BerrySmoothie: I'm talking about the bigger picture for him....his future.
I'm not his shrink, his father, a past friend. Who knows how many do gooders have taken the empathy root and had it kicked back. I do know he chose to show an ugly side towards people who didn't fancy him. That's what I posted to
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
almera03: I'm not his shrink, his father, a past friend. Who knows how many do gooders have taken the empathy root and had it kicked back. I do know he chose to show an ugly side towards people who didn't fancy him. That's what I posted to
Ok Al....stay in that groove then.
SCB....pick up that phone. Start helping yourself.
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
BerrySmoothie: I'm talking about the bigger picture for him....his future.
Berry, I also gave him very sound advice and never got a reply. This guy isn't stupid. He wants what he wants on his terms and the world just doesn't work that way. The response we see here is a lashing out. Most of us do that quietly. Some stay in the rut of self-pity and some make the hard decisions, suck it up and move forward. I don't think there's a whole lot more that can be said in response to this post, tbh.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Nidifugous: Berry, I also gave him very sound advice and never got a reply. This guy isn't stupid. He wants what he wants on his terms and the world just doesn't work that way. The response we see here is a lashing out. Most of us do that quietly. Some stay in the rut of self-pity and some make the hard decisions, suck it up and move forward. I don't think there's a whole lot more that can be said in response to this post, tbh.
Hi Nidi,
Yep....I agree....nothing more can be done in terms of his posting.
Was just trying to throw some sort of lifeline out to him.
Nidifugous: Berry, I also gave him very sound advice and never got a reply. This guy isn't stupid. He wants what he wants on his terms and the world just doesn't work that way. The response we see here is a lashing out. Most of us do that quietly. Some stay in the rut of self-pity and some make the hard decisions, suck it up and move forward. I don't think there's a whole lot more that can be said in response to this post, tbh.
Yup Nodi.
In every post of this guy I always saw he was blaming women or his circumstances - never himself. His attitude is his problem - and that is HIS problem until he changes something himself.
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