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I've talked to several men through the years, that kept sending money to women they never even met , and sometimes hadn't even talked to them on the phone!..Just a friendly reminder to be careful.

My car has a front radar used in the safety system for Forward Obstruction Warning (FOW) and Mazda Radar Cruise Control (MRCC) but sometimes the system gives a failure warning. I called Mazda USA and spoke to someone in customer relations who says they have no records of this happening to my model or others.
Last month, I dropped the car off for it's first service and told the service adviser about the failures and showed him photos of the warnings that appeared on the dashboard display.
He did a search and said there's nothing in history of this happening to any other vehicles.

Since they need to put the car to a test drive to try to reproduce the problem, I need to schedule an appointment for them to have the car at lease 2 days and arrange a (free) loaner. While I can make arrangements, I wasn't real sure about them being able to find the trouble. For me it starts while I'm on the highway and it's raining happening about 80% of the time.

I spoke to a friend who used to work at a car dealer and he asked "Did you Google it?"

Pretty simple and I found a few Mazda Tech sites where people post questions and get responses from other car owners. I found EXACTLY what I was looking for. It appears on my model and several others current and dating back a few years. Not a new problem.

At this point, I now have the ammunition I need to get back to the dealer for something that should already know about. Making my point, I'll send the service manager some links that explain the issue, with photos so they can get to the source quickly.

Thanks Google!

Americans celebrate their Independence Day on July 4th. It's a legal holiday. The internet will be open, but most businesses will be closed. This year, the 4th falls on a Tuesday and many people are extending their holiday to include Monday, making this a (well deserved) 4-day weekend.

As I drive around the area, many billboards are advertising sales of fireworks. I'm sure there are restrictions in Florida to the type of legal fireworks being sold... that doesn't stop people getting fireworks deemed illegal in Florida while traveling to other states with relaxed laws... or slipping the store owner $20 to pull out a private stash in the back storeroom.

Typically, every city or municipality will do free fireworks displays in open areas and have proper safety equipment in the event of a mishap. The best displays I've seen are on the beach, where they have a barge about a half-mile offshore so people are in perfect viewing distance and far enough for safety should there be a misfire or explosion.

Enjoy, be safe and if you eat watermelon at a barbecue, be sure to spit the seeds into the grass and make Loh_key happy. If you happen to eat watermelon indoors, spit the seeds anyway!

Is this it? Did we spend our lives taking in knowledge as a child, growing up and experiencing encounters with different people and situations. Making mistakes and wrong decisions. Some of us having romantic relations to the point of marriage. Creating children. Watching and helping them develope into adults themselves. Then we may look back and think that if only we knew then what we know now. Perhaps, and most likely then, life could have been so different.
It seems so ridiculous that when you reach a point in life when you can reflect on the decisions you made and what you have now learned, that it can end and your life experiences mean nothing, and no longer valuable. You become just dust blowing in the wind.
OR IS THAT NOT THE CASE?

In my opinion, the most attractive East European women are from Ukraine. They are beautiful in looks and with their accent and intelligence, are the complete package. They show great strength and resourcefulness in their determination for freedom, despite the extreme opposition they are subjected to by their violent and invasive neighbours.
They get 10 out of 10 from me.

Any ladies from Ukraine are welcome to comment on my CS site.

Many years ago, I took a cheap serrated blade steak knife and used it for cutting watermelon. To accomplish this, I curved the blade. The plastic handle cracked last month. I when shopping for a replacement at the dollar store... where things are $1.25 now.

Times change and the steak knives they now carry, have a straight edge. No problem, so I bought two. I opened one package, washed it and was amazed at the quality of the knife.
Stainless steel with a moulded handle. It cuts much better than the other steak knives and I plan to go back and get a few more.

It cuts like a knife, but it feels so right!




The old knife served me well...


Seedless round melon

Three body parts, head, thorax and two compound eyes, antennae and a proboscis. Six legs and wings covered in scales. Not approached by other creatures due to its sour taste and is poisonous. Female moths produce scents called pheromones to attract males.

A fictive story, I am calling the man Jack. I must say, this could be in any other household a millions of times over:

Jack adored her, from the day he brought her into his home. She could do no wrong and if Jack was not pleased with something she did, she would give him such a sad face, without a word, Jack knew she was sorry, very sorry, so sorry. He had to love her.

Jack never expected her to do anything in the house, she never needed to clean, not even when she made a mess. She would not be expected to do the washing up or any other kind of household work. Jack would make sure she had good food, only the best for her, sometimes being cooked separately. Jack didn’t mind the extra work, she was worth it.

They would have intimate times together, like when he sat on the couch watching TV, she was quite large and took up most of the couch but she would put her head on his lap and he would offer her some nice snacks which she always appreciated.

At night she would warm his cold feet, during the daytime they would go for nice long walks, he usually suggested the way, but sometimes she wanted to go somewhere else, he would always give in to her suggestion, they never argued about anything, a perfect couple.

Many years later, she became ill and was suffering. Of course Jack brought her to see a doctor but it became obvious she would not recover.
And one day, Jack had to say a final good bye to his beloved.

Today, Jack sits on the sofa next to his wife, who was banned from sitting next to her husband for so long, as Jack darling would not let her get anywhere near them. His wife was the one that keeps the house clean, cooks, does the washing and speaks her mind which does not always please Jack, but then, he did marry her.

Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? It's like deciding between going on a thrilling adventure or staying in your cozy comfort zone.

When you've experienced love and then faced its loss, it can feel like getting caught in a sudden rainstorm without an umbrella. The emotions can be overwhelming, like a torrential downpour soaking you to the bone. It can leave you feeling heartbroken and questioning whether it was worth the risk.

But here's another perspective: love is like embarking on a breathtaking journey. It's like setting off on a hike up a challenging mountain, where the climb is arduous, but the views from the top are awe-inspiring. When you've loved, you've likely experienced moments of immense joy, connection, and personal growth that are like glimpses of paradise along the way.

Even when it ends in heartbreak, the lessons learned and the memories made become part of your life story. It's like collecting unique souvenirs from different destinations that shape who you are. Each relationship leaves an imprint on your heart, teaching you valuable lessons about yourself, relationships, and what you truly desire.

On the other hand, there's the alternative—never having loved at all. It's like staying indoors, cozy and dry, while others venture out into the unpredictable beauty of the world. You might avoid the pain of heartbreak, but you also miss out on the exhilarating experiences, deep connections, and personal growth that love can bring.

So, is it better to have loved and lost? Well, that's for you to decide. Some may argue that the joy and growth they experienced outweigh the pain of loss. Others may prefer the comfort of a safe and predictable life.

Ultimately, it's a personal choice, and there's no one-size-fits-all answer. Love is a risk, but it's also a source of profound fulfillment and richness in life. Just remember, whether you've loved and lost or chosen a different path, what truly matters is finding happiness and living a life that feels authentic to you.

Cheers

Emm, unrequited love, the bittersweet symphony of the heart. Let's dive into this tender topic and find some clarity amidst the emotional rollercoaster, shall we?

1). Assess your heart's budget. Loving someone who doesn't reciprocate can feel like investing all your emotions in a one-way street. Take a moment to evaluate how much love you have to give and whether it's worth spending it on someone who can't offer the same in return. Remember, emotional investments should bring joy and fulfillment, not leave you bankrupt.

2). Remember, you're a precious limited edition. Consider your own self-worth and value. Loving yourself should always be a priority. If someone doesn't appreciate the amazing person you are, it might be time to redirect that love towards someone who will treasure it as fiercely as you do.

3) Don't be a dog chasing its own tail. Pursuing someone who doesn't love you back can feel like running in circles without ever reaching the finish line. It's important to assess if this pursuit is preventing you from finding the happiness you deserve. Sometimes, letting go is the best way to create space for someone who will love you wholeheartedly.

4). Keep your heart open to new adventures. While it may seem daunting, being open to new connections and opportunities can lead you to unexpected paths of love and happiness. You never know what amazing person might be just around the corner, ready to appreciate and reciprocate the love you have to offer.

5). Prioritize your own happiness. Ultimately, you deserve to be with someone who loves and cherishes you in return. Focus on activities and relationships that bring you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with friends and loved ones who uplift and support you. Happiness starts from within, and when you radiate that happiness, you attract the right kind of love into your life.

Love should be a two-way street, with both parties investing their hearts and souls. While unrequited love can be painful, it's important to weigh the emotional cost and prioritize your own happiness. Keep your heart open, value yourself, and trust that the right person will come along to reciprocate your love and make it all worthwhile.

Cheers