Vierkaesehoch

Ocean Coast, Maine, USA

Jun 2018

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Men and women....... No, don't....

Many of us men have been there. I recall as a much younger man, being in bed with a younger Indian girl, Sunita, daughter of a ranking military family, emigrees from the Subcontinent, who, at the time in central California, were wont to go into the cheap hotel business on retiring. She was a "candy stripper", a girl recently out of high school, and with plans for a career in nursing, volunteering with patient care. It wasn't too rare for such tarts to sniff about our dorm, on the prowl for a little action. I was staying in this former nurses' dorm for a large public hospital, where while in training, the place, to attract house staff, let me stay, with plenty of free laundry and cafeteria tickets. No one had any illusions of any of this. But during intimacy between the sheets, where a "home run" (yank jargon) was soon at hand, she began to protest, saying, "no, no...please, sir, don't, I'm not sure now if I want you to be my first." I hesitated, thinking this was honorable, but she soon became less and less convincing. Was it my only ever rape? Differences between the sexes. V-Aa.

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Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 9, 2018●559 Comments

What label do you give yourself when you call her a tart? Or does it mean there's different rules for men and women still today?

Now I must go to the tennis, when I return I'd like to see what you call yourself?

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 9, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

Then, K, we stupidly all called the girls tarts, and other such silly names. And refered to ourselves variously as hunks, studs, catches, gifts to women, pieces of a--, hungsters, treetop lovers, 20 cm Schwanz Kerle, and oh so many more. Nice to have grow up a bit since. Aa-V.

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 9, 2018●559 Comments

You gotta find a description which is not complimentary, as tart is not complimentary.

Roland Garros is tennis, next up Wimbledon.

I don't watch all the tennis only four months every year.

bloodyawfull●by the river, Slavonia Croatia

Jun 9, 2018●3 Blogs●585 Comments

...was my first impression on your blog. Then i remembered what i did back then.

MiMiArt●Omaha, Nebraska USA

Jun 9, 2018●36 Blogs●1,662 Comments

No, don't.......stop! Don't.....stop! Don't...stop. Don't..stop. Don't.stop. Don't stop. Don't stop.......

AlanStagg●Rangitikei, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand

Jun 9, 2018●74 Comments

Tart = sweet

Mercedes_00●Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia

Jun 10, 2018●4,083 Comments

I would love to get in a cage with you and rip ya limbs with my bare hands you disgusting bush pig!~

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 10, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

All, would also add that the sort of anger refered to above all too often is lubricated, intensified, and released by the drink, as anyone who actually has worked with such sad cases has seen and must learn to help with. Best not to interact interpersonally on ANT level with a buz on, if you are one such person, tart or otherwise. V-Aa.

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 10, 2018●559 Comments

I'm just rushing in and out, will come back to your other comments on blogs. My comments were not angry on your blog, they just offered sound advice if you want to meet a lady.

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 10, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

K, wasn't refering to your typical comments. You don't seem to have a mean bone in you. But many of us men have been fooled before. I actually don't see such anger all the time in the few sad such ladies on CS. Which prompted the comment on booze bringing out the unresolved feelings/fears/resentments/man hate. Now and again. But a good blog by you would be to explain to us just what the heck scoring in tennis entails. All that 3- 1, 6-love stuff. And then you can work on cricket and rugby league/union. Aa-V.

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 10, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

Never explain, never complain.....And who can argue with all THAT grounded logic? Hope you, as all of us, will try to work on our blind spots. Best for all involved....ourselves, loved ones, friends, coworkers, charges, etc. No? Aa-V.

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

Never explain, never complain.....And who can argue with all THAT grounded logic?
Not sure who this is referring to, but it is Sunday and 730am.
I will grab a coffee and go about my day without the least bit of remorse about explain or complain.
Why Refrain, wheb it's mundane.

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

*when I might even purchase a tart
with my coffee.

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 10, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

Thanks for the enlightenment. Best wishes. Ladies. Aa-V.

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 10, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

But, dear A, I don't equate you with a drunk and an incompetent person. Just responding to that incredible treetop level of anger by you and M (actual threat of bodily harm--- in the latter case) which equates with nothing, but in my experience, augurs toward unresolved issues. You will know that the drink can heighten such, but of ccourse, there are other releasing triggers. no? We all have these. Aa-V.

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

Itchy you couldn't be inferring there were repeats.
Thanks Aa.

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Repeats Ash

as in what I've said has already been said

well I've not read others replies, so I wasn't to know.....

My apologies Aa for being an echo around here

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

*was ..hurrying.

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Amazing how people read different into the same writing

mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments

As are you, Itchy

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

And where Blue" have I answered for him....
what I directed to you was a question... which you never answered but I'm not going to hold my breath waiting on one either.

I am a parent what difference that I'm not a father?

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

Visiting her may have been further
re victimization if she suppressed
much of it.Nothing has been said about how he did or didn't mention it to her in the days immediately after.Then who knows if it would be a continuous facade.

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Aa when you read this please will you delete Blues comment to me/about me... and delete my reply to him as well???

I'm speaking/emailing someone at the moment and I know he sometimes reads the blogs, I really don't want him to read something I'd rather him not know about me.

So please please please.. please delete???

BerrySmoothie●My Retreat, Auckland New Zealand

Jun 10, 2018●681 Comments

Ash,

Red flags have been bobbing up everywhere with V's blogs.

johnjjm●co westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●5 Blogs●1,312 Comments

is all a bit to much I think .....maybe a bit of respect to another person is called for if you step over the line well your just like an animal and boast about such is just in my eyes lousy and mean to most people

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

~~Oh yes,I caught was Bloody was saying and not at all ,from you I thought may have been along those lines~~

Sorry,what a mess.
Yes I understood what Bloody wrote and see what you both meant.

Cervatilla●The Reef, Canary Islands Spain

Jun 10, 2018●8 Blogs●119 Comments

I fear you went too far! To also brag about it in a blog is despicable, do you really think it will be acceptable as a fun moment at the time?
I agree totally with all that Pattie said & I find it apalling how you relayed it. You try to promote yourself as an educated guy with excellent credentials & yet you blog about something like this............ not quite the done thing really!

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

I am still agreeing it is unknown and would prefer it stay that way.
A place and time between occurred and he only relayed her general looks.
I just pray for healing and forgiveness.

for both people.

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 10, 2018●3,804 Comments

I stand by this.He described an act he engaged in.
I have no answer.pointless.I'm done gossiping about her.
Sunita,I am sorry.

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 10, 2018●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

doh forgot to ask

Mr Worthy if you had not known what happened to him....
would you of judged him as you have?

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Jun 11, 2018●3,804 Comments

Miss Itchy were there is smoke...
There's usually someone playing
with fire.Next time will call you
first.

mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland

Jun 11, 2018●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments

Or,
backtracking when responses weren't suitably favourable.

Only 2 people in the world know the truth.
And we'll never hear from one of those.

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 11, 2018●559 Comments

Av Are you from German heritage?

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 11, 2018●559 Comments

You are very harsh. But then I'm not perfect.

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 11, 2018●559 Comments

The above comment is to AV.

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 11, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

Well, all. The distinction is formally made in mental health disciplines between personality styles and frank, function interfering, rarely changing, disorders. Nuff said. But Prayer works, even for us hopeless souls.

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 11, 2018●559 Comments

Where on that list do I fit in AV?

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 11, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

Totally hopeless. But thankfully not to serious.

VierkaesehochOP●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Jun 11, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

Just being my usual freah self, K. You seem fine.

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Jun 11, 2018●559 Comments

Cool, I will hold you to that if you ever fight with me.

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