RAISING A RED FLAG
I was reading some mail and looking at some profiles of women who had sent likes and messages to me this morning not only from cs but other sites.I see this often but for some reason it really got my attention when I seen where it says do you have children.
When I see that a woman says yes but they don't live with me I see a red flag.
I know times have changed but I remember when there was a divorce or separation for some reason the mother always had custody of the kids.
please my sisters here on cs, don't get mad and put mean comments on my blog,, but do you see what I am saying.
This is not to offend anyone.
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It's totally against my principals.
and I have also seen where they send money to support there kids that live with family and husbands,,a lot of them say the husband are sorry and don't help kids,, now that is sad
Might as well have One Flying over the right House................................
There was a woman staying here once whose boyfriend had upped and left her alone with her daughter. One day from her mother he learned she was staying with me. He came by while I was at work and persuaded her to please let him take his little girl to McDonald's just for a little while and she consented. Very sadly she agreed.
He then disappeared with the child. County Sheriff deputies when called later that afternoon advised that because he was the child's father and because there had never been a court custody hearing, his taking of his daughter was perfectly legal and all she could do was hope that someday he re-established contact.
Needless to say this had profound impact on the woman and although she later regained contact with her child, she never was really right after that.
She may want to get him hooked first, then guess what, darling, my kids are back!
Maybe the father has sole custody of the kids.
Why would a woman be looking for a guy twice her age ?
'-)
A red flag for me is all these guys that have kids but aren't married. I do realise that unplanned pregnancies can happen and things don't work out sometimes - but I'm surprised of the big numbers where it "didn't work out". I do have sympathy for guys that are in their kids life and that were married and at least gave it a try.