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Why is it i keep getting these vile men who want to do rude things via skype and for me to watch...REALLY..... Does anyone else have this problem?

Valentines day is tomorrow...

Which means there will be a lot of men in the doghouse after they screw it up...

But that won't happen for the men reading this...

Because I'm gonna' show you the BIG mistake men make on a day like Valentine's day.

Ready?

First, there's a fundamental difference in the way men and women think about things like Valentine's day or their birthdays...

If your wife woke up on the morning of your birthday, and said "today we're going to do whatever you want. We'll go anywhere you want and do whatever you want. You just say it, and we'll do it", most guys would love that...

But say that same thing to your wife, and she'll hate the idea.

Why?

Because she doesn't want to make decisions.

There's no fun, surprise or romance in that.

Making decisions is a very masculine thing to do.

What she really wants is for you to handle everything, so that she can relax and surrender and be her full feminine self.

For example...

Let's say on the morning of your wife's birthday, you tell your wife "You have 30 minutes to pack your bags. We're going away for the weekend. I can't tell you any details, just be ready in 30 minutes"

THAT is the kind of birthday celebration that women go crazy about. Your wife would be glowing if you did something like that...

Now here's the point I want you to take away for Valentine's day tomorrow...

You don't have to make some grand gesture and whisk your wife away for a few days...

But adding an element of mystery to the day, and having everything planned out already is the kind of thing that women LOVE.

She wants to know that you're in control.

She wants to know that everything is being handled, and that she can just be herself and go along for the ride.

There will be millions of men tomorrow making the deadly mistake of asking their wife "what do you want to do?"

My advice?

Make sure you're not one of those guys!

God Bless!

Hey guys, I dont know if this topic has bin covered already my apologies if it has. This is probable a guys blog but you girls are welcome to throw your 2 cents worth in

1. Is there such a thing as trying to hard ?javascript:emot('');

2. Do some of you guys feel you bent over backwards to accommodate various aspects of a relationship and get a empty feeling of non-appreciation .javascript:emot('');

3.How many times do you get taken for a ride before you learn your lesson? (what do watch for to keep that from happening) javascript:emot('');

4. Do some men fall in love to easily ? Blinded by ?

5. How do you deal with a broken heart ( touchy subject)

Any one have a comment or incite to share?

Let's face it; most of us are on these dating sites to find true love...some not, but that is another story and I do not want to focus on those that should go other places to fill their needs and leave the ones alone that seek truth, honesty and hopefully real love.

I have been on this dating site for a very short time...one month at most and so far I have been
delighted at the quality of Men and good manners they display when writing to a girl/woman.

Take a bow Gentlemen and carry on the Good work. There is nothing nicer than a Gentleman who displays respect and manners towards a possible meeting.

It sets a great foundation for a first meeting.

There is never a second chance to make a first impression.

boobs or bum ?..where do you look ?.. I travel in planes a lot, i can always be seen leaning my head into the aisle when the Hostess pass..im a bum man myself.

I think some people don't read well of the information written on the profile. And they keep on contacting someone who dislike their contact.

I have sent messages: " are you illiterate?".
That person sent me friend requet after I sent a message like that.I have to delete him even from the wvm list. even to see the ugly face is a problem.

Hey Gals,

I've been on and of CS for the past 3 years after my last "serious" relationship. Now, for obvious reasons I am back and ready to get my feet wet in the "talking/dating" category again.

Now for the important question:

Do any of you ever get emails that you think were copied and paste or had the feeling like it wasn't only sent to you.
Because lately I'm getting those generalized kind of messages and just wondering if that's the way it works now?
Do people type random notes then copy and paste accordingly?

For Example:

Hello Dear, your profile looks great.
I am a decent man looking to see if we have some chemistry.
Please message me if you are interested in chatting....

Let me know.

NHS

...or any mix of the above, found that for a variety of reasons, Malta might not exactly be a main lode for finding grounded females with potential for making committed long term partners? Just wondering out loud.
I'm thinking, as with most migrations, that there might exist strong selective pressures at work. As when pretty poor ladies selectively migrate to certain large cities.

Work the logic backwards to see the point. The survival of the human race depends on reproduction. Reproduction depends on relations between men and women. Relations between men and women takes an effort to form them. Flirting is the front line of that effort.

Men are designed to be the "aggressors" in the male/female relationship. As part of that role, they are the ones who break the ice. If someone doesn't do it the survival of the human race is in jeopardy. As the saying goes, if you want to make an omelette, you have to crack a few eggs.

So nature designed men to play this role by impounding it into their DNA. It's part of the genetic code that distinguishes male DNA from female DNA.

The fact that not every flirting event turns into a relationship is similar to the fact that a bee doesn't find pollen in every flower it tests. But that doesn't stop the bee from doing what it is programmed to do with every flower it can. The more flowers it tests, the more likely it is to find what it is looking for.

I went 5 days without shaving. Why?
It only takes 10 minutes to shave and it's usually before a shower (that I do daily) and I usually regret waiting so long as it clogs the razor, takes 20+ minutes and I get a horrible scratchy shave.

Done. It's done.