Here is a list of Dating & Relationships Blogs. A Blog is a journal you may enter about your life, thoughts, interesting experiences, or lessons you've learned. Post an opinion, impart words of wisdom, or talk about something interesting in your day. Update your blog on a regular basis, or just whenever you have something to say. Creating a blog is a good way to share something of yourself with others. Reading blogs is a good way to learn more about others. Click here to post a blog.
He is not perfect so do you
He’s not perfect.
You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect.
But if he can make you laugh at least once,
causes you to think twice,
and if he admits to being human and making mistakes,
hold onto him and give him the most you can.
He isn’t going to quote poetry,
he’s not thinking about you every moment,
but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break.
Don’t hurt him,
don’t change him,
and don’t expect more than he can give.
Don’t analyze.
Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad,
and miss him when he’s not there.
Love hard when there is love to be had.
Because perfect guys don’t exist,
but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you heart
~ Bob Marley ~
You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect.
But if he can make you laugh at least once,
causes you to think twice,
and if he admits to being human and making mistakes,
hold onto him and give him the most you can.
He isn’t going to quote poetry,
he’s not thinking about you every moment,
but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break.
Don’t hurt him,
don’t change him,
and don’t expect more than he can give.
Don’t analyze.
Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad,
and miss him when he’s not there.
Love hard when there is love to be had.
Because perfect guys don’t exist,
but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you heart
~ Bob Marley ~
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Happy, Happy Birthday to my friend Wallops! May you have many more and may God bless one of the nicest ladies on the blogs!!!!!!!!! 
Hey gang, tomorrow, Sunday is her birthday! Let's congradulate her again!
Hey gang, tomorrow, Sunday is her birthday! Let's congradulate her again!
Not single/Not looking....
I read a man's profile.... "Not single/Not looking"
In his words: looking for friendships.....never know it could lead to more....
Hm...hm....
In my thoughts, he is looking for friendship, and hoping it could lead to move...... (to a love relation???
) But why put "not single/not looking??"
Men...please explain to me why certain people do this??
In his words: looking for friendships.....never know it could lead to more....
Hm...hm....
In my thoughts, he is looking for friendship, and hoping it could lead to move...... (to a love relation???
) But why put "not single/not looking??" Men...please explain to me why certain people do this??
Not single/Not looking....
I read a man's profile.... "Not single/Not looking"
In his words: looking for friendships.....never know it could lead to more....
Hm...hm....
In my thoughts, he is looking for friendship, and hoping it could lead to move...... (to a love relation??? ) But why put "not single/not looking??"
Men...please explain to me why certain people do this??
In his words: looking for friendships.....never know it could lead to more....
Hm...hm....
In my thoughts, he is looking for friendship, and hoping it could lead to move...... (to a love relation???
) But why put "not single/not looking??" Men...please explain to me why certain people do this??
once you start moving around -
My job moves me all round the world, I tell the agency yes, anywhere, just leave me time between jobs to see my sons (grown up, own lives) and catch up. Some people who talk me on messages find that strange, ask when I want to settle down. I like having same place to always go back to between jobs, but happy to leave again.
I left my home country when I was 20 to get married, never went back. Never felt since that anywhere was Home because where I am is home.
Do you live still where you were born, or also a rolling stone? Interested to hear if you find same as me.
I left my home country when I was 20 to get married, never went back. Never felt since that anywhere was Home because where I am is home.
Do you live still where you were born, or also a rolling stone? Interested to hear if you find same as me.
Shacking-Up!...
The phrase "SHACKING-UP" may not be a phrase some of you know or have heard of... but SHACKING-UP mean to live with a man or woman in a s*xual relationship without marriage.
Back in the day, until I was old enough as a teenager to know its meaning, and even today SHACKING UP means the same that is used when two single people live together as married in a s*xual relationship as a couple, but are unmarried. Yeah, there are many so-called nice terms and phrases the secular world uses to make what they do sound ethical and morally right and acceptable, such as: in the world SHACKING UP is also known as common-law or cohabiting; having an affair outside of marriage, only means adultery; or making love, really means fornication (sex outside of marriage) or practicing s*xual immorality in biblical terms.
Of course, there are those who would care less about what God speaks, and some of us have all been there and done that BEFORE we came to our senses and were redeemed unto salvation as Christian believers. As Christians now, we know that God is the only one who made the union between two people who are to be in love and enjoy the pleasures and comfort of s*xual relations in marriage: It is a known that God commands that to be in a marriage it is between a male and female as a couple, and the two shall be joined together in marriage as one flesh.
God commands that to prevent s*xual immorality, adultery and strong s*xual passions that we're unable to control, the man should have his own wife, and the woman should have her own husband, the couple in a dating relationship should get married to prevent s*xual immorality which is sin. I Corinthians chapter 7.
Many couples young and older, with and without children are making the choice to live together which is SHACKING-UP. And this makes them SHACKERS Many women conclude to many false promises of marriage and myths, thinking its going to improve their relationship, but it really doesn't, it only hinders because SHACKING-UP in not a committed relationship and does more harm than good. Women more than men tend to suffer greatly when they lower themselves to live with a man without marriage, thinking she has got him and he's going to marry her down the road, only thing... down the road never comes nor does the SHACK-UP end in marriage. And there she's off again SHACKING UP WITH ANOTHER MAN who makes the same uncommitted false promise, and it become a pattern of insecure and a desperate habit to SHACK-UP with every man she meets, just to have a man in a relationship.
Here are some interesting stats on cohabitation "SHACKING-UP" gathered from the U.S. Census Bureau and the latest university studies:
*Living together is considered to be more stressful than being married.
*The average age of cohabiting couples is between 25 and 34
*Just over 50% of first cohabiting couples ever get married.
*If cohabitation is limited to a person's future spouse, there is no elevated risk of divorce.
*In the U.S., cohabiting couples taking premarital education courses or counseling are not at a higher risk for divorce.
* More than eight out of ten couples who live together will break up either before the wedding or afterwards in divorce.
*A Penn State study found that even a month’s cohabitation decreases the quality of the couple’s relationship.
* Children of cohabiting parents are three times as likely to be expelled from school or to get pregnant as teenagers than children from an intact home with married parents.
* Children of cohabiting parents are five times more apt to live in poverty, and 22 times more likely to incarcerated.
Stat research source:
What say you? Is SHACKING-UP worth the personal risk of low self-esteem in an uncommitted relationship, right back where you started or worse before you decided to SHACK-UP?
Back in the day, until I was old enough as a teenager to know its meaning, and even today SHACKING UP means the same that is used when two single people live together as married in a s*xual relationship as a couple, but are unmarried. Yeah, there are many so-called nice terms and phrases the secular world uses to make what they do sound ethical and morally right and acceptable, such as: in the world SHACKING UP is also known as common-law or cohabiting; having an affair outside of marriage, only means adultery; or making love, really means fornication (sex outside of marriage) or practicing s*xual immorality in biblical terms.
Of course, there are those who would care less about what God speaks, and some of us have all been there and done that BEFORE we came to our senses and were redeemed unto salvation as Christian believers. As Christians now, we know that God is the only one who made the union between two people who are to be in love and enjoy the pleasures and comfort of s*xual relations in marriage: It is a known that God commands that to be in a marriage it is between a male and female as a couple, and the two shall be joined together in marriage as one flesh.
God commands that to prevent s*xual immorality, adultery and strong s*xual passions that we're unable to control, the man should have his own wife, and the woman should have her own husband, the couple in a dating relationship should get married to prevent s*xual immorality which is sin. I Corinthians chapter 7.
Many couples young and older, with and without children are making the choice to live together which is SHACKING-UP. And this makes them SHACKERS Many women conclude to many false promises of marriage and myths, thinking its going to improve their relationship, but it really doesn't, it only hinders because SHACKING-UP in not a committed relationship and does more harm than good. Women more than men tend to suffer greatly when they lower themselves to live with a man without marriage, thinking she has got him and he's going to marry her down the road, only thing... down the road never comes nor does the SHACK-UP end in marriage. And there she's off again SHACKING UP WITH ANOTHER MAN who makes the same uncommitted false promise, and it become a pattern of insecure and a desperate habit to SHACK-UP with every man she meets, just to have a man in a relationship.
Here are some interesting stats on cohabitation "SHACKING-UP" gathered from the U.S. Census Bureau and the latest university studies:
*Living together is considered to be more stressful than being married.
*The average age of cohabiting couples is between 25 and 34
*Just over 50% of first cohabiting couples ever get married.
*If cohabitation is limited to a person's future spouse, there is no elevated risk of divorce.
*In the U.S., cohabiting couples taking premarital education courses or counseling are not at a higher risk for divorce.
* More than eight out of ten couples who live together will break up either before the wedding or afterwards in divorce.
*A Penn State study found that even a month’s cohabitation decreases the quality of the couple’s relationship.
* Children of cohabiting parents are three times as likely to be expelled from school or to get pregnant as teenagers than children from an intact home with married parents.
* Children of cohabiting parents are five times more apt to live in poverty, and 22 times more likely to incarcerated.
Stat research source:
What say you? Is SHACKING-UP worth the personal risk of low self-esteem in an uncommitted relationship, right back where you started or worse before you decided to SHACK-UP?
drugs and relationships
My friend has been dating this guy for 13yrs. In this years the guy has been in and out of rehabs. Every time he's he swears he will never use again. Things were well and they got engaged early last year but he never kept his promise once again. He is even worse than before. Please advice.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Happy, Happy Birthday to my friend Wallops! May you have many more and may God bless one of the nicest ladies on the blogs!!!!!!!!! 
Why oh why?
Why do men keep asking questions like these: am i single, do i have kids, what kind of relationship i'm seeking for, where do i come from etc. All the answers are in my profile ! They don't even care to read it before writing me a message or they write the same to every one? Very creative and serious i must say....
Oh and the best is that they get angry with me when i don't reply ...
Oh and the best is that they get angry with me when i don't reply ...
LIVE IT! DON'T RELIVE IT.
Those who say that its 'tough at the top' are those who never had to climb there. As it is the heart-breakers not the heart achers that will say "Oh just move on."
But those who are afraid of heights will never know life at the top & those who hold on to their pain will never know joy.
So my poor wounded friends out there take it from a survivor, a 'been there' brother. JUST TURN UP THE MUSIC & DANCE, DANCE, DANCE "ROCK ON & MAKE IT GROOVY BANANAS!"
But those who are afraid of heights will never know life at the top & those who hold on to their pain will never know joy.
So my poor wounded friends out there take it from a survivor, a 'been there' brother. JUST TURN UP THE MUSIC & DANCE, DANCE, DANCE "ROCK ON & MAKE IT GROOVY BANANAS!"
A Blog is a journal you may enter about your life, your thoughts, interesting experiences, or lessons you have learned. It's your own page on Connecting Singles that you can update on a regular basis, or just whenever you have something to say. You can write about an opinion, impart words of wisdom, or talk about something interesting in your day. Creating a blog is a good way to share something of yourself with Connecting Singles members. Reading blogs is a good way to learn more about members you have met here. Please be sure to read the blog rules before posting.
Would YOU like to post a blog on Connecting Singles? Have you written blogs that you'd like to share with other members? Posting your blogs shows your skill and creativity and helps members get to know you better. Your blog will appear on the Connecting Singles Blogs page and also in a link on your profile page. Click here to post a blog »