FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION (90)

Mar 28, 2015 4:39 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
RainComeShine: I thought about that one Molly. If someone were to say to me'do you fancy talking with me for a bit?' I just would but if someone says 'you have a lovely face' or 'You have lovely eyes' then I would indeed walk away at a brisk pace.



Somebody did come up to me lately, and said something like that to me.

I just smiled, said thank you, and then carried on about my business.
Mar 28, 2015 4:59 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
mollybaby: Generally, I get it rightI've yet to meet my first psychopath with kind eyes




Ello wave just passing dancing dog <---- puppy eyes grin
Mar 28, 2015 5:05 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Lookin4missright: Ello just passing <---- puppy eyes



I saud my first psycho...not my first Ozzie! doh


laugh

hug
Mar 28, 2015 5:46 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
VivianLee
VivianLeeVivianLeeLivingston, Lothian, Scotland UK16 Threads 16 Polls 249 Posts
Apparently a woman knows in 20 seconds whether she would mate with a man or not - and I say mate deliberately, because that knowing is from a very primitive part of the brain.

Of course we can and do override that instant reaction for various social reasons (he's funny and charming, or I'm lonely, or he's offering me a good time or just plain old what the hell) but that 20 seconds covers 'is he healthy, would he make strong healthy babies with me and be able to hunt for us all when I am tied to the cave with the babies'


uh oh rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 28, 2015 6:07 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
From 25 yards,...physique, from close proximity,......vibe.cool
Mar 28, 2015 6:11 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
VivianLee: Apparently a woman knows in 20 seconds whether she would mate with a man or not - and I say mate deliberately, because that knowing is from a very primitive part of the brain.

Of course we can and do override that instant reaction for various social reasons (he's funny and charming, or I'm lonely, or he's offering me a good time or just plain old what the hell) but that 20 seconds covers 'is he healthy, would he make strong healthy babies with me and be able to hunt for us all when I am tied to the cave with the babies'


That's all so true. I remember a survey done where several men were shown pics of women and the ones with the big hips won.

yay
Mar 28, 2015 6:12 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
the women that is! rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 28, 2015 7:27 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
pedalguy59: From 25 yards,...physique, from close proximity,......vibe.


Women r the same, from far off it's the looks, from near --> vibe. And it is the vibe that allows u to make the correct decision, if u r still open to it.
Mar 28, 2015 7:32 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
DertyHarry44
DertyHarry44DertyHarry44Lakeland, Florida USA91 Threads 1,102 Posts
RainComeShine: I always look at a man's hands and think 'could I let those hands touch me'.

Bizarre?


you have no face/shame on you
Mar 28, 2015 8:35 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
VivianLee: Apparently a woman knows in 20 seconds whether she would mate with a man or not - and I say mate deliberately, because that knowing is from a very primitive part of the brain.

Of course we can and do override that instant reaction for various social reasons (he's funny and charming, or I'm lonely, or he's offering me a good time or just plain old what the hell) but that 20 seconds covers 'is he healthy, would he make strong healthy babies with me and be able to hunt for us all when I am tied to the cave with the babies'

thats about 10 times longer than a man needs to decide....grin

now...back to the cave with ya!!!
Mar 28, 2015 9:19 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
cgedvr1: thats about 10 times longer than a man needs to decide....

now...back to the cave with ya!!!



I must be a man so

Because I know instantaneously if potential mating could happen grin
Mar 28, 2015 9:21 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Track16: ***Looks in mirror***
gals like u they twist hair.
Mar 28, 2015 9:23 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
krypton4925
krypton4925krypton4925delhi, Delhi India3 Posts
how about oriental men?do they walk aroung like zombies without a soul :b
Mar 28, 2015 9:44 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
mollybaby: I must be a man so

Because I know instantaneously if potential mating could happen


hhhhmmmmmmmmmm.....instantaneous mating

is there a sign up sheet for that???

wow
Mar 28, 2015 9:48 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
cgedvr1: hhhhmmmmmmmmmm.....instantaneous mating

is there a sign up sheet for that???


No, interviews only professor



Actually, I am probably the opposite of a man after all.

Men know instantaneously if they Would potentially mate.

I know instantaneously that I Wouldn't!


The rest are then interviewedwriting


laugh
Mar 28, 2015 10:18 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
mollybaby: No, interviews only
Actually, I am probably the opposite of a man after all.

Men know instantaneously if they Would potentially mate.

I know instantaneously that I Wouldn't! The rest are then interviewed
after all...ya change yer mind like a woman...lol

is there any fondeling in the interviewing process???grin
Mar 28, 2015 10:24 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
cgedvr1: after all...ya change yer mind like a woman...lol

is there any fondeling in the interviewing process???
cgedvr1: after all...ya change yer mind like a woman...lol

is there any fondeling in the interviewing process???




Yes I do grin


And no there isn'tgrin



Except for the successful candidatewink
Mar 29, 2015 5:59 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Quite awhile ago I heard of some study that claimed people are attracted to mates that share some facial similarities. Not only that, but other sources have said couples begin to look alike over time.....
Oh dear, I don't agree with the second comment but you only have to look at people and their dogs to see how true the first comment is.


dancing dog tip hat
Mar 29, 2015 6:02 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Quite awhile ago I heard of some study that claimed people are attracted to mates that share some facial similarities. Not only that, but other sources have said couples begin to look alike over time.....



Many do.

Maybe it is a combination of shared diet, lifestyle etc.

Or maybe it is that we choose people that remind us of our own family In the first place?
Mar 29, 2015 6:08 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
mollybaby: Many do.

Maybe it is a combination of shared diet, lifestyle etc.

Or maybe it is that we choose people that remind us of our own family In the first place?


That will be quite a feat with my wife. She is chinese and I am EuroAustralian. So for us to look similar, either she or I will have to undergo surgery, I think. wink
Mar 29, 2015 12:51 PM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Quite awhile ago I heard of some study that claimed people are attracted to mates that share some facial similarities. Not only that, but other sources have said couples begin to look alike over time.....


They must not have interviewed interracial couples laugh

I think if they do, then it's because after menopause, old women turn into old men rolling on the floor laughing wink
Mar 29, 2015 1:35 PM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada39 Threads 22 Polls 890 Posts
Nidifugous: They must not have interviewed interracial couples

I think if they do, then it's because after menopause, old women turn into old men

If women get menopause, what do men get?





Sports cars grin
Mar 29, 2015 1:38 PM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
postneoludite: If women get menopause, what do men get?Sports cars


laugh You know it. I see more old geezers in Ferraris here than I ever have in the past laugh
Mar 29, 2015 1:41 PM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Quite awhile ago I heard of some study that claimed people are attracted to mates that share some facial similarities. Not only that, but other sources have said couples begin to look alike over time.....
bloody hell...some where....a camel loves me........roll eyes roll eyes rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 29, 2015 1:48 PM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Definately mine,not rough,inside.
Soft like velvet.-
Mar 30, 2015 1:14 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
RainComeShine: Oh dear, I don't agree with the second comment but you only have to look at people and their dogs to see how true the first comment is.


LOL I've seen the look-alike photos of people and their pets---very funny!uncertain dancing dog very happy cats meow red nose bunny irish elephant rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 30, 2015 1:21 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Aphaea
AphaeaAphaeaAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands2 Threads 55 Posts
truheart1941: bloody hell...some where....a camel loves me........



could be worse, camels have lovely eyelashes lol
Mar 30, 2015 3:52 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
PrettyPrescious: LOL I've seen the look-alike photos of people and their pets---very funny!


yes, aren't they great.

I remember my ex husband sitting on a step with our golden labrador and the image of his thick blonde hair and dark brown eyes.

Awwww sweet?
Mar 30, 2015 5:17 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
VivianLee
VivianLeeVivianLeeLivingston, Lothian, Scotland UK16 Threads 16 Polls 249 Posts
cgedvr1: thats about 10 times longer than a man needs to decide....

now...back to the cave with ya!!!


Haha true. Male checklist (a) female (b) within preferred 20 year age bracket (c) we have a go heart wings
Mar 30, 2015 5:34 AM CST FIRST VISUAL ATTRACTION
Stedan
StedanStedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK2 Threads 1,780 Posts
truheart1941: bloody hell...some where....a camel loves me........


Make sure you get a Dromedary.....no point with the other one only gets an extra hump in life....rolling on the floor laughing

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