What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman? (148)

OFFICIALLY Closed ... but in fact rolling on unchecked !

there's nuttin wrong with it women called cougars seek out guys to take care of. besides alot of gals look 4 sugardaddies. in otherwords the door swings both ways

Do you think it's ok for a woman to be a parasite to a man? A waste of nature, as you put it?

I know, why can't I get a woman to keep me

Hi Kid--hope you get this as it is a tad later than the op. It isn't ok for either a man or a woman to be a parasite, as you say. I do believe that domestic homemaking is as valid as working a paid job, providing that is what both parties are in agreement on. The best case scenario if this is what is wanted is for the homemaker in the relationship to have at least a minimally part-time job, perhaps a day a week or two half days, so he/she has pocket money they don't have to rely on the other one for. Or, for the money-earner to actually pay the stay-at-homer an agreed upon weekly/bi-weekly amount, because home economics is a legitimate job. But you are right, it is not OK for one to just be a couch potato and a ne'er do well.

This deadbeat waste of time good for nothing layabout who sits in his underpants all day eating chocolate biscuits and drinking cider,while the rest of us work our fingers to the bone sweating blood and tears should be totally ashamed of himself.
He should be paraded in public all day long wearing a t shirt explaining how lazy he is.
Then he should be put in the stocks and have rotten fruit thrown at him until bedtime,,at which point he should have supper of bread and water before being made to sleep on a filthy mattress with only a duffel coat for a blanket...
How dare this undesirable individual breathe the same air as normal folk...
I am in all seriousness only being sarcastic here....
Whether hes lazy or not,rich or poor,being totally supported by a woman or anyone else....
I dont think its fair to assume he is either Mentally ill,,a Parasite,a good for nothing or any other of the unpleasant titles hes had assigned to him.....
I know a good few people (men and women) who are supported by theyre partners.
Doesnt make them Parasites,mentally ill etc....

I am in actual fact rather jealous of this chap....
Would love to sit in my underpants all day eating biscuits and drinking cider while a woman works her butt off to pay for the said cider and biscuits..

Tiz the allure of the chocolate digestives and cider...
Hope life is good with you 2int..

Thankyou very much 2int..
And yeah,lifes pretty good at present..

I think she needs to move on because she is making his problem hers.
An alcoholic often has what they call an enabler or facilitator and in some way it sounds like she is his enabler. What would he do if she weren't around? Find another facilitator I would think. Ps you are on to a loser trying to help.