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#0
Dec 8, 2008 2:20 PM CSTIf a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Strawbarry
StrawbarryStrawbarryPryor, Oklahoma, USA2 Threads 4 Polls 3 Posts
StrawbarryOPPryor, Oklahoma, USA3 posts

If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you(Vote Below)

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Break up because he has no respect for you
42
45%
Stay with him and hope that he stops asking
21
22%
Do it just to make him happy
31
33%
Total Votes
94
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#1
Dec 22, 2008 3:34 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Strawbarry
StrawbarryStrawbarryPryor, Oklahoma USA2 Threads 4 Polls 3 Posts
StrawbarryOPPryor, Oklahoma USA3 posts
WOW! I really thought break up because he has no respect for you would have more votes. But, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Me, I would break up with him because that is disrespectful. Doing something that I refuse to do because I am totally against just to make him happy would make me feel like I have no respect for myself.
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#2
Dec 22, 2008 3:37 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Big_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA9,767 posts
I need to find all those women who answered they would do it just to make him happy. Especially the ones over 41 in your survey. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#3
Dec 22, 2008 3:39 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Break up with him because i'll never be enoughmoping
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#4
Dec 22, 2008 3:40 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
jampetwexford, Wexford Ireland2,549 posts
i answered- break up with him, but only if i had first told him my reasons for not wanting to do that.... could just be as simple as ' I just don't'. If he couldn't give me a rational reason why i was 'wrong' to feel that, or just didn't respect my reasons, then i would know that the relatinship had no future. there would be other areas where he wouldn't respect my feelings/ thoughts, and i can't be doing with that. I would expect the same for him
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#5
Dec 22, 2008 3:45 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia16,853 posts
More than likely I'd probably tell him to jump on his bike and start peddling.

It really depends on what it is he is asking........

But at the end of the day I wouldn't appreciate being made feel guilty for something I didn't want to do. This is a respect issue really.wine
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#6
Dec 22, 2008 3:45 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA11,581 posts
I'll honestly consider doing what someone wants, but if the answer is no he has to respect me enough to leave it at that. Who knows, I may eventually change my mind.
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#7
Dec 22, 2008 3:48 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
jbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain4,914 posts
I didn´t vote because there was not an option that suited me... asking for something is not the same as forcing you to do it. Don´t we all say that we should communicate more and ask for what you want in a relationship? So what if you have to tell him to piss of, you don´t want to do that on more than one occasion... is that enough to end a relationship???

If men ended relationships because women kept asking them to do things they didn´t want to do... well there wouldn´t be many relationships left... honey can you fix the washer... honey can you put up a shelf... honey can you.... laugh
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#8
Dec 22, 2008 3:52 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
mike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain4,110 posts
I agree with jb, there are some info missing to the question.

Instead, I have to see to my own behaviour - and I would most probably go along at least once.

First of all to get rid of her excitement in never having tried it with me and too, because I may actually like it conversing

I do not yet know all my boundaries, and I probably never will. For the one I feel strongly I can do many a weird thing I would never ever consider even doing on my own.

wine
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#9
Dec 22, 2008 3:53 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
dcj22: I'll honestly consider doing what someone wants, but if the answer is no he has to respect me enough to leave it at that. Who knows, I may eventually change my mind.


I think that's an excellent attitude, Dana.wave hug
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#10
Dec 22, 2008 3:53 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
gozoman2
gozoman2gozoman2Xaghra, Gozo Malta39 Threads 2,331 Posts
gozoman2Xaghra, Gozo Malta2,331 posts
Didn't put in a vote.....

but probably would tell the other party to F off...

yawn

takes two to tango..
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#11
Dec 22, 2008 3:54 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
mike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain4,110 posts
And to add to it - I do not expect my partner to think like me, and a no, is a no.

Something we need to learn in many situations. gift
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#12
Dec 22, 2008 3:55 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Heiress86
Heiress86Heiress86Greenlefe, Florida USA12 Posts
Heiress86Greenlefe, Florida USA12 posts
there's an alternative..its a sorta "eye for an eye" deal..he can get his wish granted only if he allows you to do something that you absolutely know he doesnt want to do. A lot of the time they guy just says screw it and stop asking after you make this offer..unless you have a stone cold freak lol
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#13
Dec 22, 2008 3:55 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan2,678 posts
No means no, I have the scratches on my face to prove itlaugh
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#14
Dec 22, 2008 3:55 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
catwomen64
catwomen64catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA15 Threads 1,628 Posts
catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA1,628 posts
Strawbarry: WOW! I really thought break up because he has no respect for you would have more votes. But, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Me, I would break up with him because that is disrespectful. Doing something that I refuse to do because I am totally against just to make him happy would make me feel like I have no respect for myself.
Me too !
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#15
Dec 22, 2008 3:58 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
pretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA2,956 posts
I ask once.....that's the end of it. It's eother a go or no go











NEXT!






I once asked a lady to get me three Tacos as she was going into Taco bell. We had been on a "date" and wanted to take something home with her(not me...lol). Since she was going in, I asked her to get me three tacos. She said get your own tacs. I said alright!dunno

About a month later, we went on another date...on the way home I stopped at Taco bell and asked if she would get me three tacos. I got my tacos!! What does this have to do with the thread??? I have no idea...just didn't know where else to post itrolling on the floor laughing
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#16
Dec 22, 2008 3:59 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
pretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA2,956 posts
I ask once.....that's the end of it. It's either a go or no go











NEXT!






I once asked a lady to get me three Tacos as she was going into Taco bell. We had been on a "date" and wanted to take something home with her(not me...lol). Since she was going in, I asked her to get me three tacos. She said get your own tacs. I said alright!dunno

About a month later, we went on another date...on the way home I stopped at Taco bell and asked if she would get me three tacos. I got my tacos!! What does this have to do with the thread??? I have no idea...just didn't know where else to post itrolling on the floor laughing
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#17
Dec 22, 2008 4:02 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
mike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain4,110 posts
Sparky55: No means no, I have the scratches on my face to prove it


uh oh

rolling on the floor laughing
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#18
Dec 22, 2008 4:04 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark4,706 posts
If u really love him and u have good time with him you will at least try what he wants and after that who knows...maybe u will like it or maybe he will stop bugging about it grin
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#19
Dec 22, 2008 4:13 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
BrEyes
BrEyesBrEyesDallas, Texas USA4 Threads 67 Posts
BrEyesDallas, Texas USA67 posts
I can't imagine my partner asking me to do something in bed which I would refuse in the first place - if/when I choose to have a lover/partner it comes with love, trust, and respect for each from each other. It includes the understanding that our intimacy includes pleasure in and for each other and neither of us would ask the other to engage in behaviors that would cause any harm to our physcial being or our relationship. Openess means you don't have to question his respect for you, hope that the stops asking, or have to submit just make him happy.
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#20
Dec 22, 2008 4:18 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA11,581 posts
Ambrose2007: I think that's an excellent attitude, Dana.



you're trying to get in on ladies night on the snogging thread, aren't you, Jeff? laugh hug
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#21
Dec 22, 2008 4:29 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
jbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain4,914 posts
dcj22: you're trying to get in on ladies night on the snogging thread, aren't you, Jeff?


I think he´s looking to be the meat in the sandwich...laugh
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#22
Dec 22, 2008 4:30 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
If you dont like his suggestions, i have a less than diplomatic solution.

Wait till hes all tired one day and relaxing in the bath, then go in all amiable, strip naked then sort of half get in the bath, then as fast as you can piss all over him.

Then when he complains he will have something to actually complain aboutlaugh

You know there's bound to be a weirdo inhere that would pay money for thatlaugh
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#23
Dec 22, 2008 4:32 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
jbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain4,914 posts
gozoman2: Agreed on this matter.....one very dear and close lady friend of mine knows quite well that if and when she decides to want to have a fling I'd be more then happy to oblige......but knowing also that the territory is a no go zone as far as she is concerned....for various reasons.....allows her to be confortable enough to sleep in my bed when she comes visiting....... knowing quite well she is safe in my house since I totally respect her wishes.

Nobody has the right to impose on others......just as much as nothing is obscene between two consciously consenting adults.


... and how nice it is when we´re feeling particularly undesirable... to know that there is a man out there who actually does want us...laugh
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#24
Dec 22, 2008 4:34 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
jbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain4,914 posts
RobbieM: If you dont like his suggestions, i have a less than diplomatic solution.

Wait till hes all tired one day and relaxing in the bath, then go in all amiable, strip naked then sort of half get in the bath, then as fast as you can piss all over him.

Then when he complains he will have something to actually complain about

You know there's bound to be a weirdo inhere that would pay money for that



That might be exactly what he´s asking for Robbie....laugh
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#25
Dec 22, 2008 4:35 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
Lovelights
LovelightsLovelightsNashville, Tennessee USA3 Posts
LovelightsNashville, Tennessee USA3 posts
I think what ever two people agree on behind closed doors is alright-remember I said what ever both agree on-but if your partner keeps asking after you say'NO' then that person doing the asking is selfish and wants there way and doesnt care what you think.
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#26
Dec 22, 2008 4:41 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
jbibiza: That might be exactly what he´s asking for Robbie....


It might be.

I know someone who was requested to do it, and she did!laugh

The man took the piss, and wanted to be peed on as well, so she pissed on him.

Personally i think i would just laugh and make comments about the aiming etc.

I'd make them so self conscious they couldn't pee.laugh
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#27
Dec 22, 2008 4:43 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
lusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland11,989 posts
I guess it depends on what he would be asking me to do.


I can't vote. dunno
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#28
Dec 22, 2008 4:43 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
gozoman2
gozoman2gozoman2Xaghra, Gozo Malta39 Threads 2,331 Posts
gozoman2Xaghra, Gozo Malta2,331 posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#29
Dec 22, 2008 4:49 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
lusciousmile: I guess it depends on what he would be asking me to do.I can't vote.


Imagine you can't do it...what will you do about itdrinking
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#30
Dec 22, 2008 4:50 PM CST If a man ask you to do something in bed and you refuse, but he keeps asking, do you
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
lusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland11,989 posts
cristina: Imagine you can't do it...what will you do about it



Depends if i'm declining out of inability, discomfort, or mere selfishness.


I still can't vote. dunno




Sis!kiss
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