MEN...what makes you uncomfortable..... ( Archived) (42)

Aug 29, 2020 4:46 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,314 Posts
Taction: Messaging me would make me uncomfortable.
Chatting, chit-chat, does not come natural to me.
Not that I can't but would run out of steam quickly.
Small talk is a killer, communicating is a killer.
While there is beauty in the shapes, smells, sounds and colours of words and languages I often wish we would stick to grunting.
I don't like small talk either, as well as a lengthy account of a family history in the second letter.

The best things is when two strangers suddenly find something meaningful to talk about. What a click! :)
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Aug 29, 2020 4:58 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
A hairy knicker line, untrimmed tuftsconversing
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Aug 29, 2020 5:26 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
all women ask for is my emailadress, which they don't get. Stupid scammers.
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Aug 29, 2020 6:21 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
Tulefell: I don't like small talk either, as well as a lengthy account of a family history in the second letter.

The best things is when two strangers suddenly find something meaningful to talk about. What a click! :)
I agree with you thumbs up

Who wants to know their family history when you're just getting to know each other?
That's usually for when/if you get involved with the person.

Now..something meaningful is what interests me thumbs up
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Aug 29, 2020 6:23 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
tomcatty: A hairy knicker line, untrimmed tufts
But you don't know that when you first write?
Or, do you ask them?uh oh
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Aug 29, 2020 7:38 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
AI_1984: You could try wearing boxer shorts, Herbie?
At least they give you room to breath - not like the masks.
You didn't reply to this?
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Aug 29, 2020 6:30 PM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984: .....when women are messaging you?

(Another idea from Selenite)


Do you reply to all your messages?
I don’t “ message” but what I gather from people who do is that many people are, or are becoming cynical. Women will say, “ I don’t know if I can trust men. Most are looking for a nurse with a purse”. Likewise, men will say, “I can’t trust women. They’re looking for a schmuck with a buck”....this is what the world has done to people...wrecked our confidences in one another.
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Aug 29, 2020 9:55 PM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
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Aug 29, 2020 10:43 PM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
SexyGeek
SexyGeekSexyGeekLas Vegas, Nevada USA9 Posts
mikey4691: Women are always asking for dic pics..
Those are gay men pretending to be women.
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Aug 29, 2020 10:45 PM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
SexyGeek
SexyGeekSexyGeekLas Vegas, Nevada USA9 Posts
I'm very uncomfortable when someone wants to talk or text on the phone or use instant messaging right away. That's a good way to get bombarded with spam.
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Aug 30, 2020 6:48 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
I can't stand duckface pics and generic negativity towards men...on the written profile...profiles with very little info and no body picswow

This is not really my dating profile...have other profiles on other sites...but have not really bothered looking seriously for a long time
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Aug 30, 2020 6:54 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
rohaan: And yet so many people do ask..even if you make it clear you want to wait on that—I belong to an actual dating site, and in my “profile” I am very clear about not wanting to post a picture on the site. The request is done courteously and clearly. Yet I am continually asked to do so by people who answer. Do people just not read?
There are many selective readers.grin
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Aug 30, 2020 6:59 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
LeeCharming: I can't stand duckface pics and generic negativity towards men...on the written profile...profiles with very little info and no body pics

This is not really my dating profile...have other profiles on other sites...but have not really bothered looking seriously for a long time
You can't stand negativity towards men yet you write thread after thread of negativity towards women.

doh
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Aug 30, 2020 10:55 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
RobertMJ575: A NAKED WOMAN WITH VERY POOR PERSONAL HYGIENE
We're talking about online messaging here.

And...do you need to shout?
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Aug 30, 2020 12:20 PM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
Standing on my. Head.........trying to have a weegrin
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Sep 1, 2020 12:30 PM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
MEN... HOW DOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL WHEN A WOMAN TELLS YOU BY EMAIL THAT SHE'S LOST ANY CONNECTION WITH YOU ...in other words, she's getting bored and feels disconnected.

If she's telling you nicely and politely and wishing you good luck..

HOW DO YOU FEEL?
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Sep 4, 2020 8:04 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
MustangWriter
MustangWriterMustangWriterBoerne, Texas USA242 Threads 3 Polls 1,762 Posts
Nothing makes me uncomfortable... it's just the internet.
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Sep 4, 2020 8:07 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
GeneralBeacon
GeneralBeaconGeneralBeaconNew York, USA2,381 Posts
You men from Holland are sure a strange breed. dunno
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Sep 4, 2020 8:08 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
MustangWriter: Nothing makes me uncomfortable... it's just the internet.
I agree but..
Some people can get really snotty if they're being rejected...even on the internet.uh oh
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Sep 4, 2020 10:40 AM CST MEN...what makes you uncomfortable.....
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
@ PK...
This blog is about messaging people on the internet.grin
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