Right Partner....
Men typically want a relationship that.. ..allows autonomy, while women look for... ... a sense of connection.... ... ...To begin your quest to find the right partner,... .., think about the traits and behaviors you prefer. Most... ...people automatically think of ... ..superficial traits such as height or eye color... ..Though these traits may be important to you, other traits... ..may also be more important when it comes to having ... .. a healthy, long-term relationship. Here is a list of some.. important qualities to consider... ...Commitment to personal growthInterested in learning how to be a better person and partner.
Aware of emotional baggage and weaknesses.
Has personal goals for self-improvement.
Emotional Openness
Aware of his or her own feelings.
Able to express his or her feelings.
Desires to share feelings with partner.
Integrity
Honest with themselves.
Honest with others and you.
Does not play games about wants and feelings.
Maturity and Responsibility
Maintains a clean house, pays bills and handles finances
Ability to take care of themselves.
Follows through on promises, shows up on time, does not let people down.
Respects your boundaries, values, feelings, and time.
High Self-esteem
Takes pride in themselves without being arrogant.
Takes care of their health, living environment, car, and possessions.
Does not allow other people to mistreat him/her.
Positive Attitude Towards Life
Focuses on solutions instead of problems.
Turns obstacles into opportunities.
Sees the good in people and situations. .. ..Consider some flaws that can be fatal to a relationship... ... Your partner might have one or more of these traits and still be.. ... capable of having a relationship. .. the following is a list of fatal flaws: .. ..Addictions
Anger
Feeling like a victim
Control freak
Has s*xual dysfunction
Hasn't grown up
Emotionally unavailable
Hasn't recovered from past relationships
Has emotional damage from childhood....
is going to kill me now...
Comments (25)
What all do this blog say?....
Heck, they all LEFT eventually, anyways!
Yeah Johnny, what p-sychology or sociology or dolly madisonology message do you sum up from this blog?
Just pick a card! Any Card....
one day I got a big paycheck and a new car, and right after, some pretty girl I knew, came up to me and said, "Hey, you must have a partner to share all that with."
I just made a face like this -->
Thanks for posting this interesting blog. I must be getting my non-beauty sleep now.
Good night.
PS. I loves you!...
Aware of emotional baggage and weaknesses.
Has personal goals for self-improvement"
I like all the above and also about the self esteem and the positive attitude towards life.
All these traits are very important.
However, difficult to find someone like that these days, especially on a dating site.
Sweetie, I never men were this complicated. I always though women were the complicated creatures.
Maybe we all should wait till we pass eighty before we commit to somone.
Would solve the population problems too!
Teena - your last comment - is going to kill me now???????????????? are you in trouble, pet, shall I send the police around?
You have made a great blog and it's what I tell people looking for a significant other. But I say it like this: Find someone that is equally yoked. That is, same religion, same likes and dislikes, same degree of intelligence then look at their looks. If all is in agreement then GFI (Go for it!!).
How are you sweet friend?