avias: Really doesn't matter...equally okay for woman to show her interest and see what develops.
Dear Avias, It does matter a lot.I think the woman must make the {first} move and then the man will be automitically sucked into the relationship.You see, man is only a means into a relationship; its the woman who can really ignite it.So women all over the world, please help the man, because only {You} can give give love to a man. always_besides
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
always_besides: Dear Avias, It does matter a lot.I think the woman must make the {first} move and then the man will be automitically sucked into the relationship.You see, man is only a means into a relationship; its the woman who can really ignite it.So women all over the world, please help the man, because only {You} can give give love to a man. always_besides
Yes man, got it ,, but to a most discrete/distinc/tackful manner,,,
I don't think it matters but have to admit there are a few Busty Beauties on CS whom I would love to make the first move on me and to whom I would never say NO or don't stop.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
MikeD12: I don't think it matters but have to admit there are a few Busty Beauties on CS whom I would love to make the first move on me and to whom I would never say NO or don't stop.
i'm not among those few Busty Beauties,, i came from country that doesn't have too much milky way ,,,
I agree with True and think the OP is just on her begging for women to message him...lol. I think men and women give subtle clues but a man needs to make the first move. Before that obvious first move though, there has been some back and forth between the two because a man is more likely to make the first move if he feels he has a chance.
felixis99: I agree with True and think the OP is just on her begging for women to message him...lol. I think men and women give subtle clues but a man needs to make the first move. Before that obvious first move though, there has been some back and forth between the two because a man is more likely to make the first move if he feels he has a chance.
RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.
I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
Dear Avias, Avias dear, you have forgoten the story of Adam & Eve.Man was innocent, but satan incited the woman to exicte the man and the rest of humanity is history.
We're 15 years into the 21st Century and even earlier in the 20th century women could make the first move if they wanted to. Make the move or don't make the move, stop 'pfaffing' about and get on with it or move on! When in doubt leave it out, and move on!
Someone must always make a difference between relationships itself. First the kind of relation: the most know, a monogamic marriage, is not the most representant! It occurs in 20% of all relationships. The rest are polygamic. The relationships are not only biological but also cultural determined. This influences more the kind of relationship in mankind than the biological factor. "Love" is a human invention unknown in the animal world. So a poll about relationships must take more variables into account in order to give trustworthy conclusions.
Babbler: Someone must always make a difference between relationships itself. First the kind of relation: the most know, a monogamic marriage, is not the most representant! It occurs in 20% of all relationships. The rest are polygamic. The relationships are not only biological but also cultural determined. This influences more the kind of relationship in mankind than the biological factor. "Love" is a human invention unknown in the animal world. So a poll about relationships must take more variables into account in order to give trustworthy conclusions.
Babbler: Someone must always make a difference between relationships itself. First the kind of relation: the most know, a monogamic marriage, is not the most representant! It occurs in 20% of all relationships. The rest are polygamic. The relationships are not only biological but also cultural determined. This influences more the kind of relationship in mankind than the biological factor. "Love" is a human invention unknown in the animal world. So a poll about relationships must take more variables into account in order to give trustworthy conclusions.
Dear Babbler, Don't animals lick their tongues at each other? Is this not love? They might not know the meaning of the English word {love}, but affection is inborn in animals too. I found the poll to be an eye opener for me, because almost more than 70% men and women says that friendship is the first step to a good relationship between man and woman.
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Not many women can do that but then we are all different.