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Oct 29, 2008 11:03 PM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
You know that girl I was talking about that I wanted to ask to go on a date? Well, she already has a boyfriendblues sigh I found out when I asked her if she wanted to go to the Masquerade Ball with me. She said her boyfriend would be jealous if she went. I felt ashamed that I asked her and after that we didn't talk because it was just awkward. I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now. sigh

I am hoping that maybe there will be some interesting girl at the Ball. I try to have hope. Maybe I'm just trying too hard. There's just a part of me that doesn't want to give up.wink
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Oct 29, 2008 11:04 PM CST so..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Sorry it didn't work out.

I hope you will go to the ball. You may have a great time!!
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Oct 29, 2008 11:05 PM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
mbcasey: Sorry it didn't work out.

I hope you will go to the ball. You may have a great time!!


Thanks! I'll try not to let this get me down.
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Oct 29, 2008 11:11 PM CST so..
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 Posts
RadioheadFan123:
I am hoping that maybe there will be some interesting girl at the Ball. I try to have hope. Maybe I'm just trying too hard. There's just a part of me that doesn't want to give up.


I know what your going through...It happens to me sometimes(happening right now mumbling )...
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Oct 29, 2008 11:11 PM CST so..
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
Aww i'm sorry ............but don't feel ashamed.......you took a risk......that's what life is about ........you take risks, sometimes they work out sometimes they don't

in the meantime, go to the Ball, party it up and who knows maybe under one of those masks will be a Cinderella..........if not maybe you will just have a great time with some cool people and chalk it up to one of life's lessons and be ready for next time!


hug best of luck hun!
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Oct 29, 2008 11:12 PM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
lucky200761: I know what your going through...It happens to me sometimes(happening right now )...


Good to know someone else knows how I feel. Thanks!handshake
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Oct 29, 2008 11:13 PM CST so..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
lucky200761: I know what your going through...It happens to me sometimes(happening right now )...


hang in there Lucky...it will happen for a good looking guy like you....handshake
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Oct 29, 2008 11:13 PM CST so..
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
RadioheadFan123: You know that girl I was talking about that I wanted to ask to go on a date? Well, she already has a boyfriend I found out when I asked her if she wanted to go to the Masquerade Ball with me. She said her boyfriend would be jealous if she went. I felt ashamed that I asked her and after that we didn't talk because it was just awkward. I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now.

I am hoping that maybe there will be some interesting girl at the Ball. I try to have hope. Maybe I'm just trying too hard. There's just a part of me that doesn't want to give up.



You saw a woman you liked, you asked her for a date.

Men have been doing that since we stopped bashing them on the head and dragging them off to caves.

Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
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Oct 29, 2008 11:13 PM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
StarliteFantazy: Aww i'm sorry ............but don't feel ashamed.......you took a risk......that's what life is about ........you take risks, sometimes they work out sometimes they don't

in the meantime, go to the Ball, party it up and who knows maybe under one of those masks will be a Cinderella..........if not maybe you will just have a great time with some cool people and chalk it up to one of life's lessons and be ready for next time! best of luck hun!


Or a Juliet to my Romeo. laugh
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Oct 29, 2008 11:14 PM CST so..
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
Yes, you should go to the ball. Going stag can be fun, you know. You can dance with whoever you like without being restricted to one partner. So go on, get your costume ready and enjoy!
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Oct 30, 2008 3:59 AM CST so..
MikeC
MikeCMikeCFountain Valley, California USA4 Threads 24 Posts
If it makes you feel better I got rejected today
Lol
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Oct 30, 2008 10:04 AM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
MikeC: If it makes you feel better I got rejected today
Lol


Yeah it does. lol laugh
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Oct 30, 2008 10:06 AM CST so..
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
Definitely still go to the Ball. Maybe you'll find a young lady in your shoes there. hug
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Oct 30, 2008 10:16 AM CST so..
southerngurl08
southerngurl08southerngurl08little rock, Arkansas USA2 Threads 9 Posts
Yep it is bad that she didn't tell you about her b/f sooner but at least you do know where you stand and that gives you the opportunity to move on to bigger better things.....cheering
Go to the ball, have a great time and don't dwell on this.....scold
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Oct 30, 2008 10:20 AM CST so..
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
RadioheadFan123: You know that girl I was talking about that I wanted to ask to go on a date? Well, she already has a boyfriend I found out when I asked her if she wanted to go to the Masquerade Ball with me. She said her boyfriend would be jealous if she went. I felt ashamed that I asked her and after that we didn't talk because it was just awkward. I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now.

I am hoping that maybe there will be some interesting girl at the Ball. I try to have hope. Maybe I'm just trying too hard. There's just a part of me that doesn't want to give up.



Go to the ball.... with no worries......just enjoy it..you never know

what could happen.....Good luck

thumbs up dancing dancing beer handshake
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Oct 30, 2008 10:21 AM CST so..
PietroPaoloV
PietroPaoloVPietroPaoloVGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden57 Threads 3 Polls 722 Posts
RadioheadFan123: You know that girl I was talking about that I wanted to ask to go on a date? Well, she already has a boyfriend I found out when I asked her if she wanted to go to the Masquerade Ball with me. She said her boyfriend would be jealous if she went. I felt ashamed that I asked her and after that we didn't talk because it was just awkward. I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now.

I am hoping that maybe there will be some interesting girl at the Ball. I try to have hope. Maybe I'm just trying too hard. There's just a part of me that doesn't want to give up.


I have to say, one bit here just brought a big smile to my face.
This one….

"I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now"

Oh, the days of when things were not allowed to be very complicated. If one doesn’t fancy your tickles, you search for a new, immediately.

That could be a line in a song, right there.

“She doesn’t love me anymore, and now I don’t know who to love instead”
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Oct 30, 2008 1:10 PM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
PietroPaoloV: I have to say, one bit here just brought a big smile to my face.
This one….

"I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now"

Oh, the days of when things were not allowed to be very complicated. If one doesn’t fancy your tickles, you search for a new, immediately.

That could be a line in a song, right there.

“She doesn’t love me anymore, and now I don’t know who to love instead”


That actually sounds like a great line. You should be a lyricist. laugh

Thanks. cheers
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Oct 30, 2008 1:14 PM CST so..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
I feel better now. thumbs up Hopefully there's some beautiful woman that is single there. I'm sure there will be.

The thing is I just get so nervous being around people especially women. When I think about it there's no rational reason to be afraid of them except getting rejected or scoffed at.
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Oct 30, 2008 1:19 PM CST so..
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
"I was interested in her and now I don't know what girl I am interested in now"

You don't always have to be interested in a particular girl. I know it's hard at your age...but, when you stop looking so hard is usually when someone comes along. So, go to the ball, enjoy yourself, concentrate on enjoying your life and getting your band started...and stop worrying about getting a girlfriend. The amazing thing that will happen is that you will enjoy yourself and life more...and the right gal might just come along when and where you least expect it.

Relax. Live. Learn to love yourself and your life.



hug
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Oct 30, 2008 1:20 PM CST so..
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
RadioheadFan123: I feel better now. Hopefully there's some beautiful woman that is single there. I'm sure there will be.

The thing is I just get so nervous being around people especially women. When I think about it there's no rational reason to be afraid of them except getting rejected or scoffed at.


That, dear young man, is just part of life. It happens, you get over it, and you move on.hug
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