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Life partner or Female Staff ..?
A man looking for a new wife or life partner to spend the rest of his life with.
When being asked what are the ideal type of woman he is looking for :
He stated as :
~Someones who like to help in the company with me,
~open minded,
~not conservative,
~honest,
~ages or kids I don't mind".
What do you think...
Actually , He is looking for a new wife or.. a new employee/ female staff to help him running the company?
When being asked what are the ideal type of woman he is looking for :
He stated as :
~Someones who like to help in the company with me,
~open minded,
~not conservative,
~honest,
~ages or kids I don't mind".
What do you think...
Actually , He is looking for a new wife or.. a new employee/ female staff to help him running the company?
feeling`s and anger issues
I need some help in understanding why men feel it is ok to holler and scream and say insensitive, unkind things to there significant other JUST because they are angry or having a bad day .
why they don`t think how the other person is going to feel by their negative actions?
their excuse is I said it or did it because you made me mad.
do you know it takes more power to swallow your pride and say nothing or walk off than it does to speak your mind .
a kind answer turn`s away anger,,,
I know some woman can be the same way,,however I need a man`s view point please
why they don`t think how the other person is going to feel by their negative actions?
their excuse is I said it or did it because you made me mad.
do you know it takes more power to swallow your pride and say nothing or walk off than it does to speak your mind .
a kind answer turn`s away anger,,,
I know some woman can be the same way,,however I need a man`s view point please
Sad news is sad news no matter how late you find o
Well it's a long time since I posted here , because I met a wonderful woman on here and we are together still and have had some great times travelling , and I had no real need to be here I did miss a few friends I made here , but I felt it would be wrong to be on a dating site also. So first of all I will say hello to those online friends I made here , but I want to say a Big GOODBYE to the one other person I met here besides my partner . That other person was SIMMO , we met for coffee and spent a few hours in each others company chatting . For those of you who dint meet him he was a lovely genuine man who was full of life and wit and cheer passionate about all we spoke about , he wanted the same from life as all of us and I reckon he enjoyed making people laugh ,we often joked about my typing so here's to you SIMMO REST IN PEACE AN OLD IRISH BLESSING
In Time of Sorrow…
May you see God’s light on the path ahead
When the road you walk is dark.
May you always hear,
Even in your hour of sorrow,
The gentle singing of the lark.
When times are hard may hardness
Never turn your heart to stone,
May you always remember
when the shadows fall - You do not walk alone R.I.P SIMMO , from us
In Time of Sorrow…
May you see God’s light on the path ahead
When the road you walk is dark.
May you always hear,
Even in your hour of sorrow,
The gentle singing of the lark.
When times are hard may hardness
Never turn your heart to stone,
May you always remember
when the shadows fall - You do not walk alone R.I.P SIMMO , from us
online today!
The Highly Sensitive Man
I posted a blog recently on "Highly Sensitive People". One male blogger said it seemed to apply more to women than to men.
The following is from an article in "Psychology Today" magazine titled "The Highly Sensitive Man":
"Being a sensitive man can present unique challenges as men are still held to a standard of masculinity that does not often include showing their feelings. Being a highly sensitive person involves struggling to cope with feeling overwhelmed by sensory and emotional information and the stress of modern life and finding opportunities to express those feelings can be difficult. But with an understanding of themselves and an appreciation of their traits, highly sensitive men can find their sensitivity is both a gift and a strength.
While many people do not understand the reasons for a highly sensitive woman becoming upset over the sound of a screaming baby or overwhelmed by the crowds at a fair, they will still usually accept her reaction. Highly sensitive men are not often accepted in the same way. Men are expected to hide their feelings, suck it up, and soldier on.
The result is that men often bury their feelings in an attempt to conform to social pressure and as a way of dealing with the feelings they themselves struggle to understand. This kind of compartmentalising of emotions, that is, separating your feelings from your thoughts and actions, is often an unconscious coping tactic. By stuffing unpleasant feelings, such as anger, fear, anxiety, worry and hurt, into an imaginary box, a man can find it easier to move on. Unfortunately, you can’t pick and choose which feelings go into the box. If one goes, they all go, including the positive ones, like happiness, enthusiasm and love. This strategy may make life easier for the highly sensitive man, but it also makes his life flat, cold and ultimately lonely.
Without the practice of showing their feelings, it can be difficult for men to even know how to begin. What’s more, it becomes increasingly difficult for them to even be aware of what they’re feeling. Consequently, when someone does ask how he is feeling, he responds that he is fine, that there’s nothing wrong. The problem, however, is that he becomes emotionally distant from those people he cares about and who care about him, making it nearly impossible for him to receive the love and support he needs.
Compartmentalising your feelings can be a useful and often an essential technique for coping with overwhelming feelings when you are in a situation that prevents emotional expression. For the highly sensitive man, however, becoming aware of and expressing those feelings on a regular basis is crucial for maintaining a positive sense of self, as well as being a powerful tool for lowering stress levels. HSPs experience so much stress, thanks to environmental overload, that facing their feelings is fundamental to their health. Pushing feelings away does not make them disappear. In fact, feelings tend to grow the longer you avoid them. This might explain why some men appear to be calm and coping well, until they suddenly explode with anger. It just all becomes too much.
Recognising and accepting yourself as a man who is highly sensitive is the first step. Sensitivity is a gift, not a weakness, and it means that you are creative, empathetic and able to appreciate wonderful sensory elements in life like music, art, fragrances and colours that other people often miss. Being highly sensitive also means that you have an ability to help others. Burying your feelings is easier, but talking about your feelings takes courage. By becoming aware of your feelings and learning to express them, you not only draw loving people towards you, you can also teach others how to cope, simply by being an example of that magical combination of sensitivity and strength".
What do you think?
The following is from an article in "Psychology Today" magazine titled "The Highly Sensitive Man":
"Being a sensitive man can present unique challenges as men are still held to a standard of masculinity that does not often include showing their feelings. Being a highly sensitive person involves struggling to cope with feeling overwhelmed by sensory and emotional information and the stress of modern life and finding opportunities to express those feelings can be difficult. But with an understanding of themselves and an appreciation of their traits, highly sensitive men can find their sensitivity is both a gift and a strength.
While many people do not understand the reasons for a highly sensitive woman becoming upset over the sound of a screaming baby or overwhelmed by the crowds at a fair, they will still usually accept her reaction. Highly sensitive men are not often accepted in the same way. Men are expected to hide their feelings, suck it up, and soldier on.
The result is that men often bury their feelings in an attempt to conform to social pressure and as a way of dealing with the feelings they themselves struggle to understand. This kind of compartmentalising of emotions, that is, separating your feelings from your thoughts and actions, is often an unconscious coping tactic. By stuffing unpleasant feelings, such as anger, fear, anxiety, worry and hurt, into an imaginary box, a man can find it easier to move on. Unfortunately, you can’t pick and choose which feelings go into the box. If one goes, they all go, including the positive ones, like happiness, enthusiasm and love. This strategy may make life easier for the highly sensitive man, but it also makes his life flat, cold and ultimately lonely.
Without the practice of showing their feelings, it can be difficult for men to even know how to begin. What’s more, it becomes increasingly difficult for them to even be aware of what they’re feeling. Consequently, when someone does ask how he is feeling, he responds that he is fine, that there’s nothing wrong. The problem, however, is that he becomes emotionally distant from those people he cares about and who care about him, making it nearly impossible for him to receive the love and support he needs.
Compartmentalising your feelings can be a useful and often an essential technique for coping with overwhelming feelings when you are in a situation that prevents emotional expression. For the highly sensitive man, however, becoming aware of and expressing those feelings on a regular basis is crucial for maintaining a positive sense of self, as well as being a powerful tool for lowering stress levels. HSPs experience so much stress, thanks to environmental overload, that facing their feelings is fundamental to their health. Pushing feelings away does not make them disappear. In fact, feelings tend to grow the longer you avoid them. This might explain why some men appear to be calm and coping well, until they suddenly explode with anger. It just all becomes too much.
Recognising and accepting yourself as a man who is highly sensitive is the first step. Sensitivity is a gift, not a weakness, and it means that you are creative, empathetic and able to appreciate wonderful sensory elements in life like music, art, fragrances and colours that other people often miss. Being highly sensitive also means that you have an ability to help others. Burying your feelings is easier, but talking about your feelings takes courage. By becoming aware of your feelings and learning to express them, you not only draw loving people towards you, you can also teach others how to cope, simply by being an example of that magical combination of sensitivity and strength".
What do you think?
Quote of the Day
In response to:
“From golden showers in a sex club in Vegas, to tax fraud, to deals with corrupt officials from the former Soviet Union, to catch and kill conspiracies to silence Trump’s clandestine lovers, I wasn’t just a witness to the president’s rise — I was an active and eager participant.”
“From golden showers in a sex club in Vegas, to tax fraud, to deals with corrupt officials from the former Soviet Union, to catch and kill conspiracies to silence Trump’s clandestine lovers, I wasn’t just a witness to the president’s rise — I was an active and eager participant.”
~ Michael Cohen (from his new book, 'Disloyal')
From the New York Times;
In response to:
In Tell-All Foreword, Cohen Promises Sordid Tales Trump ‘Does Not Want You to Read’
In his memoir, “Disloyal,” Michael D. Cohen, President Trump’s onetime lawyer and fixer, claims that he had unique access to Mr. Trump, a man with “no true friends.”
By Annie Karni
Aug. 13, 2020
WASHINGTON — Michael D. Cohen, President Trump’s onetime lawyer and fixer, released the foreword of his upcoming jailhouse tell-all on Thursday, posting to his website an introduction in which he promised stories involving the president and everything from “golden showers in a sex club in Vegas, to tax fraud, to deals with corrupt officials from the former Soviet Union.”
In the foreword to his memoir, “Disloyal: The True Story of the Former Personal Attorney to President Donald J. Trump,” Mr. Cohen claims that he had unique access to Mr. Trump, a man with “no true friends,” who trusted Mr. Cohen so much that his cellphone contacts were synced with his own.
“I bore witness to the real man, in strip clubs, shady business meetings, and in the unguarded moments when he revealed who he really was: a cheat, a liar, a fraud, a bully, a racist, a predator, a con man,” Mr. Cohen writes, claiming he has gained from those experiences a singular understanding of the president.
Mr. Cohen does not explain more in the foreword about his experience with Mr. Trump in Las Vegas, but the book will most likely revive questions about the veracity of an infamous claim in a dossier compiled by Christopher Steele, a former British spy, about Mr. Trump’s ties to Russia.
In it, Mr. Steele wrote that Mr. Trump had prostitutes urinate on a bed where President Barack Obama and his wife, Michelle, once slept, and that the Kremlin had recordings. Mr. Trump has denied the story, and it remains unsubstantiated. James B. Comey, who as F.B.I. director briefed the president about the dossier, has said that “it’s possible, but I don’t know.”
On Twitter, Mr. Cohen said he had “waited a long time to share my truth” as he posted a link to order a signed or an unsigned copy. In the foreword, he promises that “this is a book the president of the United States does not want you to read.”
Indeed, the government tried to stop the publication of Mr. Cohen’s book, according to a federal judge. Much of it was written on yellow legal pads by hand from Otisville Federal Prison.
Last month, a federal judge ruled that the decision to return Mr. Cohen to custody from home confinement amounted to retaliation by the government for his plans to publish the unflattering portrait of Mr. Trump. Mr. Cohen had been sent home because of the coronavirus pandemic. The judge ordered him to be released back into home confinement.
The book does not yet have a publication date. Mr. Cohen wrote online that it was “coming soon.” He has not said who his publisher is.
Mr. Cohen writes in his foreword that “Trump had colluded with the Russians, but not in the sophisticated ways imagined by his detractors.”
In Tell-All Foreword, Cohen Promises Sordid Tales Trump ‘Does Not Want You to Read’
In his memoir, “Disloyal,” Michael D. Cohen, President Trump’s onetime lawyer and fixer, claims that he had unique access to Mr. Trump, a man with “no true friends.”
By Annie Karni
Aug. 13, 2020
WASHINGTON — Michael D. Cohen, President Trump’s onetime lawyer and fixer, released the foreword of his upcoming jailhouse tell-all on Thursday, posting to his website an introduction in which he promised stories involving the president and everything from “golden showers in a sex club in Vegas, to tax fraud, to deals with corrupt officials from the former Soviet Union.”
In the foreword to his memoir, “Disloyal: The True Story of the Former Personal Attorney to President Donald J. Trump,” Mr. Cohen claims that he had unique access to Mr. Trump, a man with “no true friends,” who trusted Mr. Cohen so much that his cellphone contacts were synced with his own.
“I bore witness to the real man, in strip clubs, shady business meetings, and in the unguarded moments when he revealed who he really was: a cheat, a liar, a fraud, a bully, a racist, a predator, a con man,” Mr. Cohen writes, claiming he has gained from those experiences a singular understanding of the president.
Mr. Cohen does not explain more in the foreword about his experience with Mr. Trump in Las Vegas, but the book will most likely revive questions about the veracity of an infamous claim in a dossier compiled by Christopher Steele, a former British spy, about Mr. Trump’s ties to Russia.
In it, Mr. Steele wrote that Mr. Trump had prostitutes urinate on a bed where President Barack Obama and his wife, Michelle, once slept, and that the Kremlin had recordings. Mr. Trump has denied the story, and it remains unsubstantiated. James B. Comey, who as F.B.I. director briefed the president about the dossier, has said that “it’s possible, but I don’t know.”
On Twitter, Mr. Cohen said he had “waited a long time to share my truth” as he posted a link to order a signed or an unsigned copy. In the foreword, he promises that “this is a book the president of the United States does not want you to read.”
Indeed, the government tried to stop the publication of Mr. Cohen’s book, according to a federal judge. Much of it was written on yellow legal pads by hand from Otisville Federal Prison.
Last month, a federal judge ruled that the decision to return Mr. Cohen to custody from home confinement amounted to retaliation by the government for his plans to publish the unflattering portrait of Mr. Trump. Mr. Cohen had been sent home because of the coronavirus pandemic. The judge ordered him to be released back into home confinement.
The book does not yet have a publication date. Mr. Cohen wrote online that it was “coming soon.” He has not said who his publisher is.
Mr. Cohen writes in his foreword that “Trump had colluded with the Russians, but not in the sophisticated ways imagined by his detractors.”
(continued in my first comment below)
Careful to All!
I've talked to several men through the years, that kept sending money to women they never even met , and sometimes hadn't even talked to them on the phone!..Just a friendly reminder to be careful.
Why big men act like boys???
I met a guy here few weeks ago and I cant believe such a adult behave like a child.
His attitude and maturity is below zero.
I couldn't manage so I stop talk to him.
I believe most men here just want a side chick or they want to be 'players'.
Can somebody tell me why big men act like boys...
:yyfay:
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His attitude and maturity is below zero.
I couldn't manage so I stop talk to him.
I believe most men here just want a side chick or they want to be 'players'.
Can somebody tell me why big men act like boys...
:yyfay:
uoA Question.
Should Prince Charles step aside and allow William and Harry to be the next Kings, as they are more popular with the public and lets face it, the whole Camilla thing is not really a good look. This would be good for the British people, and the entire nation of England because lets face it, the place has become a bit of a joke in recent times. Tourism is at the point of collapse, and the rest of Europe is demanding the Brexit, and there's really not much happening there. Morale is at an all time low, people shuffling aimlessly around the place, hoping there is some kind of sign from the Royal family that things might improve. Obviously, if Charles becomes the King, it's going to be a complete disaster really. But if William and Harry become, like, co-Kings... Boy oh boy I can see things really moving forward in a positive way.
Reasons Why? More Mens Compare To Woman Get Depression?
This is Started at High School!
They Dream Big! More then females
They Wish to be an Architects ,Doctors, Engineers
Or An Apprenticeship on a Highest Paid Trade
But when they Dreams Crash Down! They feel Hopeless, Insecure,They Question them Selves,Why?
They Open Small Businesses,they work Some times 7 days a Week
They wanted All!
They Hate Failure!
They do Not Like To Show Emotions!
Some Times They Suffer in Silence!
They Do Not Like To Talk What It Is they Worry About They Show People A Different Side Of them Selves A Happy A Content Side!
But Inside They Are Sad and Unhappy!
They Never Want To Ask For Help
They Reject Help ,from People They Love Them The Most!
They Complete Close Them Self From Every One!
Depression I a Part Of Life!
We all Will Have Or Has Had A Form Of Depression In Our Life!
You Are Not Alone Is Always A Love One Ready To HelpYou!
Ask For Help !
Head Space I A Great Place Where You Could Find Help!
By Falicia
What is Your Oppinion?
They Dream Big! More then females
They Wish to be an Architects ,Doctors, Engineers
Or An Apprenticeship on a Highest Paid Trade
But when they Dreams Crash Down! They feel Hopeless, Insecure,They Question them Selves,Why?
They Open Small Businesses,they work Some times 7 days a Week
They wanted All!
They Hate Failure!
They do Not Like To Show Emotions!
Some Times They Suffer in Silence!
They Do Not Like To Talk What It Is they Worry About They Show People A Different Side Of them Selves A Happy A Content Side!
But Inside They Are Sad and Unhappy!
They Never Want To Ask For Help
They Reject Help ,from People They Love Them The Most!
They Complete Close Them Self From Every One!
Depression I a Part Of Life!
We all Will Have Or Has Had A Form Of Depression In Our Life!
You Are Not Alone Is Always A Love One Ready To HelpYou!
Ask For Help !
Head Space I A Great Place Where You Could Find Help!
By Falicia
What is Your Oppinion?
Fishing
To the man out there who keeps sending me messages about going fishing at 5am. You have chosen to hide your profile so i cannot reply to you to tell you Answer is NO and No..... 
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