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May 19, 2018 4:04 AM CST Date site or social site
Do you think this site is more of a social site than a date or meet up site?
I think it’s become more a social platform than anything else and that’s good too but primarily are people drawn to here for the dating bit and the chance to meet that special someone?
Your thoughts?
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May 19, 2018 4:05 AM CST Date site or social site
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
For me forums for some to blow smoke up peoples arses for others dating.
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May 19, 2018 6:52 AM CST Date site or social site
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Maybe the name should be changed to "Disconnecting People" site.Or maybe even change it to "Let's just see how miserable we can make someone else's life totally miserable like our own".
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May 19, 2018 6:54 AM CST Date site or social site
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Best and easiest way to meet people is to go to a club/tavern/casino anything to do with entertainment it's natural it's comfortable online or anything to do with ads is all about blowing smoke up peoples arses.

I do believe those relying on technology need a wake up call because if your sincere in what you say you want in mail or have what your seeking on your profile all you have to do is get out in to the real world.. I joined sites for forums but have come to the conclusion that dating sites/ personal ads are best suited for those who blew smoke up peoples arses for far too long left their run too late.

I do understand those who had loving relationships/marriages only to lose their loved one's in death using dating sites/personal ads.

I took my advice ^^^^^^last night best decision I ever made I swear by the above ^^^^^^^
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May 19, 2018 8:02 AM CST Date site or social site
Bearwoman: Maybe the name should be changed to "Disconnecting People" site.Or maybe even change it to "Let's just see how miserable we can make someone else's life totally miserable like our own".
Bear, believe it or not, there is a dating site with the word, " Miserable " in it, laugh look it up, its funny. laugh
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May 19, 2018 9:22 AM CST Date site or social site
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
A place to moan around nobody important like a working men’s club.

You can intimidate someone into digging a ditch twice as fast but this approach doesn’t work well when it comes to passing exams or doing something creative and so there’s an official tendency to be more affable owing to the greater complexity of modern life.

But there’s a backlash online against the mainstream and it’s here you find the ditch digging, working men’s club vibe.
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May 19, 2018 9:35 AM CST Date site or social site
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
It's all about socialising, isn't it?!
Nothing wrong with the site being a social platform, this is how you get to date or just meet up...
If you want something more specific join a marriage site, the purpose is more than clear and everyone is with the same intentions...
As for the forums, with the time spent here we tend to develop a twisted sense of "self importance" and believe we are the centre of this site...
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May 19, 2018 10:47 AM CST Date site or social site
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
ZaiJian1: Do you think this site is more of a social site than a date or meet up site?
I think it’s become more a social platform than anything else and that’s good too but primarily are people drawn to here for the dating bit and the chance to meet that special someone?
Your thoughts?
I believe it is a fun site. It has many areas for one to linger. Forums, Blogs, Poetry etc...when in actuality there are many profiles that never enter the fun parts. Some are actually looking and hoping. Some are here to hood winkle and looking for victims and some are not even sure why they are here. Some are here for email buddies. I have met a few from here as friends. Friends I made while either in the forums or poets corner. The one thing I have learned tho is a profile is not something to go by uh oh we can see our self as we wish to be not as we are. Words are easy to come by and that is why I myself prefer actions. Actually getting to know someone. Oh and by the way that isn't working either. It seems I am destined to stay single giggle There have been groups thru out the years Australia Ireland who have had meet ups and looked like a lot of fun. In the states we are so widely spread apart a meet up such as that don't seem doable blues
My two cents worth wave
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May 19, 2018 12:25 PM CST Date site or social site
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,761 Posts
Op I haven’t been on that long to determined nothing, but I’m enjoying the forums right now
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May 21, 2018 2:43 PM CST Date site or social site
SlainteMhaithx
SlainteMhaithxSlainteMhaithxLimerick, Ireland5 Threads 941 Posts
Social site for me.
Its not a bad datig site if you have the patience and time to sift through all the scammers or time wasters or creeps.

But socially..its nice to have a laugh with some...learn from others and avoid a few
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May 21, 2018 3:22 PM CST Date site or social site
R_U_the_1_4_me
R_U_the_1_4_meR_U_the_1_4_meBuffalo, New York USA181 Posts
On here the don't put you in jail, like Facebook jail!
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May 27, 2018 3:38 AM CST Date site or social site
Linaray
LinarayLinarayTaverney, Ile-de-France France10 Threads 1 Polls 104 Posts
For me, this site is a place of never to meet. There are many scammers and less serious human beings. For me, this site is more of a social site than a meetup site. The forum is why I'm still here, I have learned a lot reading different opinions and from reading people's profiles. It helps you to recognise that some people don't even read your profile before contacting you and this site has thought me how to identify a scammer, sick people and how to recognize a completely low lifer when I ignore some contacts. It's not a bad place to be once in a month, at least you can laugh.
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May 27, 2018 3:58 AM CST Date site or social site
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
ZaiJian1: Do you think this site is more of a social site than a date or meet up site?
I think it’s become more a social platform than anything else and that’s good too but primarily are people drawn to here for the dating bit and the chance to meet that special someone?
Your thoughts?
There are a few people married who met here , from the forums I suspect there would be a lot less than from just daters . We don't hear about the non forum / blogs relationships so its hard to tell .
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May 27, 2018 3:59 AM CST Date site or social site
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
It's a chook raffle
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May 27, 2018 4:01 AM CST Date site or social site
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
epirb: There are a few people married who met here , from the forums I suspect there would be a lot less than from just daters . We don't hear about the non forum / blogs relationships so its hard to tell .
I remember Nessa7 and Vulpine...hope they are still happy together...
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May 27, 2018 4:19 AM CST Date site or social site
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
pKrema: I remember Nessa7 and Vulpine...hope they are still happy together...
Nessa came back once to say hello , things were good for her . We had two off the Aussie/NZ forums marry , see them from time to time on Face-b , wish they should come back on once or twice to give us all hope grin
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May 27, 2018 4:34 AM CST Date site or social site
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
epirb: Nessa came back once to say hello , things were good for her . We had two off the Aussie/NZ forums marry , see them from time to time on Face-b , wish they should come back on once or twice to give us all hope
They will be terrified to see what's going on on here me thinks... laugh
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May 27, 2018 4:40 AM CST Date site or social site
ZaiJian1: Do you think this site is more of a social site than a date or meet up site?
I think it’s become more a social platform than anything else and that’s good too but primarily are people drawn to here for the dating bit and the chance to meet that special someone?
Your thoughts?
cs is multi purpose site , along with dating it gives us so many other features which other sites don't , Very good site wine
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