Redding, CA, California, USA
Pt 1 Giving MEN Re think!
Well I figure I will start a daily blog and just say hello to everyone. I know you do not know me and that is fine, but eventually you will lol. So living in No. Ca and we have been in a drought for so long, with an exceptional high heat this year. Today I wake to what many may think of as a gloomy day, with it pissing down rain. It is not the first of the year, but that is ok as we need really bad. Living way out in the middle of nowhere has its perks and draw back. Being alone is not all it is cracked up to be.. Oh sure for a little while to get your bearings back from bad past relationships and hurt is all fine and dandy.. but 12 years??? Yeah.. way to long. Also being out here I have no one to talk to.. I moved my mom out here with me but recently lost her on Aug 1 this year. She was my sounding board. Now she is gone. So I have all of you to talk with. You may say put on my big girl panties and go out and meet someone right? Well that much is true.. However being on a fixed income and again did I say WAY out in the middle of NO WHERE, and did I not say HAS ITS PERKS.. Yeah I think you get my meaning. So daily living is very quiet and sometimes just to talk to folks.. I will answer if anyone want to comment, but You are now my sounding board.. Sometimes I get in a writing mood so bear with me. I have been on this site for a few years and used to only come to play games.. now I have a computer that does not let me up my up and down arrows so easily so pac man is out of the questions and this suduko is pretty hard. Maybe me just getting old.. OH.. If I can offer any advise from those men on here. This is a dating site right? Or just meeting friends is good too.. but however. Please! Please! For those who are looking for Mrs. Right.. You know the love of your life. Here are some tips. 1. Be honest about AGE.. You maybe going or gone through mid life crisis but just be honest! 2. For the love of Goodness sake.. Before you post a picture, now listen here.. I am being very detailed.. Go in take a shower, comb your hair, groom your beard or mustache, put on a nice shirt, select a good scenic background, think of something really funny that makes you smile before you take that snap shot! So so so so many of you out there are afraid to smile. What woman wants to contact someone who cant smile? Who is not clean appearing. All those other roughed pictures to show who you are at work and or playtime is ok. but gezz.. Would you show up on a date looking like that.. NO! ... so doll yourself up! Trust me you will get more invites if you make your self inviting. 4. Drop the in front of the computer with your shirt off pic. We do not need to see you in your undershorts. We do not need to see your bare chest unless we ask later. lol.. 5. Maybe it is just me but please do not show me a picture of your motorbike! Most women associate a motor cycle with Mid life crisis. It is ok to have one if you love it, but show it to me later. I know! I know. You are trying to be proud of what you have and that you are a spare of the moment, free loving, open road, adventure kinda of guy.. We will figure that one out on our own especially if you say so during a conversation. STOP the bike photos. That does not tell us you have money and are care free! I would rather a picture of you by your lawnmower, or with a garden rake in your hands even carrying out the trash would be better than a motor bike. That lets us ladies know you are grounded and ready to be a man of the house. Now if you have a nice pick up, that is good. lol.. Just had to throw that one in as most all you men do not read these long blogs and don't get the real meaning of dating sites. I want to know the real you. PT
Comments (16)
I am trying to think of the perfect picture for my next photo to upload here. Would me doing the dishes be good?
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Look forward to reading more of your blogs. I went and looked at your profile and smiled, as you are so very honest. I think you will get on very nicely here.
How you can live in a remote place, i just don't know....especially as you seem to live alone...
Yes! Welcome To The Blogs.
Great blog that! You have posted.
PS. Johnny! Should use a photo of himself. And not of someone else, doing the dishes. Maybe one where he is cleaning the house. And one also! Where he is cleaning the yard!
Oh! And one, where he is taking out the trash. Also! one, where he is cutting the neighbors yard. And gathering up the snow. Just Saying!.....
I do agree on the photo thing but I don't think this will change anytime soon.
Great profile texts btw, hope you'll find what your are looking for on here.
I love that profile pic of you and it is so nice to see you back with your smile
So Angel, that would be 6 pics of Johnny doing jobs... knew you would have a field day with that one..
I had someone in the ehem
Sometimes I think these type of photos must work with some women, otherwise they wouldn't have these photos on their profile.
I prefer ogling men out in their natural reservation with some clothes on.
BTW, I joined a new gym and went there yesterday for the first time - some scenery there.
Have a great weekend.
Love it! You're funny!
I have a pic of me in just an apron. Bobikins absolutely LOVE it!!
Ok, too much of information, I guess.....
That's the way models look in glossy magazines.
The models were made mean by starvation.
I don't know what made CS guys mean.