FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION (90)
Have just tried Peaches method of walking through the garden barefoot.....apart from it being slightly chilly the grass was sobbing wet...now I have muddy feet.....anyone want a Lick....
What....???? No one cares to lick my feet......
full package.
Body shape first; teeth important - none rotten or missing 
, and that their smile reaches their eyes, and also that they have kind eyes.
, and that their smile reaches their eyes, and also that they have kind eyes.here is my smile ,for those who voted for smile
I get a first impression, then if no pleasant vibes, then no. At this point looks or anything else doesn't matter. It is just the feeling.
The Eyes have it....
I can't pick one or two, because a great smile doesn't compensate for bad hygiene, for example. Same with the rest of the items on the list.
The first thing everybody sees about another person is their figure, face and clothing. So if that's not somehow appealing, nothing follows.
The first thing everybody sees about another person is their figure, face and clothing. So if that's not somehow appealing, nothing follows.
face beauty
RainComeShine: I always look at a man's hands and think 'could I let those hands touch me'.
Bizarre?
Bizarre?
Things like lack of grooming would turn me off anyone.
Other than that, I usually have it that someone catches my eye after talking to him. Just good looks (well I'm not blind) isn't enough if he has nothing to say for himself.
Most guys fitting the "good look" category for me usually get me running into the other direction after talking to them.
face beauty.....
Had a man smile at me today in a store so I would go with smile.
RainComeShine: I always look at a man's hands and think 'could I let those hands touch me'.
Bizarre?
Bizarre?
Eyes, feet, body shape, teeth, ears, skin condition, hair, smell, elbows then hands are starters when someone catches my eyes....
I have never been a visual person. Women have always asked me out. I never even asked my wife to marry me. It just happened and lasted 17 years. A person is not going to look the same after time. I look for friends to hang out with. If something clicks I'll see where it goes. I look for a woman that I would still enjoy being with 30 years from now.
I did a survey once on whether the eyes were the windows to the soul, (just showing people the eyes of notoriously good and bad people), and no one picked the good guys. Eyes can be deceiving! Body shape changes too with illness etc. You like someone for their hair, or long legs, or smile, and one day they get chemo, or an amputation, or all their teeth out. What do you do then? Is the relationship over?
Does culture here mean how a person behaves, manners etc, or does it mean race? I see 2% voted culture. I'd love to see them explain how they interpreted that on here.
For me what attracts is not any of the choices, but I'd assess someone after a long talk and seeing how they treat people.....
Does culture here mean how a person behaves, manners etc, or does it mean race? I see 2% voted culture. I'd love to see them explain how they interpreted that on here.
For me what attracts is not any of the choices, but I'd assess someone after a long talk and seeing how they treat people.....
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KNenagh: Things like lack of grooming would turn me off anyone.
Other than that, I usually have it that someone catches my eye after talking to him. Just good looks (well I'm not blind) isn't enough if he has nothing to say for himself.
Most guys fitting the "good look" category for me usually get me running into the other direction after talking to them.
Other than that, I usually have it that someone catches my eye after talking to him. Just good looks (well I'm not blind) isn't enough if he has nothing to say for himself.
Most guys fitting the "good look" category for me usually get me running into the other direction after talking to them.
I agree with what you said. Inner character overrides looks when you get to see what kind of a person they are. Negative people put me off and I'll bolt
National Geographic magazine
Leo_7: here is my smile ,for those who voted for smile
Awwww Leo very nice but it needs a little work 
RainComeShine: Awwww Leo very nice but it needs a little work
What work?
Leo_7: What work?
Better. TommyG2524: I have never been a visual person. Women have always asked me out. I never even asked my wife to marry me. It just happened and lasted 17 years. A person is not going to look the same after time. I look for friends to hang out with. If something clicks I'll see where it goes. I look for a woman that I would still enjoy being with 30 years from now.
Ha ha, I think that's a USA thing. My late mum lived there for some years and told me that folk just ask out right if they fancy someone.
No opportunity missed. I passed a nice man whilst leaving a pub beside a spectacular weir yesterday. He had a camera in his hand and our smiles met. OMG if only I'd been arriving and not leaving.
GingerBe: I did a survey once on whether the eyes were the windows to the soul, (just showing people the eyes of notoriously good and bad people), and no one picked the good guys. Eyes can be deceiving! Body shape changes too with illness etc. You like someone for their hair, or long legs, or smile, and one day they get chemo, or an amputation, or all their teeth out. What do you do then? Is the relationship over?
Does culture here mean how a person behaves, manners etc, or does it mean race? I see 2% voted culture. I'd love to see them explain how they interpreted that on here.
For me what attracts is not any of the choices, but I'd assess someone after a long talk and seeing how they treat people.....
Does culture here mean how a person behaves, manners etc, or does it mean race? I see 2% voted culture. I'd love to see them explain how they interpreted that on here.
For me what attracts is not any of the choices, but I'd assess someone after a long talk and seeing how they treat people.....
Of course, you are correct.
But this thread specified Visual Attraction, which is why we answered the visual rather than personality.
KNenagh: Things like lack of grooming would turn me off anyone.
Other than that, I usually have it that someone catches my eye after talking to him. Just good looks (well I'm not blind) isn't enough if he has nothing to say for himself.
Most guys fitting the "good look" category for me usually get me running into the other direction after talking to them.
Other than that, I usually have it that someone catches my eye after talking to him. Just good looks (well I'm not blind) isn't enough if he has nothing to say for himself.
Most guys fitting the "good look" category for me usually get me running into the other direction after talking to them.
That is so true KN. I think that's why I go straight to the hands but ultimately we have to talk. The first sentence is usually enough but it's not visual which is where the animal stuff is still in control of us ie instinct.
RainComeShine: Ha ha, I think that's a USA thing. My late mum lived there for some years and told me that folk just ask out right if they fancy someone.
No opportunity missed. I passed a nice man whilst leaving a pub beside a spectacular weir yesterday. He had a camera in his hand and our smiles met. OMG if only I'd been arriving and not leaving.
No opportunity missed. I passed a nice man whilst leaving a pub beside a spectacular weir yesterday. He had a camera in his hand and our smiles met. OMG if only I'd been arriving and not leaving.
We would be a bit slower on the uptake here too.
If somebody you were passing on the street asked you out, you'd think they were crazy, and rush away!
mollybaby: Body shape first; teeth important - none rotten or missing , and that their smile reaches their eyes, and also that they have kind eyes.
don't get caught by those kind eyes Molly
mollybaby: We would be a bit slower on the uptake here too.
If somebody you were passing on the street asked you out, you'd think they were crazy, and rush away!
If somebody you were passing on the street asked you out, you'd think they were crazy, and rush away!
I thought about that one Molly. If someone were to say to me'do you fancy talking with me for a bit?' I just would but if someone says 'you have a lovely face' or 'You have lovely eyes' then I would indeed walk away at a brisk pace.
RainComeShine: That is so true KN. I think that's why I go straight to the hands but ultimately we have to talk. The first sentence is usually enough but it's not visual which is where the animal stuff is still in control of us ie instinct.
I have a body type which does it for me, but if a guy does it for me it's not important - other if it's really bad.
Letting out the "animal" from time to time isn't bad either RCS.
RainComeShine: don't get caught by those kind eyes Molly
Generally, I get it right
I've yet to meet my first psychopath with kind eyes
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