honestfred: sorry to up set your sisterhood enjoy your wine barbi doll
please could you clickm on the post of the person you are talking so it is included in your response, because we don't know who the hell you are talking to half the time
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
Hey fred, get yerself down to Adam & Eve's sauna in Eccles, just down the road from you. Your sure to get fixed up there, but be careful, some of those 'women ' aren't what they appear to be. But on the plus side, they probably wont mind if you talk a load of crap.
jampet: a hard man is good to find!! maybe we 'over 40's' just have taste, so you would be 'hard pressed' to please any of us
We're just not willing to settle that's it plain and simple.
When you get to 40 or over and maybe have been single for a while, experience and having the confidence to be independent means we don't have to take the first offer that comes along.
Hard to please? No, it's about knowing what we want or need in order to have a successful relationship. If that means we deny ourselves opportunities then so be it. Better to be alone than waste time when you're over 40 on empty relationships.
Jan1305: We're just not willing to settle that's it plain and simple.
When you get to 40 or over and maybe have been single for a while, experience and having the confidence to be independent means we don't have to take the first offer that comes along.
Hard to please? No, it's about knowing what we want or need in order to have a successful relationship. If that means we deny ourselves opportunities then so be it. Better to be alone than waste time when you're over 40 on empty relationships.
That applies to men too BTW.
Jan
I totally agree with your post.
Yeah cause we become more sensible and i must admit i am a bit choosy. Not that i seek perfection as definitly i am not.
Jan1305: We're just not willing to settle that's it plain and simple.
When you get to 40 or over and maybe have been single for a while, experience and having the confidence to be independent means we don't have to take the first offer that comes along.
Hard to please? No, it's about knowing what we want or need in order to have a successful relationship. If that means we deny ourselves opportunities then so be it. Better to be alone than waste time when you're over 40 on empty relationships.
That applies to men too BTW.
I'm picky and if I chose a guy, it's because he's right for me. I don't need a man. I'm not afraid to be alone and could care less if I date. Any man who thinks women over 40 are needy, is an idiot!
I'd rather pay extra on a trip to be left alone, so I can have a good time.
The older I get and spend more time alone, the less I care about men.
I'm intelligent, experienced, could care less about money, status or prestige. I just want to enjoy the sun, read a book, ride my bike, jump dunes...wait, my life is simple and I don't need a man at all.
muppetkiller: I'm picky and if I chose a guy, it's because he's right for me. I don't need a man. I'm not afraid to be alone and could care less if I date. Any man who thinks women over 40 are needy, is an idiot!
I'd rather pay extra on a trip to be left alone, so I can have a good time.
The older I get and spend more time alone, the less I care about men.
I'm intelligent, experienced, could care less about money, status or prestige. I just want to enjoy the sun, read a book, ride my bike, jump dunes...wait, my life is simple and I don't need a man at all.
Woman over 40...one nice thing is that there is, in general, much less drama. By now a woman knows that men fart in bed and they don't die of a heart attack and in most cases give him one right back :-) There are to many things in life that don't get done for one reason or another by the time we hit 40 and the time to waste messing around with iffy guys (or women) just gets very short. Picky yes, hard to get, I seriously doubt. When the right guy comes along a 40+ woman will move so fast a cheeta will say "What the HELL was THAT??!! For you guys that can't seem to find the right lady, look at yourself before you think to lay blame for your failures in other places. She simply might not have been right for you and you should know enough about yourself to know that.
Woadan: Woman over 40...one nice thing is that there is, in general, much less drama. By now a woman knows that men fart in bed and they don't die of a heart attack and in most cases give him one right back :-) There are to many things in life that don't get done for one reason or another by the time we hit 40 and the time to waste messing around with iffy guys (or women) just gets very short. Picky yes, hard to get, I seriously doubt. When the right guy comes along a 40+ woman will move so fast a cheeta will say "What the HELL was THAT??!! For you guys that can't seem to find the right lady, look at yourself before you think to lay blame for your failures in other places. She simply might not have been right for you and you should know enough about yourself to know that.
The truth is, most women have been used up, they have been hurt, and are to afraid to let someone else in for frar that it will happen again, but what they don't understand is the same thing happens to us men..
Woadan: Woman over 40...one nice thing is that there is, in general, much less drama. By now a woman knows that men fart in bed and they don't die of a heart attack and in most cases give him one right back :-) There are to many things in life that don't get done for one reason or another by the time we hit 40 and the time to waste messing around with iffy guys (or women) just gets very short. Picky yes, hard to get, I seriously doubt. When the right guy comes along a 40+ woman will move so fast a cheeta will say "What the HELL was THAT??!! For you guys that can't seem to find the right lady, look at yourself before you think to lay blame for your failures in other places. She simply might not have been right for you and you should know enough about yourself to know that.
it seems women over forty are quite cool,and can teach us men a thing or to,so guys with better wise up and listen to them more,come on all you ladies over forty and tease us men we love a tease
honestfred: it seems women over forty are quite cool,and can teach us men a thing or to,so guys with better wise up and listen to them more,come on all you ladies over forty and tease us men we love a tease
Jeses Fred did you have a personality transplant over night ?
honestfred: it seems women over forty are quite cool,and can teach us men a thing or to,so guys with better wise up and listen to them more,come on all you ladies over forty and tease us men we love a tease
honestfred: it seems women over forty are quite cool,and can teach us men a thing or to,so guys with better wise up and listen to them more,come on all you ladies over forty and tease us men we love a tease
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