What is it with some people

Hello, 1to1to1,
oh, I know what you mean. When I think about such people then it is for me a fact that they have the disability and not you. They are disabled in their brains and souls, and I would never want to change with them because, I think, for them is only half of the emotional and intellectual world available that is actually there.

I know it is said easily, but don´t let such people make you feel bad.

1to. When I find out from someone, as they generally tell me, that they have some disability or disease, I do not shy away from them, as most people do, or blurt it out to everyone. I treat them just like anyone else, as too many people make exceptions of them, which they r not, as far as I'm concerned. They have a brain, and can reason as much as they or anyone, without a disability or disease, can do.

Hi 1to1,I've learned throughout the years to just
make allowances for some not very bright people.


I have also found that some people obviously show fear about they probably don't know anything about.

1to1to1 Just continue to be the nice person that you are and just ignore the ones who obviously aren't all that bright in their thinking.

Hi 1-1, that's a sad case of affairs you have there, many people just are around for what THEY can get out of the friendship instead of being a contributor. I spent years learning about MS and I know of a company working on regenerating the growth of the neurons. Hopefully, you will be able to participate in the success of this drug someday. If you don't mind me asking what drug are you taking?

There loss 1to1

you know, back in the days when I barely could walk ( discus hernia),people started avoiding me ...then I started the rumor about me having a huge shlong -guess what -it worked ...

Your blog reminded me of something that took place when I was a young kid.

My mother,my older sister and I had been invited to a neighbors cookout and the neighbors son had a disability and he was also in a wheelchair and was unable to walk.

I recall as my older sister,mother and I were approaching the neighbors back yard my older sister who was pregnant at the time looked over at my mother and said that she wouldn't wish to have a child like that.

I'll never forget to this day the look on my mothers face and her reply to my older sister.My mother's face had turned bright red and I still recall what my mother said to my sister.I think my mother also felt like smacking my sister too.
She told her that she shouldn't have said what she said in regards to the neighbors son cause the baby that she was carrying could had been born with a disability too.

1-1, I find that interesting that your not taking any meds and your not showing any degregation in neron activity. The people you say who are taking meds and not seeming to do better is OK. Since MS is a degenerative disease no progression (relapses)is a success.

Thanks, I'll check it out.....

Hey One !!! I noticed you said you changed your outlook on life when this happened too you? I know you feel good about yourself for I feel good in knowing you feel that way because, I have been there and still there but like you stay active I work make a living and support other's that need it!! I see you truly know your true friends now too ?? I have had them in my life always it's about choice too if you make good and honest friends in my book they will stick by you and treat you no diff. I believe you are a fine person and as it is offer my own friendship too you should you wish it?? Keep up your chin strive head on as you do now all will be great for you promise!! Look back on your life and see the better side your on now then you were then! Keep a positive attitude and be funny, for life is that way and laughing will do you good!!


Stay Blessed Always!!
Goodenuph

Hi 1to, I's great to hear your MS is not progressing, my brother has a friend where this is not the case.

As for being avoided when sick, I think some people simply don't know how to deal with it.

I can remember when my father was dying he noticed that one of the neighbours he was quite friendly with never came to visit him. They came to the funeral, but it would have been better if they would have visited him while alive.

1to1to1 I am happy to hear that your M.S. seems to be in remission, and yes, I agree,, good food, organic if possible [although expensive] grass fed organic meat if you are a meat eater. Avoiding stress, you know it all , already . I amnot comparing illnesses, just friends. I was very active, a runner, great cyclist, and then I got Rheumatoid Arthritis. Now I look OK, was able to have a longterm relationship until it ended over a year ago but he accepted I got very tired, had to go for a nap during the day.

I had been out dancing, active, and suddenly there I was, being told that I needed two knee replacements plus 2 ops for each of my hands [fingers disfigured] I refused them all. But, I was told to walk with a stick... I didnot either, but, I began to see friends dissapear, they would send lovely have a nice weekend messages to my Fbook page,, but that was superficial and not genuine. They never included me going out for a coffee and chat and suddenly it was as if I was infectious. worse still, one woman accused me of using it to avoid socialising.. not true !!it is just that I have to bank energy and I know you understand that. Times I cant go out, days that are good. So I do understand and as everyone else has said, it is a reflection on them, not on you. It is hard to make friends at a certain age, but slowly but surely you will make the proper kind of friends, not the fairweather ones. Take care and keep up the positive attitude and good food and get out when you can for a short walk.

GG, wow. You're a lovely merry person, total respect.

1-1, I just listened to Wahl's one video and it's impressive to see that micronutrients at the cell level may have had an affect on rebuilding the myelin over her nerve fibers. And she had, like you said secondary progressive disease which there are no drugs approved. She used Tysabri which is still in clinical trials for secondary, but without success. Most people decline very rapidly after going into the secondary relapsing phase. Biff and others who know of people with MS should have them see this video. She was eating dark leafy green vegetables in huge portions 3 times daily......these veggies are full of magnesium and vitamin K......interesting to say the least...thanks for sharing.......

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