danieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK1,364 posts
Leo_7: I cought my neibours wife with different man.She was embarassed and asked me not to tell about it anyone ,specially her husband.In return she offered me a deal.What should i do?
Ok ,actually i know what to do very well.Just wanna know what others would do in this situation.Btw,she is not bad looking.
comments please.
just walk away carriers of bad news are never welcome or liked
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Leo_7: if u r asking,if she is dependant on her husband ,dont know much about it but she got a job so at least not financally.
Well, we should be able to depend upon our families, each member making their contribution, whatever that contribution is.
Does that mean one member of the family, or some members lose status, or identity? What is it that loses them their status, or identity? How much money they earn? Gender? What?
I just find it interesting that you referred to this woman as your neighbour's wife, rather than your neighbour and wondered how that sort of attitude might impact upon someone's behaviour.
The worst scenario for you Leo is.. To tell her hubby,that it was you,asking her, for favors.Then her hubby,coming around asking you,to stop harassing his wife.-
Leo_7: I cought my neibours wife with different man.She was embarassed and asked me not to tell about it anyone ,specially her husband.In return she offered me a deal.What should i do?
Ok ,actually i know what to do very well.Just wanna know what others would do in this situation.Btw,she is not bad looking.
comments please.
So I am really curious as to how you caught her, were you taking pictures, using binoculars, peeping in her window, in the bedroom watching,
It would depend on my relationship with the husband. Is he a friend or simply a neighbour? If the latter, I'd step right out of it. It's always the bearer of the bad news that gets the brunt of it.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Leo_7: I cought my neibours wife with different man.She was embarassed and asked me not to tell about it anyone ,specially her husband.In return she offered me a deal.What should i do?
Ok ,actually i know what to do very well.Just wanna know what others would do in this situation.Btw,she is not bad looking.
comments please.
in reverse situation, I only shut my mouth when I found my senior at work or certain male acquintances having forbidden love with the other women... None of my business...
I don't like playing with fire myself... When some married guys tried to break my wall, I just keep my distance...
It is really scary to have husband or wife that cheated. It hurts in my case even though it is not your fault but the distance cause the relationship broken. I learned and dont want to go throgh the same thing anymore. Im more careful now
KsarahCape Town, Western Cape South Africa90 posts
lovingheart2: It is really scary to have husband or wife that cheated. It hurts in my case even though it is not your fault but the distance cause the relationship broken. I learned and dont want to go throgh the same thing anymore. Im more careful now
sorry to hear that, you were a great success story on cs
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
lovingheart2: It is really scary to have husband or wife that cheated. It hurts in my case even though it is not your fault but the distance cause the relationship broken. I learned and dont want to go throgh the same thing anymore. Im more careful now
jac379: Well, we should be able to depend upon our families, each member making their contribution, whatever that contribution is.
Does that mean one member of the family, or some members lose status, or identity? What is it that loses them their status, or identity? How much money they earn? Gender? What?
I just find it interesting that you referred to this woman as your neighbour's wife, rather than your neighbour and wondered how that sort of attitude might impact upon someone's behaviour.
He did this because English is not his first language, it is very very common for second language users to use English this way, it shows that he was referring to the female neighbour and not the male, by stating "Neighbours wife" He has clearly defined the subject within the sentence.
rizlared: He did this because English is not his first language, it is very very common for second language users to use English this way, it shows that he was referring to the female neighbour and not the male, by stating "Neighbours wife" He has clearly defined the subject within the sentence.
burrenboyoclare on the doolin road, Clare Ireland118 Posts
burrenboyoclare on the doolin road, Clare Ireland118 posts
epirb: you must lead a sheltered life pal .
Sheltered enough Wyatt enough to know that young man (the OP) has a vivid imagination and what he posted here is all in his imagination or the product of too much American TV
@ Leo. What would you hope would happen if you were in the shoes of that man and your wife was making a deal with some "Neighbor"? Like it or not to some point you are involved. Even if you say nothing one might wonder if you will actually end up in his shoes one day, and what twist that story might take. Something to think about.
don't accept a deal and tell her husband, as she commited this mistake many times, if you tell her husband it mean you help her , her husband disvorce her and release her to go with as many men as she want , it is her real wish.
jac379: Well, we should be able to depend upon our families, each member making their contribution, whatever that contribution is.
Does that mean one member of the family, or some members lose status, or identity? What is it that loses them their status, or identity? How much money they earn? Gender? What?
I just find it interesting that you referred to this woman as your neighbour's wife, rather than your neighbour and wondered how that sort of attitude might impact upon someone's behaviour.
cos of my limited English it was easy to put the words in the sentences like that to express myself.Please,dont expect perfect English from everyone who posts in the forums.
RomancingSting: So I am really curious as to how you caught her, were you taking pictures, using binoculars, peeping in her window, in the bedroom watching,
rizlared: He did this because English is not his first language, it is very very common for second language users to use English this way, it shows that he was referring to the female neighbour and not the male, by stating "Neighbours wife" He has clearly defined the subject within the sentence.
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rebel and dedovic ye're too funny!
I think maybe don't accept the deal and say nothing.
Be like Manuel in Fawlty Towers "I know noooooothing about the horse (other man)!"