Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone? ( Archived) (42)

Oct 4, 2019 11:09 AM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Sethan: Make your relationship intentions clear and if they aren't met, move on. The friendzone guys are the ones that stick around, long after they were rejected, hoping she changes her mind, if he becomes her doormat/spare shoulder to cry on. Women smell desperation from a mile away.
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Oct 4, 2019 11:11 AM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
An 8 ball of coke is usually the quickest way out of the friend zone conversing
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Oct 4, 2019 12:13 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
Oh the friend zone, that's not good laugh
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Oct 4, 2019 12:15 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
I tend to get friend zoned a lot laugh
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Oct 4, 2019 1:34 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
have some self respect and quit staying in one sided relationships period.....the friend zone tho sounds more like a place where you reside expecting to get what you want so in effect you have zoned yourself because nobody is forcing you to stay there....its a selfish place where you blame the so called friend for not giving you what you think you deserve which is more than friendship.....wave
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Oct 4, 2019 2:22 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
M4_Mischief: have some self respect and quit staying in one sided relationships period.....the friend zone tho sounds more like a place where you reside expecting to get what you want so in effect you have zoned yourself because nobody is forcing you to stay there....its a selfish place where you blame the so called friend for not giving you what you think you deserve which is more than friendship.....
I get what you are saying, M4_Mishief. This relationship didn’t start out onesided. Haven’t dated seriously in a while before it. .That’s why all my questions here. wave
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Oct 4, 2019 4:28 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Bogart_1960: just leave the "zone." There is no "friendzone".

you get what you want, and give what you want. end of crap.
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Oct 4, 2019 4:30 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
galrads: I get what you are saying, M4_Mishief. This relationship didn’t start out onesided. Haven’t dated seriously in a while before it. .That’s why all my questions here.
it doesn't matter how it started out...what matters is whats happening now....wave
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Oct 4, 2019 4:44 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
galrads: I get what you are saying, M4_Mishief. This relationship didn’t start out onesided. Haven’t dated seriously in a while before it. .That’s why all my questions here.
Going by what you have written in this thread and other threads about her I suggest you read these 9 signs that will tell you,,,,,"She's Just Not That Into You".

It's a short read. When you read it you'll no doubt see how the signs fit your situation. wave


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Oct 4, 2019 4:54 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
I only put male friends in the friend zone
when I had no interest in them in the first
place but they were still trying to talk to me
to try to Change my mind, oh and nothing
change, I told them from the beginning and
we’re still just friends til this daylaugh it
will stay that way
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Oct 4, 2019 5:23 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
secretagent09: Going by what you have written in this thread and other threads about her I suggest you read these 9 signs that will tell you,,,,,"She's Just Not That Into You".

It's a short read. When you read it you'll no doubt see how the signs fit your situation.


Good read secretagent. Thank you! Six out of the nine fit my last relationship, wave
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Oct 4, 2019 5:24 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Track16: An 8 ball of coke is usually the quickest way out of the friend zone
laugh haven’t heard that expression in a while.
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Oct 4, 2019 5:27 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
galrads: Good read secretagent. Thank you! Six out of the nine fit my last relationship,
I thought they would. Are you ready to "let go" and move on? super
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Oct 4, 2019 5:37 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Well in her last message she said something like.... focus now on what we can become

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Oct 4, 2019 5:40 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
galrads: Well in her last message she said something like.... focus now on what we can become
Good luck with that help help

Sounds like a "friendship zone" laugh doh
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Oct 4, 2019 5:42 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
When the friend becomes a one way street for themselves then I say sayonara.
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Oct 4, 2019 5:52 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Mercedes_00: When the friend becomes a one way street for themselves then I say sayonara.
I was going to respond with a Japanese word until i read its definition in the urban dictionary.
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Oct 4, 2019 5:58 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
galrads: I was going to respond with a Japanese word until i read its definition in the urban dictionary.
Fair enough
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Oct 4, 2019 8:01 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
I don't know about getting out of the friend zone. Nobody has worse luck with women then I do. For a while, I actually thought getting friend zoned was an improvement. dunno
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Oct 4, 2019 8:40 PM CST Dating Subject 3: How do you get out of the friend zone?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,371 Posts
Pretty simple.

You talk, spend time, you state intentions.

If it's not going to happen, don't stick around. There are plenty of activity partners with out the need or want of deeper ties.

I don't even keep contact with or the phone numbers of interests past. It's nothing but trouble should you happen to meet some one as serious as you on the same or similar level.
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