The Breakup
Actions carried out upon breakup: Delete photos, text, phone number, cut off any communication. Did they even ever exist? How do you handle it when the one you cared for is no longer in your life? Do you keep all the said above and wait for them to contact you again, giving you some kind of hope? How do you grieve? What actions do you take? Chalk it off to another one bites the dust and it's experience gained for the next relationship? How each of us handles a breakup is different. For me, I get everything that reminds me of them out of my life. I let it go. I cry, I evaluate the whole relationship and try to learn from it so I don't repeat past mistakes.....then I try to keep my heart open for the next that might come along.
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I just allow myself to grieve until I feel better, try not to repeat the mistakes I made, and then move on when I'm ready.
We all have our own way of dealing with things
I know when my children were small i tried and tried again all to no avail so walked with my kids and brought them up myself.
I would have like them to have a father but was not to be.
So reckon it depends on situation and how long together etc wishing you luck though
When on breakup remains the love ... but we do not see it because of the pain caused by our desire.
It's not wrong how you deal with it.
I sever ties completely after a relationship break-up. I find it easier for each of us to move on with our lives in different directions.
Although, they may remain in my thoughts, I feel it's best to cut ties, otherwise an emotional bond(with contact), can prevent each of you from moving on and dealing with the grieving process effectively.
I have literally "bumped" into exes and it's been cool. We're both over it, still have a warm spot for each other and it's been a nice meet, but know, too, we have let go emotionally.
2nd, I delete!
3rd, I think about the bad things of that person!
4th, I think about how sad I had to be when I was in that relationship (try do not think about the happy things)!
5th, I convinced myself being breakup is better!
6th, I convinced myself believe that being single is better than being with a wrong one
7th, I spend a lot of time for works to keep myself busy!
The fact is that once got too much hurt in a relationship, it’s almost possible to fall in love again for me. But thinking about the sad things had happened, I can say being single is much more better!
If it were someone I cared for, perhaps some of what you mentioned....
but if it were with someone I loved deeply.. well the only thing I'd do is be hopeful he'd remain my friend
Your looking good and its awfully good seeing you again...
just actually thought about you a few weeks ago
So maybe there's more to your shine than you care to let on