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Then treat yourself well, get out and do something different, meet new people and get busy - whenever you feel up for it.
In regards to him, do what's best for you. If it helps, cut contact, if you think there is a chance, let him text you and see how it goes.
Time is a great healer, grieve and take good care of you.
Just watch out for the P-enis pics
Write a personal ad, it will give you something fun to do
Somehow I think this guy, if given the chance, if not repentant and realizing how he was wrong, will only hurt you again.
You have contacted him way too much. Let him contact you now, and then decide how you want to respond. Think first though, don't just respond.
You WILL feel better. You just got hit in the stomach. Take good care of you.
I'd just place the ad and see what pops up, doesn't mean you have to jump on it
you're not desperate, so don't act so desperate
Its not a dating site, its an organization that Ebay own 25% in.
its more of a news paper. a really interesting and fun one if you know how to use it
but becareful of them that might try take advantage of what and how you express yourself here
you should be careful, i might accidentally break them
Hope you feel better tomorrow
chances are you won't.. but a day shall come you will
sure your all heart
plus your only a man
Yes i m doing ok after squeezing out all the available tears and getting warmth from friends. I need to rest and retrieve back my beauty and strength. Hope you are stronger :)
But yes, treat yourself, be kind to yourself....
its better than beating yourself up over someone that just isn't worth it..
And for you Ranger,a blow you so well deserve
The Healthy thing to do is to use this raw time to really think rationally about this relationship. For instance, if you were a friend advising you what to do, given his behaviour, what would your advise be ?
Going somewhere nice, enjoying a nice view, meeting another man, getting dolled up and going out when you feel so dreadful can only lead to more depression and feeling awful...
Allow the grieving process to flow and cry all you can. However, do try and step back, take a look, is there abusive behaviour here? because no matter how much we love a man, we deserve more than that and you shouldnot be crying. I've cried a river [as the song says] and now, looking back I don't think he was worth it. The RED FLAGS are always there, we just don't want to or cannot see them because love makes us very blind. Take care of you, and do write a little journal....