya...teddybear
Smartass...emang tinggal dimana sampai taunya Jakarta hanya jalan ke Plaza Semanggi ?
hi iotaoo, a friend once said "do not expect, because expectation steal half of your happiness". I don't fully agree with him, but I agree in case of don't expect happiness is granted by anyone else, it's yours and your choice.

Hi Knenagh, nice to see you again wave I agree with you on forever. Whether there is forever or not, what matter is the present, just make the most of it. I don't regret the past, I don't worry about the future, I (try to) enjoy the present.
Hi Ken, agree with you!

Mbak Chingching, sebentar lagi kita jadi tetangga lho, aku pindah ke Jogja :)
Smartass, mbakyu, aku mau message dirimu tapi ndak bisa. Soal janjian nanti.
Your partner must be your best friend, share the same interests, and must compromise !! no reason why one should have so called ``space``. After all why engage in a relationship if the interest is not mutual.
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A tiger in a cat's body.

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