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Hi everybody...have you ever requested any interested member to have a webcam before adding him in messenger? I have and the results were: just a few of them and the rest not even an answer...

So what do you think? The rest wasn't real or.....???????




Do the guys spend more time in online dating websites than us ladies here??????

life is in session and here i am

caught with my stubby pencil

taking notes in some shorthand i think i'll remember
only to be left with gibberish upon review

behind the wheel scribblin notes on my hand
mind is racing
a list of chores and calls and contacts to make today

i know darn well i wont complete even 3 of em
its just that kind of day(mushy in my head)

im not quite apathetic but i am definitely tardy

not enough motivation to be delinquent even

life is in session and im in the special class
feels more like the burn ward
gaping searing peeling stinking wounds
and hushed voices and looks of pity

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Online dating isn’t bringing men and women together despite what many may think, quite the contrary, it’s tearing us apart.

This is the thought that came to my mind the other day as I strolled along the brightly lit pathways of a mall. You see, I wasn’t at the mall to shop, or to take a walk, or to even hook up with a lady, no, I was there because I had this craving to interact with other humans that I hadn’t done in a very, very long time, to actually be a part of something, to see, smell, and feel the vibrancy that comes from the hustle and bustle of life itself. And when that thought came to me, I rapidly realized that this is what is missing from online dating, and in our society as a whole. The cause of this degradation of human interaction is the over utilization of our current technology.

I say this because we are quick approaching the time when human interaction, as a whole, and as crazy as this may sound, won’t be necessary, or at least at a very minimal level. We are already at a point in human history, unlike any other time before, that we can get almost anything we need from home, and to do it, all you need is a computer, which means, as a society, we are becoming more anti-sociable everyday, which brings me to one of our greatest downfalls, online dating, the reason for this blog.

Online dating, as is being used now, is all about physical, anti-social behavior masked behind the pretense that people are meeting one another, which is not the case, at least it isn’t the case for the majority of us. We are not actually “meeting” each other at all at first, if ever, but are instead hiding behind our computer screens typing words that are always held in high suspicion of being a lie, which can’t be denied because that’s what online dating seems to be all about, just take a look at the average profile. Do you really think this person is twenty years old, has blond hair, and is fit, then think again? This person is more like fifty, has gray hair, and is forty pounds over weight, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing if you happened to be after those kinds of features, but not when the person who says they are that and more, are not. The reasons for these lies are varied, from security, to personal choice, but again, they are lies and helps to perpetuate the hiding and anti-social behavior that is swiftly becoming the standard of our day.

Am I saying then that online dating is worthless? No I’m not, not as long as it doesn’t replace the normal dating process, but instead supports it.

The truth is, as I see it, online dating can either be a great tool by which we can use to help unite us, or the great rift that will continue to add to the separatism and isolation that is gripping our lives today; it is all up to us; it has always been.

Who knows that the picture you show of yourself is you? Is it years ago? Nobody knows really! I dont put a picture on because I want people to know me, not just what I look like. Please tell me your thoughts

I'm a simple dame who just wishes to live a simple life with the man of my dreams.. I guess every girl wish for that too " being with the man of their dreams". But that didn't come way simple to me..

I had been in a state of a serious broken heart for over 8 mos now, and it's really a hard situation. Moving on by yourself wherein no one knows what you really feel inside. My friends knew or eveyone knew me as a strong and funny woman (whom I really am not until that "thing" happened). I'm going out with them without them knowing that my heart is bleeding like hell. I moved on my own way by controlling emotions and just cry when no one is seeing me, just "Alone". I did everything to moved on..like going out with friends and families,keeping myself busy, reading and watching inspiring movies and most of all I prayed hard to God to help me get over that feeling. Now I can totally say I moved on. I'm now a better person unlike before. I learned a lot in life and I must say.. I'm stronger now. I realized that losing someone you loved whom you thought "He's the ONE" is not the reason to totally lose hope in love. What I'm thinking right now is that I lost that person because there is someone better and waiting for me and the right time will just come. Im still young and every single moment is a new hope for love.

So anyone/everyone outhere who's losing their hope for love..Well you better not, every loss that you have,every break ups is just a way close to the track for the right person,the right love for you.. Have a nice day ya'll!!!

Only a life lived for others is worth living...

I got a phone call. A girl shouted at me: “Listen! I am younger than you, more beautiful than you, he will only choose me! He is mine!”

Then she hung up the phone. I wondered if I was in some dreams when sleeping. But later I found it quite funny when staring at the phone number. That younger girl---If she is really younger than me---must dial the wrong number. Oh no. She makes a mistake even when she is challenging her rival in love!

I decided to call back. “Hey younger girl, how old are you?”

“You dare call back? Listen old lady, every man likes young girl, so don’t expect he will choose you. You are even several months older than him!” the younger girl shouted.

“How old are you?” I asked again.

“18. See, envy?”

I laughed. When I was 18, what did I do? Shouldn’t a girl at 18 study at school, rather than striving for a man with an “old lady”?

I found it quite fun and decided to pretend as her rival in love. “Wow… When I met him at 15, where were you, young girl? When we studied in the same classroom together, where were you, young girl? When we encouraged each other after a terrible exam, where were you, young girl? When we went through some important moments in life, such as college entrance examination, such as looking for a job when graduating, where were you, young girl? Yes, I am several months older than him, but so what? We have gone through so much sweet and bitter together for such a long time, and where were you in those times, 18-year-old younger girl?”

And then, she hung up the phone suddenly.

Yes, being young is an important and invisible property. At a time when families are broken out because the husbands have some young mistresses or some young girls seduce the husbands, being young is really a double-edged sword.

But being young is not always unbeatable. Human’s heart is made of flesh and blood. It can feel, it can be touched, it can remember what has happened in the past---The later one can not always replace the former one in those past times.

I said a lot to that younger girl. I didn’t say them based on nothing. I said them based on my 18-year days. Though I do think girls at 18 should focus on study, I still feel that, at least, she will have no regret in the future.

But what did I do at 18? Yes, from the outside, people will think I should have no regret about my past: studied hard at 18, went to a good university, found a good job… That’s what a good girl should do. However, what about my love?

At 18, I always thought that I would still have plenty of time ahead to find my love back, so I abandoned my first love and devoted myself to study. Later, I went to university, for some reasons, I didn’t go to find it back, still thought that I would have plenty of time ahead which allowed me to find it back, find him back… until now, I suddenly realize, both of us have begun our own separate new life in different cities. Distance between cities is really not a problem, however, distance between hearts matters a lot.

My biggest mistake is that, I always thought that I still had plenty of time ahead to find something back… So I keep losing the chances… But the fact is, nobody can really go back. I have lost something before, and will lose it forever.

I sincerely believe that the indian summers are hotter than the "SUMMer OF 69".I also remember a book written by former australian cricket captain Bill lorry by the same name. Life is really difficult there days but there is life after death. Is "summer of 69" popular in the west, ?

I haven't been on sometimes, but hey I'm back! :)