Mail order brides? Would you do it?

Thanks again everyone.. good points taken by many.. However.. as far as being a lone and having no one.. I think most of the folks here would argue that point. While I felt the same way you did at your age.. as you age.. and the children are all gone, and the nest is empty.. It gets very lonely. Living way out in the middle of no where you find yourself talking to yourself. Limited income keeps you home bound often. You can only argue and play with the dog for so long. The demand of chickens and cats wanting fed can only lighten the morning moments for a short time. I think 14 years is long enough to be alone. It is time to have someone else to yell at, laugh with, dream with. Even if the dreams are not the same, (God knows I don't need a clone of me) We mostly want someone to explore new beginnings. However we all get set in our ways and need someone else to help pull us out.. I think the getting to know someone is a must! Most of us having previous relationships that clearly did not turn out well.. we have moved forward and while we learn from out past, we sometimes are too critical of those we view as a potential future. Do we really give them opportunity? Or do we just ignore them and say.. HE>>> NO and just not answer them anymore as they flew up a red flag without their knowledge. It's a fifty fifty to me. A mail order Husband would not be too bad.. Would I do it? Probably not. Either way I am a smart girl and know the directions to the Court House... Been there before! :)